Does anything actually go on in Surrey, does anyone actually meet up anywhere. I am interested to know more but without any feedback, Surrey seems to be a bit of a lost cause ... Please PM with info if you have any ...... Thanks .. Ben
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Dogging is happening in Surrey - beleive me there is action out there!
Over the past years many new ingnorant individuals have been ruining what has been a long standing pastime for many of us - I'm afraid that a few bad eggs have really pissed off a lot of people and consequently the number of shows and meets has declined, this combined with increased police activity & locked car parks has made times very hard. I see cars constantly driving around the usual sites (look at the section uk dogging sites, surrey - don't pm me for locations) shining full beams in parked cars then driving straight out only to appear 45 mins later to do the same and if there is a couple in a car then they are straight over with cock in hand - is it any wonder that people are detered from playing?
It's no good sitting at a pc whingeing that nothing happens in Surrey, you have to get out there and put in some very late nights every now and again and don't just wait for a magical email to appear telling you where and what time a gorgeous couple will be found - trust me that your hard work and dedication to the cause will bring the odd reward now and again
SC
I agree with you that the frustration in putting the hours in to be screwed up by the same cars coming in and out of car parks with lights ablaze is a pain.
But what can be done? Nothing much, not unless you discover an untouched, unknown site that you can coerse a couple too, which is a pretty unlikely event.
I have put the hours in, a few all nighters too, the rewards are few and far between. But these 'flashes' do keep you coming back for more.
I guess the bottom line is, no one has a monopoly on any public space, so its a doggin eat doggin world out there.
Just my opinion!
Uppy
I agree with you that the frustration in putting the hours in to be screwed up by the same cars coming in and out of car parks with lights ablaze is a pain.
But what can be done? Nothing much, not unless you discover an untouched, unknown site that you can coerse a couple too, which is a pretty unlikely event.
I have put the hours in, a few all nighters too, the rewards are few and far between. But these 'flashes' do keep you coming back for more.
I guess the bottom line is, no one has a monopoly on any public space, so its a doggin eat doggin world out there.
Just my opinion!
Uppy
I stopped altogether nearly 2 years ago because it became so popular in Surrey that so called secluded car parks became so busy it was hard to find somewhere to park. The idiots were out in force as the earlier poster said headlights on and straight over, very offputting for the couples.
However I must say the problem was aded to by couples advertising on sites like here with to much detail about where they were going, this brought the internet trawlers and the poloice out in force (they read these sites too you know). The best way of advertising is refer to "the usual place" or "where we were last week" etc.... this way only people who know who you are will know where you are referring to.
I did venture out again a couple of weeks back and was blessed with some good luck on the night, but usualy a lot of patience is required. But you know the waiting isnt always that bad, try socialising with some of the others waiting, you can actualy make some very good friends, I met someone the other week who still remembered me from nearly 2 years ago. I did hear from the guys there that night that things have got a bit quiter again so who knows maybe I might venture out again sometime soon.