Isn't it time the dogging site INDEX was updated / revamped?
Many sites have either been closed for various reasons, or become no - go areas for safe dogging. More uptodate information is needed from, and for us all.
Rob
One answer: No.
In fact, the original producer of "the doggers guide" should be shot.
From this august publication has been spawned the legions of abject morons, driving from site to site clutching hastily printed A4 sheets featuring road maps to sexual delight.
These dogging tourists have decimated this great game.
So it wasnt Stans fault then ?
Nah...the guy's a footballer....he was probably clutching his own A4 sheets and asking for directions
Why not ignore it if you dont want to use it , or better still start your own site and have whatever you want on it ? Better still look up 'constructive criticism'
hey jomu , are you the elitist types they get at golf clubs who wants " to keep things just between us" , how do you expect couples to know where to go if there's no information.
It doesn't bother me if the index is scrapped , I know about most of the good sites anyway.
You're the type that would gladly stand by my car window if me and my wife were there , but would scowl at me the next day if I dared turn up on my own
great points cc and nutty
i also have noted the 'SH' power brokers who patronise with more than a slight snotty edge- almost like having that unhelpful person in the office on your first day on the new job
cmon people give some of us the 'benefit' occasionaly
Lets see.....until a few years ago dogging was a nice quiet hobby....virtually unknown except to those involved.
Then the inet struck....first on newsgroups, where "the doggers guide" started, then on mainstream websites...now on everything from mobile phone messaging alerts to pre-programmed GPS navigators.
As a DIRECT RESULT of all this publicity we now have parks, car parks and other places being closed in alarming numbers.
See:
And that was only the start of a large amount of attention NOW being paid to both dogging and cruising (which tend to be active in the same places)....I have been in touch with the author of the above document, and a lot of his research came from websites...including this one.
So, before you start the "ELITIST" cant and start frothing at the mouth I suggest you think.
Any couple hoping to have a quiet night shagging at one of the popular sites with just a few spectators is in for a frightening time. I suggest they ADVERTISE their availability in a particular COUNTY or two and pick a couple of guys out of the SCORES of replies they'll get. Then pick a place THEMSELVES (even then there is bound to be one who'll be texting to his mates)
A lot of the newbies about now, on here and elsewhere, just don't listen or read.
Most couples don't play with anyone except each other, but some of you guys out there just ain't interested in watching...to the extent that you try to open the doors...some guys even get really insulting if the couple won't play...
Strange, with all the advice about....
As for "how do a couple know where to go"..............................if you can find a carpark without a guy dogging it, tell me....I like rarities.
Nothing "elitist"......
Just hobby-preservation
Oh, mine's not naughty, just dirty.
Honed to the perfection of filthiness by repeatedly looking at naughty couples having sex.
It's a shit life, but someone has to do it.
And it's better me than some poor, easily-led person with a weak mind.
Oh well, it's Tuesday evening and I've just got to get cleaned-up and then out to a site and watch a new couple....who haven't decided what to do yet...as opposed to Saturday nights couple, who knew what to do and did it at great lehgth...and Thursday nights couple who put on a good show as well....
jomu , I will agree that there are some people out there who totally ignore any rules with regard to dogging but not all " newbies" are the same , in fact the very term newbies indicates someone who needs to"earn their stripes" before they are accepted.
I may be newcomer to this site but I have in fact been dogging for many years and have never approched a car without a clear signal and certainly never opened the door.
My wife and I occasionally go out and I know of quite a few " rarities" as you call them , where we go and there are very few men there , in fact we went dogging in the daytime for the first ever time last week and failed to have any spectators at all because it was so quiet. ( my wife is VERY attractive so it wasn't knowledge of dogging came from the net so it isn't all bad.
I for one don't like the set up feeling of advertising for meets as we both feel this takes the spontanaity out of dogging , there's no better feeling than being horny and just going out for a ride on the spur of the moment. Also we have never experienced someone opening our car door.
I think we all agree that people who just cruise from site to site generally making a nuisance of themselves are a pain in the arse but all I ask is don't tag every "newbie" with the same brush. It takes couples AND single men to make dogging work.
OOh I missed this one :-)
Well in I will admit to being snotty from time to time , its a personality trait that i cant deny . If you took the trouble to examine what I write though you'd find that I am never ever snotty just on the basis of their 'time served' . I rather enjoy the odd post from new people its what refreshes the air in here , but to assume that all criticiam is good because it provokes an exchange of views is also to assume that exchange of views is always good . I would suggest that the constant repetitive exchage of the same views without any constructive suggestions forthcoming is at best redundant and more likely just the ravings of someone with little positive to say .
