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Not interested, trying to be polite to gays!

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I was just wondering if there is a sign or something that I am unaware of. The problem is that I am a straight guy and believe that to 'strike it lucky' at dogging sites, then you sometimes have to put the hours in waiting.
I then have the issue of gay guys out cruising believing that becuase I'm there too, then I must be up for gay action too. I am not offended in any way, although lost count of the cocks waved alongside my car window! . redface
It usually ends with me telling them I'm not there for them and they scurry off, with their tail between their legs so to speak! :shock:
I was thinking of a flash of the hazard warning lights might be the warning to let others know, I'd be interested in others comments.
Whilst I'm on any couple who would like an appreciative non pushy viewer then please make contact, Ii could do with a properly arranged meet to cut down on the endless hours and a numb bum!!! rolleyes
Take care all.
Uppy
Make friends with them.
They're an excellent source of info, so when the other doggs ignore them and go home bored maybe they'll let you know who comes when....in any case, waiting is boring.
uppy i know how you feel hun my husband has been apprached twice by gays while ive been sat next to him in the car the mind boggles,so the only advice i would ask them is i would ask please everyone no matter what you are looking for take your brains out with you. rolleyes k+c
I think you summed it up there Kissing K, thats the problem they are taking their brains out, basically in the form of their cocks! I guess horny is as horny does?
The danger to us all is check first then act, there are a lot of intolerant people out there.
Nice profile by the way, shame you're 154 miles away!!
Definately getting better with age. :P
Take care
Uppy
I hope this isn't going to start another "get the gays out of the carparks" plot.
If you can't hack it, stay home. They were there well before you were, and they'll be there after you've gone.
As for hubby getting steamed-up over being propositioned, look about you luv. read the couples profiles "Bi males. Bi females"
What do you think the "Bi" stands for ?
There are a whole raft of couples who show-up and then the woman watches while the guy plays with, or gets played with, other guys.
After they get to know you, and what you want, they'll leave you alone and find someone who does want to play with them, etc.
On the other hand, mess them about and you'll find that a gay trucker with 30+ tonnes behind him can get unreasonable fast.
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I think you summed it up there Kissing K, thats the problem they are taking their brains out, basically in the form of their cocks! I guess horny is as horny does?
Uppy

I think the problem is that men have a brain and a cock; but many have only enough blood to support one at a time.
James
Did not even go there on 'Get them out the car park', not sure how you've read into that one?
Every one to their own is what I say. We all know what Bi stands for, and I'm sure that those interested get what they want, I was merely pointing out that to have a cock waived around by my window, before the owner is aware of my orientation sexually is annoying. In exactly the same way that should I get out and get my cock out and start wanking or whatever next to a couple or single female before establishing them as doggers would be rather inappropriate, would you not agree.
The whole purpose of my post was to find out if there was some form of signal to let them know I was not gay, bi or interested in any cock fun!
How this can be considered as having a go at gays is not a viable argument.
Uppy
James
Very true, very true.
I cant find in my last post where i stated that my hubby got all steamed up,but i suppose it makes good reading .The truth is we just laugh it off ,we have spoke to a lot of men and eventually it gets round to the inevatable question what you into we tell them we are str8 and its not us who turns away and walks of muttering insults under our breath.
We have nothing against single men and we always tell them the truth but do we always get the truth back?
Most of the gays I have met have been friendly and helpful once I explain I am not gay. After all, we are all after the same thing just with the other sex.
In fact most are better behaved than the straight guys.
jesseP i understand what you are saying but that is not everyones experience , maybe gays feel more comfortable talking to a single guy i dont know, but one thing i do know is the world would be a boring place if we were all the same. I only posted our experience just like you felt you had to . Cant wait for the couples behaving badly topic wink mrs k.
KK, you start if off then, would be interested to read the tales of naughty behaviour
redface uppy that could take a life time babe off to make a start hope the book to be finished in 2010 off to make a start :notes: k.
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uppy i know how you feel hun my husband has been apprached twice by gays while ive been sat next to him in the car the mind boggles,so the only advice i would ask them is i would ask please everyone no matter what you are looking for take your brains out with you. rolleyes k+c

I quite agree. I had a similar experience whilst in the back of a car with a couple a few weeks aga locally in essex. The mind does bogal, why do they think it is ok to charge up to carrs waving their tool around like they are an extra in star wars!!!
It got so bad that the husband was that peed off with it all that we had to move to another location which cut down the play time.
This guy was bi and was thinking about getting involved but with a situation like that we could have been swamped, at least now I can really appreceiate how the ladies feel when swamped by loads of guys, allthough the attention is a confidence booster I can safely say thats it!!!!
Dave
He was probably a perfectly normal dogger.....just wanted to watch...if you don't like being watched, don't shag at a dogging site.
I should remind you that dogging is watching, most couples go out to have sex and be watched by others and don't want anyone to grope/fuck/suck them.
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He was probably a perfectly normal dogger.....just wanted to watch...if you don't like being watched, don't shag at a dogging site.
I should remind you that dogging is watching, most couples go out to have sex and be watched by others and don't want anyone to grope/fuck/suck them.

Hi Jomu
I take your point, however these guys we even less educated than me in the tactful art of dogging.
I understand the principles behind dogging and I am sure you agree that every couple has a different take on what doggin is to them. In this instance the guys were would come up to the car and asking what he was into and even after being told he was not interested and them walking away they still came back to the car to find out if he had changed his mind!!!
I can assure you that these guys were not at all interested in what was going on in the back, only in the 6.5 foot guy in the front!!!
I wish I could say that they were interested in me but alas lol they were not.
I have no problem being watched by men or women but I have to say that normally I am really relaxed but in this case it was a little unerving.
My play times are limited due to having a little boy so I have to pre arrange meets at locations to maximise time, but you are right perhaps I should chose quiter less know locations for my adventures.
I appreceiate your comments mate.
Dave
It must be common knowledge by now, surely, that all the well-known dogging sites are crowded.
Mainly crowded with numpties and fools.
In fact, the influx of newbies has been a gift to the gay crowd, new blood and new cock....
Oh well, off to tesco....
when you park up read a porn mag and show it to them before they get there brains out
rolleyes why the hell did'nt i think of that hummm im sure that would work then nobody would be affended nice one meatymeadows. k.x biggrin