The ideal carpark(midlands)

18 Nov 2005

CRYING OUTFOR USE
One small intimate bijou West midland carpark.
Free of boyracers.......... in fact free of anyone 99% of the time.
Country aspect but still close to civilisation
Secluded from what little passing traffic there is whilst the leaves still adorn the screening .
Capacity for approx 10-12 cars.
Ideal for COUPLES .
Excellent for first timers not wanting a potentially large audience.
PM for details ....note details will be given only to those I believe to be genuine doggers.
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Carparks strike back

18 Nov 2005

Sounds like Walsall FC's at a saturday home game! :grin:
cc_7up

18 Nov 2005

Hmmmm that sounds interesting, would you consider PM ing us the info. ? wink

18 Nov 2005

us too please, even though is a fairly sizeable area and a bit of a trek!
ta very muchly
t&d biggrin

20 Nov 2005

Quote by shad
Hmmmm that sounds interesting, would you consider PM ing us the info. ?

you have a pm smile

(my first time saying that :) )

20 Nov 2005

niceguysdoexist could you er....... please pm me details redface

20 Nov 2005

PM Me too please. hopefully not to far for me.
Cheers.

20 Nov 2005

PM me three

20 Nov 2005

No need to PM me NGDE, just dig it up and bring down here immediately :twisted:

20 Nov 2005

Quote by Serendipity
No need to PM me NGDE, just dig it up and bring down here immediately :twisted:

Well, if its that mobile, could you also please bring it up North as well lol

We could do a Swinging Heaven Road Show (or should that be Car park show)!!!!

20 Nov 2005

Please PM me as well

21 Nov 2005

Quote by Serendipity
No need to PM me NGDE, just dig it up and bring down here immediately :twisted:

Serendipity dearest I will move heaven and earth for you ...a wheelbarrow at a time ok??
Naughty Wigan couple I will bring a trailer load up north ...not exactly hardcore wink

...but it will do as a temporary pull in
Ok I will pm all respondents to this thread .
I am being selective though as to give the car park the best chance of succeeding ...so newbies will have to establish them selves on here before I am prepared to share the little gem ..
I am thinking of planting a few rose bushes to help the ambience of the place ...Dog roses maybe ??

21 Nov 2005

Quote by cc_7up
Sounds like Walsall FC's at a saturday home game! :grin:
cc_7up

I got caught by the stewards there once whilst trying to climb over the gate ...they made me stay till the end the buggers!!
The old ones are the best

21 Nov 2005

Ok 2:15am
All pm's answered :notes:
Am off to bed ....too bed ...knackered wave

21 Nov 2005

Thanks for the info we may drop by when we are looking for a drive out. wink

21 Nov 2005

Quote by niceguysdoexist
No need to PM me NGDE, just dig it up and bring down here immediately :twisted:

Serendipity dearest I will move heaven and earth for you ...a wheelbarrow at a time ok??

Yep, get digging sweetcheeks! biggrin

21 Nov 2005

Help !!
Am I too late to be told?
Please let me know..xxxx

21 Nov 2005

Yes, I'm afraid you are too late SL!
This car park has been appropriated by The People's Republic of Hertfordshire as we made Colonel Nice an offer he couldn't refuse and have now twinned it with Wigan.
It's another one of those days for me loon

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21 Nov 2005

Could you let me know the details too, please biggrin

21 Nov 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
No need to PM me NGDE, just dig it up and bring down here immediately :twisted:

Well, if its that mobile, could you also please bring it up North as well lol

We could do a Swinging Heaven Road Show (or should that be Car park show)!!!!
In fact can you do a UK tour and sell tour tee-shirts etc LOL
Seriously, a PM with the info update would be most welcome here too. Cheers.

22 Nov 2005

Quote by Serendipity
Yes, I'm afraid you are too late SL!
This car park has been appropriated by The People's Republic of Hertfordshire as we made Colonel Nice an offer he couldn't refuse and have now twinned it with Wigan.
It's another one of those days for me :color:

Serendipity you naughty girl smackbottom

This carpark is for the people and is cited in the middle of the country (where the national foot ball stadium should have been mad

) which is geographically as democratic as I could make it!!!!!!
It's just a coincidence it is not far from me . redface

SL you will shortly have a pm as will others on this thread I haven't responded to .

