I remember when i was regularly dogging a few years ago that there was far more couples etc out being watched.
i remember the thrill of going to a location hoping that you may see someone. I remember catching a glimpse of something and thinking you had done really well. I remember meeting some very nice people, male and female who were alot of fun and genuinely nice people.
these days it appears that you arrange to meet someone and then go back somewhere for fun. thats not dogging, wheres the fun in that, wheres the fun in shagging on a sofa compared to the back of a car or even the floor or a picnic table...
any thoughts love to get back to the old days. not so long ago
Yes, it's been seriously damaged by inet.
No, nobody gives a fuck.
New entrants arrange a meet over the net, then go to a park (etc) the woman gets shagged and the guys go home...
Couples who just want to shag each other get harassed and insulted, so they pack it in.
Local councils use the net to find out hot-spots in their area, from those convenient pay-sites that allow locations and times to be posted, and then close them or arrange patrols for the times given.
I was chatting to a guy last night...he had received a text message ( a shot) telling him there was going to be a gand-bang at ************** ************* at 2300z.....so he sprinted over from herts and waited....yes, no gang-bang....
And the "local vigilantes" did my car window...again....that's the price being paid for all this press attention....the local "gay" site is full of dogging cruisers....and the locals are pissed off about it all....the local park is full of 4-to-a-car doggers.....and the rangers are pissed off as well....
Had a decent show last week, going well, nice new young couple...in comes another useless shithead and sits with his lights on watching.....went over and asked him to put them off....the guy says he's got a right to watch....so I turned them off for him....on they go again...out come his keys and over the hedge with them....
And it's like this everywhere....
it used to be alot of fun. these days what happens...
if you don't have mindless little kiddies in their stolen cars having (how to drive really fast lessons) then you get idiots who go to locations ith the attitude as you say that its their right to see..
i have at times been accused as most people will have been of moving in on another doggers patch as it were. i look at it that you need to give people space however if someone is that far away that when the couple single for him to come over and he can't see because his nite sites won't go that far then its fair game.
i also have a problem with clubs that charge outrageous prices for single males.
finaly and i will then get off my soapbox. i trend i have noticed over the last few years becomming more prevalent is the COUPLES FOR COUPLES ONLY groups. i don't have a problem with this however if single fellas are respectfull and not trying to get in the car with the couples then i can't see a problem with them being veiwed at a respectable distance. alot of COUPLES FOR COUPLES meet up near the fellas then find it strange that the fellas want to watch and don't like it when they do. i have also noticed a trend of couples who seek out other couples only then to get them to join the COUPLES FOR COUPLES GROUP
dont know if i'm alone on this one
sorry for being a tad angry but dogging used to be quite a social pastime. sometimes on the odd occasion god forbid couples and singles met and no shagging took place and everyone went home happy..
well we had a terrible night(not), tonight. we were watched by 2 guys who came over to have a look , after they were invited. we gave them a very horny show, they were both polite and thanked us when we were finished and they went on thier merry way....
you might not believe this, but we managed all this fun without the use of the inet, no adverts looking for watchers and to top it all it was at a very well known site which people never seem to stop moaning about! it's not all bad, if it wasn't for the inet, we'd never of heard of dogging.
Other than when we arrange meets on here, most of the doggers we meet, don't have the internet...strangely, they seem to be the nicer, more polite guys too that protect you from the morons, when they turn up.
It hasn't for us.
When we set out to show off, we really want each other and fancy a fuck. There's been times when we've been to a site and its been over run, but we never fail to see the funny side of it. We've never had a horrible experience, but I can only put that down to the people that we are, and when we have been in other social settings and recognising a bad one. If a place seems a bit of a heat score, we wont stick around.
There's been times when we have set out, shown up at a popular place and there's not been a soul, but still, that's our choice to not advertise. We accept that and once again reason for being out is because we fancy a shag outdoors and carry on enjoying ourselves. There's also been some really fantastic experiences and been lucky enough to have a really eager audience.
I don't know if its really fair to comment though because its a different ball game for blokes. We know that we'll have fun no matter what and we don't need to wait around in a dark car park hoping for some action. I can't begin to imagine the frustration, but I suppose if you're able to shrug it off and see the humour in it, the night wont seem a total loss.
Easy words, I know.
Silky xxx
that was my opinion!!!! weve all got our own opinions aint we??
I didn't realise i would get such a response. I agree and disagree with quite a few comments however the fact that people have a genuine opinion about the subject it gratifying and makes me realise that there are still alot of genuine doggers out there.
