I don't think the info in a persons profile has much to do with the "decline" in dogging.
I think the "decline" is more to do with the amount of performing couples becoming less, or staying the same, while the amount of guys is rising fast.
Loads of guys + the same amount of couples = "less" activity.
I also think that the "arranged" dogging (a contradictory statement.... more "arranged outdoor swinging") is suffering from this increase in potential "customers". Since many of the "arranged" meets seem to have a habit of appearing at known dogging sites, and then expect the people there to leave them alone. NO chance.
While some may think that arranged is the way forward (at least you can get home to the wife and kids on time, and no waiting) all the meets I have been present at have been somewhat uninteresting........but that may be because I knida like unplanned !
if you have an arranged meet planned...... DO NOT go to a dogging site, you'd be better off using the local police HQ carpark.
And, most of the profile info is grossly inaccurate, if there is any. At least my profile info says what I mean:
Not a rant, a statement.
With so many arranged meets taking place in daylight, it is hardly a problem for me. I'm "dark only".....it's called having some respect for the rest of humanity, that doesn't like being presented by a picnic bench with half-a-dozen guys shagging one woman. Try using nightime, or the middle of a large forest.
As for carparks being public places, that's right. That also includes their use by people for the purpose of listening to the radio, reading a paper, having a walk, taking the kids for a PICNIC on the picnic bench with loads of tissues around it....and by single guys
In my area it is in decline for a variety of reasons, apart from too many guys and very few couples (most of who use clubs now).....I won't even mention the police and their irritating policy of sending a card to the registered user of a vehicle asking what it was doing at *********location at a date and time.....I would imagine quite a few guys have had problems from that.
It'll recover. No doubt about that. Most of the guys coming into the game will just as easily go out of it when they don't get a leg-over every day....the rest will wait...as usual !
And just for the record, most of the couples I've seen in the past don't arrange things....something to do with chance, and excitement.
Oh, and I don't "DO" joining-in.....I'm "watching only"......less visits to the gum clinic.
may i throw the cat among the pigeons and suggest theres a DECLINE in allsorts of meets not just doggin and wonder if it's due to the fact that so many peeps get off sat at home watching the action on the cams in the chatrooms.
Yes.
What decline ?
I was in a carpark last night with about a dozen guys waiting....
No couple....mind you, saturday night is club night.
In any case, the increasing amount of guys "dogging" is SOLELY due to the amount of PUBLICITY.
Read through the Sports ads (yes, I know nobody reads the Sport...but for a well-sold 'paper ?)...dogging ads everywhere. And in every sex mag...and look at the amount of websites dealing with sex, all of which feature dogging somewhere.
Lastly, thankyou for your comments about etiquette. We'd all like rules to be followed, and etiquette to be observed. But they aren't, and it isn't. LOADS of guys wanting, to be basic, a shag. Then a couple show-up and it turns-out that they've arranged a show for two guys who don't even dogg that location. Am I missing something ?
If you arrange to meet someone at any known site you are NOT going to be alone, and it is a bit inconsiderate to go there and expect to be.
I'm not a swinger, never been one and never will be.
I'm a dogger.
I don't do meets.
I also don't fill-out a profile with info that others won't need, and given the notoriety of dogging, I never will. (Stan, eat your heart out)
Also, since I know several people on this site personally, I can say that many of the profiles are inaccurate....to be charitable.
Personally, I'm all for arranged meets. Just arrange them somewhere else and not near me.
If anymore arranged meets show up at the layby in DAYTIME and the couple "get on with the job" while their arrangees stand outside wanking, while the more staid members of society are walking their dogs and children in the wood, I'll phone the law myself.
The watchers have always outnumbered the do-ers, dogging is about watching, what it started as, and still continues as.
The DECLINE has been caused by the large amount of people who want sex without any ties (or cost) due to the massive publicity.
Personally, I care less.
As for not giving my name, address and location.....................who are you ?
Are you COCKSLUT, giver of love, lust sex, etc ?
Or Silvia ********, well known undercover newspaper shithead ?
At the moment there are 3 people doing the rounds of this county pretending to be "doggers".
The couple are known to be local press from northants, the single scottish guy is assumed to be police...both sets ask too many questions and do too little.
No doubt you'd love to be the NOTW centre spread, most wouldn't.
And I very much doubt if the majority of people using this particular forum are swingers....
Sorry to hear about the problems down your way but don’t take it out on us, not all people who do pre-arranged meets take gangbangs on picnic benches, perform in lay-bys in broad daylight, work for the press or are cops or even want to see a name and address in a profile before considering a meet or have no respect for the rest of humanity. Cant speak for everyone but we’re here for a little extra buzz in life and definitely not here to judge others because any activity doesn’t meet our etiquette on any label given, there's always gonna be bad eggs out there in any walk of life, that doesn't mean all are the same, like you said your not a swinger or don't do pre-arranged meets so why fill out your profile? The answer is you don't, the thread was regarding people that DO, and that don’t even have so much as a rough location in their profile never mind anything else.
We are just normal members of this site, we're not the enemy!
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As for not giving my name, address and location.....................who are you ?
Are you COCKSLUT, giver of love, lust sex, etc ?
Or Silvia ********, well known undercover newspaper shithead ?
i'm one of the very genuine swingers on here who says what they mean and mean what they could probably get 1000 names to vouch for US.
re prearranged meets, it maybe that the couple go to a well known site knowing
that if out of the 10 or so guys they have invited only two show up they can pick
from those already there to make up the numbers and still have a good time without having to go home feeling let down.
One of the reason's I suppose its in decline is the obvious which everyone already mentions, that of publicity and these unhelpful ads to mug punters. Anyone that believes in these better join the queue with those thinking telephone card ads will really lead them to former Playboy models offering their 'services'.
I think I've come to the conclusion that you're gonna be more successful as part of a couple anyway. The first time I went I 'got lucky' if you might call it that, but since then nothing and this was about 1 year and a half ago. Having said that I have pulled up to carparks with couples waiting, even bickering (!) but not signalling me as a single guy. If they're not interested, not much you can do. I know that if I'd have gone with my partner, probably a much better chance. Don't think I'd like too many guys watching me as part of a couple.
Doesn't help the type of single men turning up. One fucking penis at a site I went to recently parked his car horizontally facing mine with his lights on and then went and parked virtually on top of a couple (I nicely waited a good 10 metres away). Needless to say they fucked off after about 10 seconds.
No easy ones but something to think about
Perhaps I shouldn't mention this, again, BUT:
Your chances of scoring, guys, goes up if you're wearing a dress....along with nicely-done hair, make-up and some decent shoes....high heels a must....and be prepared to "service" both partners !
:worship: :worship: 
) on here saying as much yet you then say the above!! Slightly irresponsible of such a pillar of dogging etiquette that you seem to be condoning the very thing that puts a lot of people off known sites and onto these "pre - arranged" meets that you seem to be so verhemently against dont you think?
but perhaps if you had taken the time and bothered to read ALL of it, rather than bits you just felt like pulling to pieces you would see that I also stated it is just another label, and who cares what it is called so long as it works.
: sorry if this is so wrong.
ops: we weren't selective however, instead taking six guys on a first come first served basis..more or less..however, on the night of reckoning it soon became apparent that the desire to watch was far greater given the fluffy cushion of a distant fantasy than it was five minutes before they were due to set off for the meeting..only one of the fellas showed up..one other apologised for getting the directions wrong and we never heard again from the remainder :lol: had we done some research, we might have been more aware of who the "doers" were..as it were, we took them on trust :lol: :lol: ..