Swinging heaven is run provided and hosted for free , almost all of its content comes from its members , including the dogging sites which can be updated by anyone using the system provided , so to join-read the list- and then condemn it , without attempting to make any suggestions is quite simply nonsense , especially after contributing so little to the community yourself .
I am not a person that subscribes to the " Top Secret" school of dogging that many doggers do , I believe that no rules should apply except those the individuals involved impose. I do however find it irritating when people have a quick scan through the list , pick a couple of sites and then after two or three visits come in here whining that they havent had the success they imagined . If they had taken the trouble to read some of the thousands of posts and experiences here before they set out they would have realised that dogging isnt a quick fix for an ailing sex life and a lack of social skills.
As for my being in some lofty position , well I didnt ride the horse in I merely climbed up on that high saddle behind the rider , so he could hear clearly what i was saying .
Peace G
Stan only jumped onto a bandwagon that was rolling....he didn't invent it and he isn't responsible for the down-side of it.
If you BOTHER to read the "Byrne report", which was PAID FOR by various public concerns you will find out that "public sex environments" (car parks and similar, to you and me) have been a concern for years...for people to imagine that problems in a country park up north are of no concern to similar down south, is to display a considerable amount of ignorance about the amount of communication between various local authorities and also police forces.
As for the "local councillors discovering they had car parks"...............hey, most of them had been cruising them for years anyway, and they only got vocal when they filled-up with guys wanting women....
Another thing about all the "new influx" is that they don't want to watch, they want to "get in there"....I was in a car park watching a small show last week, there was another guy there also....watching....when he asked me when he got to join in....I told him the couple didn't play, just showed....he was REALLY pissed....stropped off muttering about wasting his time with a pair of prick-teasers....sad guy, but just one of many now.
Anyway, who cares ?
I get what I want, and if people don't want to wait, or just watch, well......I do and will.
Fuck them anyway....
Just remember this, before you tell others about a great place you've found....tell one and you tell the world.
Ummmmm Hi and welcome to the forum would have been nice still whatever. Perhaps I was not quite fair on Stan, it was his fame and the peeps who set him up with the press who are to blame for the rapid increase of the "new breed" of doggers after it was splashed all over the national try to tell us this was not case is a little insulting. The average age of single guys dogging on the sites we went on (and they are some of the most popular ones throughout the North of England) was around 35, post Stan it's dropped down to early/ mid 20 somethings and the numbers of "doggers" shot up. The best comment on this was overheard in a pub we visited it ran along the lines of "Hey read that about the dogging thing Collymore got caught at, theres some nice quiet carparks over the tops we giving it a go when the pub shuts?" to which his 5 mates all agreed they fancied a quick shag before they went home, so is that fiction?
Yes I did bother to read the Byrne report which was only a small part of a much larger look into crime, disorder and other matters affecting the countryside which is why it got the funding, to imply it was the number one concern for them over the use of car parks for sex etc is utter nonsense. I wonder if you ever heard the radio 4 farming today program which one Sunday morning devoted a good slice of its air time to dogging. They interviewed the Author (Sensationalist twit) Park wardens, the Police and bless her cotton socks UKR. the author was preaching about prostitutes, under age girls being forced to be sex slaves and every thing else he could think of does that sound like your normal dogging site? To the Park Wardens it was nearly a joke apart from having to shift used condoms etc (doggers plz take note) and the Police apart from the usual comments about personal safety saw no real problems or to put it bluntly NO CAUSE FOR CONCERN.
I agree with the latter parts of your comments, sometimes we only put on a show and if they don't apreaciate that then they ain't got any chance if maybe next time or later we are playing.
My point is to blame the doggers guide or someone who foolisly posts details of a meet is way off line, it like Stan is only a part of a bigger problem caused by people who were never affected by our activities before the publicity but now are and the thrill seeking self centered morons who jumped on the band waggon.
Addio's and happy hunting
Clint
Perhaps you could wander over to my local country park then mate.....and have a word with the rangers.....they and the law take reg numbers of cars driving about and then the owners have a visit from the crime prevention unit.....and they have got a "no-tolerance" attitude now as well, they walk through the car park/s at night and bang on the windows and tell the occupants to get out...beds police seem to have a different attitude to yours, they were driving up-and-down a local layby (gay, dogging and tv) at 6pm and taking drivers details the week before last....they even went as far as to wander into the woods adjacent to the layby....in fact, all the known spots have regular visits...day and night..
I never pick fights.
It means I'd have to put the zimmer down and then I'd fall-over.
The law have developed a strategy...they go heavy on a location for a few weeks and then move to others and do the same....mainly they're very light on things, but there are a few who fancy themselves a bit....