I agree that the lines have been blured however i don't mind watching a couple if they are just wanting a bit of al fresco sex and as long as they are happy with that then wheres the harm....
I do think that dogging has changed, i suppose that it hit its high prior to mr collymore and then with the newspapers advertising sites (IN THE PUBLIC INTEREST MIND YOU) it came to the attention of the police. the thing is when i used to go quite regularly which wasn't that long ago, the police where there at times and used to chase people etc. So it does seem daft that the police want to be more visible.
Talking about lines being blurred i used to like visiting naturist beaches which also seems to have dwindled. As was said earlier about the availability of porn these days, you would think that topless beaches etc would be more prevalent. Funnily enough the last time i saw a bare boob was in asda when a very lovely mature lady was reaching into one of the freezers. FORGET ABOUT DOGGING AND NUDE BEACHES LETS ALL GO TO ASDA. (SORRY ABOUT THE ADVERT FOR ASDA) IF THE MODERATOR IS WATCHING PLEASE DON'T BAR ME FOR ADVERTISING AND NO I DO NOT WORK FOR THEM EITHER...
well we really love to visit nudist beaches, but we don't go there for dogging, just to sunbathe nude.....
i think the main problem with internet is that it has. with the help of the media, gloryfied dogging and made to look a lot more rampant than it really is. people who actually go out and sit around waiting for a glimpse will know this, but people who just see posts on forums telling of " 21 yr old hot blondes with huge boobs and wet pussies to take on all cummers" are amazed when they get there and are met with nothing more than dark carpark in the middle of the night, with no spaces left to park in. soryy to be the bearer of bad tidings, but in all our outings we've never seen a 21 yr old hot blonde out to play, let alone a 21 hot blonde nympho! but we have seen and met some very sexy cpls and had some great watchers and we've never been called timewasters and prickteasers ( to our faces anyway!)
I think dogging to a certain extent has been killed by the internet & by the dreaded mobile phone. You still get the genuine doggers who are prepared to sit at locations for hours in hope but the most popular sites that are all over the net on different web sites seem to have put couples off dogging either because they are overrun by boy racers or are put off by the hoards of doggers. By the way there seems to be a trend with new doggers that think if a couple appear they are guaranteed a shag and not happy with just a show .
I was watching a show (in a wood) when a guy started taking pics on his mobile....exit couple.
He came.
He saw.
He cocked-up.
the problem these days is that with the threat of the police taking you to court etc putting name in paper etc. then everyone has got very very edgy. understandably so in my opinion however i have not seen anyone arrested myself and talking to other like minded night owls no alot of people have seen or heard anything apart from some rumours. yes it is a threat however i remember at a beach one time when a couple were playing to the crowd and a lad went home got his camcorder came back and started taping it. absolutely amazing the couple didn't mind at all. as always the couples hold the upper hand as is right and the single fellas are willing observers . with the advent of internet balnce has changed and more single fellas than ever before.
Hi everyone,I must admit I've never seen an advert on here for the area I go dogging or by any of the couples I've met,for me not knowing who or if any couples will be there is more is a waiting game which isn't the case of a pre-arranged knowing if you will be invited to watch or join in is part of the game rather than a guarateed shag.I personally prefer it that way,I have met up with members from the lets meet forum and had lots of fun but thats not dogging,Dogging is more horny if its my twopenneth.
had a few dogging experiences but again none at the sites stated here. would never go near any site advertised on the web. I think the internet has opened up what was once a sort of secret society(maybe thats the wrong choice of words but its the best I can come up with at this late hour). now anyone with a pc has access to that society. :cry:
Hello all , I got a bit bored with SH for a bit and havent been around , but I thought id pop in and take a look tonight .
Seems like I havent been away after this thread . Some six post D'wad , five of em moaning about people who advertise ( the other one advertising) .
Some useful comments from them that know ( because they can be arsed to actually go out and find out for themselves) and the usually obvious fact that they arent taking a blind bit of notice .
Thought we all stopped rising to this bait moons and moons ago.
Anyway Dear everyone who doesnt enjoy dogging anymore .......just stop doing it then !
Peace
G
Luckily because we had also arranged to meet up with a couple of single guys we knew were genuine we still enjoyed our night out.
I dont really know that it would work!! i just thought this being (i think) the only free site that paying would keep the riff raff out that so many long serving doggers swingers moan about :D
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