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Warming the Bed
If you read the post rules you'll see your not allowed to post details of sites, you can however pm any member you like with the details, although I'd suggest a little discretion here also until you know the person your chatting too!
anyway, i'd be interested to know of your site? you sound like a lot of fun!!!
pm me soon!!
anyway, i'd be interested to know of your site? you sound like a lot of fun!!!
pm me soon!!
Hi Gurl
You certainly do seem to be a rare breed as a single girl visiting these locations but I thinks thats really good.
As for your etiquette of waiting to be approached by the people you like. Definitely! I am new to this scene aswell and at the end of the day, yes, nerves do get the better of you and I have found myself hovering out of fear on a couple of oocasions now.
The dogging rules and etiquette don't really give info on how to behave (ie no full /dimmed beams etc, or how to approach vehicles etc) - perhaps the Moderators can help us?? But I would imagine doing what you say is the best method - you will be receptive to the people you want to take things further with and hey, if you don't like them, they should be thick skinned enough to walk away.
Good luck. If your job brings you to the North West, let me nkow and I will try and get past the 'hovering' stage!!
You certainly do seem to be a rare breed as a single girl visiting these locations but I thinks thats really good.
As for your etiquette of waiting to be approached by the people you like. Definitely! I am new to this scene aswell and at the end of the day, yes, nerves do get the better of you and I have found myself hovering out of fear on a couple of oocasions now.
The dogging rules and etiquette don't really give info on how to behave (ie no full /dimmed beams etc, or how to approach vehicles etc) - perhaps the Moderators can help us?? But I would imagine doing what you say is the best method - you will be receptive to the people you want to take things further with and hey, if you don't like them, they should be thick skinned enough to walk away.
Good luck. If your job brings you to the North West, let me nkow and I will try and get past the 'hovering' stage!!
Quote by chrishants
Is there really any point in adding to the legions of single guys who are already full members of the MBB (main beam brigade), by sending site details to prospective members?
Surely what we need is more interest from couples, and to make some effort to persuade the many single guys already involved to behave more sensibly?
Chris
Well isn't that tarring everyone with the same brush? I mean I gather from your posts that you're a single too, so why not respond to regular posters here with site information. I can understand how you'd like to keep them all a secret, but not everyone asking is doing so in order to become a serial nuisance surely?
Quote by chrishants
To a large extent the net has been responsible for fucking things up at many previously popular sites, so perhaps my disclosing details of hitherto non-net sites, on here would be a rather silly thing to do?
Education, why not, I agree. But about the posting above I think it would be a mistake to post on the forum, but I don't see the harm in pm-ing people who've made a few posts and joined in.
Next week I shall be near Telford and pretty free by day. I put a request on asking for site pm's and didn't get one response. However, if I do a search on Telford I find quite a few people interested in and knowledgeable about it. Nobody can be expected to discover out of area sites without a little guidance, can they?
Mod
Quote by drexx
The dogging rules and etiquette don't really give info on how to behave (ie no full /dimmed beams etc, or how to approach vehicles etc) - perhaps the Moderators can help us??
Really? Try this http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/8277.html
It's a sticky on this very page.
Mal
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