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Hi I am 40 new to all his, bi sexual in a relationship but ok do 'sneak off' for fun with others.
hi, I have a hundred questions about all this...can a female go along and watch?on her own..or is it dangerous. I am not looking for intercourse but happy to do anything else .
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hi, I have a hundred questions about all this...can a female go along and watch?on her own..or is it dangerous. I am not looking for intercourse but happy to do anything else .

Hello!!
Yes females can go along and watch, I do! You do find yourself explaining to people that you're only there to watch however so be prepared for that if you go to places that are busy........I wouldn't say it's dangerous but you should always be aware of your surroundings, the exits and who else is around you, particularly if they are parked close to you - never tell anyone which car is yours when you're out of it.
Enjoy the dogging section!
:welcome: and enjoy.
I am a bit nervous is it best that I go with another female to watch and see what happens then? can I arrange to meet a female on here to drive to a place and take it from there redface
Iam going out now and won't be back till Sunday so will continue this conversation later
thanks everyone
I don't go out with anyone else, if you turn up with a guy you'll get people assuming there's a show to see, with another girl the reaction would probably be the same.......that's just my take on it though, you may have a different experience if you take that route (unless you intend to show)!
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I don't go out with anyone else, if you turn up with a guy you'll get people assuming there's a show to see, with another girl the reaction would probably be the same.......that's just my take on it though, you may have a different experience if you take that route (unless you intend to show)!

brave lady biggrin
Nooo, just not scared of the dark and willing to leave a car park if it doesn't feel "right"! lol (and good at driving away fast wink )
I want to show.
Hiya miss and welcome to SH and lets hope you have fun along the way wink my advice is to go dogging with somebody else either female or male whichever takes your fancy. I personally think it to be a bit unwise for a female to go on her own for her own personal safety because you dont know who you will meet. Have fun and if I can give you any advice please feel free to get in touch.
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Nooo, just not scared of the dark and willing to leave a car park if it doesn't feel "right"! lol (and good at driving away fast wink )

:giggle: :giggle: sorry but good and driving in the same sentence :shock:
derbyshire ...................... sigh
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derbyshire ...................... sigh

why the sigh pete :shock:
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Nooo, just not scared of the dark and willing to leave a car park if it doesn't feel "right"! lol (and good at driving away fast wink )

:giggle: :giggle: sorry but good and driving in the same sentence :shock:
:huh:
As soon as I get my cross county pass from JTS, you are in big old trouble mister! whip
Miss, if you want to show, I'd probably suggest getting to know some of the established guys on here, I'm sure there will be plenty willing to provide a private audience/bodyguard service!
Miss you have a PM xxx
thank you for the pms. If I go dogging with a bloke does that mean I have to have sex with him? I don't want sex with a man I am a women's women and want to lick women etc etc
Dogging's a consensual game so you set whatever groundrules you want that make you feel comfortable.......
ok well thanks everyone I am free thurs eve so I might be pming someone to go out and about with
hello and welcome to swinging heaven
:swingingchair: :welcome:
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ok well thanks everyone I am free thurs eve so I might be pming someone to go out and about with

Whilst there are many great guys on this site, personally I'd take a little longer to get to know someone that I'm enstrusting with my safety :shock: ....especially as you seem a little unsure of dogging situations e.g.
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If I go dogging with a bloke does that mean I have to have sex with him?

Sorry to be blunt, but as safety was your initial concern a little more thought can't hurt right?
You have another PM Miss xx
thanks everyone, all my pms are from men willing to take me...should I hold back a bit until I get to know some of you? I am getting excited about going and having a play with a couple biggrin
Hi Miss,I am a male but serendipity is giving you the benefit of her experience,perhaps you might consider going dogging with a couple rather than a single male,especially if she's bi then you get exactly what you want,a) with another woman,b)to give a show and c)the protection of her and her partner,I'm sure if you posted asking for a couple to take you dogging you would get a response or several,just a thought,and you only have sex when you want it and if you want it,NO means NO,don't do it because you feel obligated or because someone else wants you ,x
thanks. ok couples it is then
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thank you for the pms. If I go dogging with a bloke does that mean I have to have sex with him? I don't want sex with a man I am a women's women and want to lick women etc etc

I have been dogging for well over a year now and am still a virgin. Its your choice what you do, some people will be happy and stick with your choice, others will get pissed off and walk away, but there are plenty of very decent folk out there, and as long as you are clear with what you are after, great times are there for all.
Regards
Harry Jones
well I am available tonite if there are any couples going out
Thanks everyone for your nice posts and pms. I just need to get started now