22 Nov 2005

Quote by niceguysdoexist
Serendipity you naughty girl

Sorry, couldn't help myself :twisted: lol

22 Nov 2005

Quote by Serendipity

Serendipity you naughty girl

Sorry, couldn't help myself :twisted: lol

but could I help myself??? :twisted:

22 Nov 2005

Quote by niceguysdoexist

Serendipity you naughty girl

Sorry, couldn't help myself :twisted: lol

but could I help myself??? :twisted:
Is there still room on the car park nicey, or is it full confused

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22 Nov 2005

At the rate things are going this is going to be the busiest car park in the Midlands and there wont be room to move. You will have to operate a pay and display with a maximum time allowed.

22 Nov 2005

Thanks for sending the info, NGDE
Unfortunately, it's well over an hours drive for us to get there, and only 30 mins to our current Dogging location, so for the time being we'll stick with what we know.
Good luck with turning it into a viable site, though.....................and come the summer we might just see you out there wink

22 Nov 2005

hope im not to late or to far away pm me please

23 Nov 2005

Niceguys - one suggestion I would make, in case you are getting applications from around the country. Please make sure that everyone is conversant with "the ways and means" of how dogging is done in the Midlands. Some of the best known dogging spots in the area have become a part of dogging history, because they became dogging tourist attractions, with people travelling from all over the country to visit, bringing as many ways of doing dogging as there were places from which they originated from. The end result was that the local couples got spooked by behaviour that would be considered normal elsewhere in the country, and stopped going.
Lets at least know what couples like to see happen, and make sure that the guys know what that is so that things can work out in harmony.

23 Nov 2005

Quote by partyman
Niceguys - one suggestion I would make, in case you are getting applications from around the country. Please make sure that everyone is conversant with "the ways and means" of how dogging is done in the Midlands. Some of the best known dogging spots in the area have become a part of dogging history, because they became dogging tourist attractions, with people travelling from all over the country to visit, bringing as many ways of doing dogging as there were places from which they originated from. The end result was that the local couples got spooked by behaviour that would be considered normal elsewhere in the country, and stopped going.
Lets at least know what couples like to see happen, and make sure that the guys know what that is so that things can work out in harmony.

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Hi partyman...not sure how to respond to this rolleyes

. I don't think it's my place to be prescriptive on how others do their dogging . I certainly would not be so presumptuous as to imagine I knew what couples wanted ....they will all be individual in their tastes.
I would only add that if this site is to become worth a visit then all attending must hold one principle in mind and that is that respect for the wishes of others is uppermost in their mind and not the grabbing of a selfish moment of pleasure . I am trying to achieve that aim by releasing details only to people who seem to have established themselves on here over a reasonable time period and have posted sufficiently for me to have at least a reasonable idea that they are not complete wankers wink

23 Nov 2005

I know it's a tricky one, but communication is the key I think. And in dogging, it's "body language" that counts. As examples...
In most parts of the Birmingham area, what doggers do, and what couples expect of them is to drive up alongside a car and wait for a couple to get going. When people appear out of the bushes, the couples tend to get spooked.
I did the "Brummie thing" once down London, and got severely threatened by some of the locals because that was considered to be unacceptable behaviour. There, much to my amazement, all the doggers were parked up and gathered like in a picket line in the middle of the car park, by the entrance drive so that they could peer into the windows of incoming cars to see who is in it. THAT was considered to be normal and acceptable. Yet when some truckers do that same technique outside the height barrier of my local car park the couples that drive into the car park drive straight out again out a feeling of sheer intimidation (I've spoken to some of them, and whether it's right or wrong, it's how they feel)
In other parts of the country, it's common for doggers to take advantage of bushes and trees, dress up on army camo gear and act all sneaky beaky.
So, now you get a mix of doggers from all over the country in one place...
Now imagine you are a Brummie couple, and are used to cars pulling up quite visibly by the side of you, and knowing who is around you, then finding out that you are surrounded by others who have crawled out of the undergrowth ...you are in a dark unfamiliar car park...and the safety first instinct combines with the fear of the unknown, what do you think will be the result? Or scenario 2, you are a London couple, and you get a car pull up alongside you...see what I mean?
I'm only saying this because the lack of a common standard, and everyone doing their own thing has ruined dogging spots in the past, and I'd hate to think that lessons cannot be learned from previuos mistakes.
I agree it's a matter of being respectful, but the showing of respect is done differently around the country, and one man's respect is another man's insult.

Quote by niceguysdoexist
I don't think it's my place to be prescriptive on how others do their dogging . I certainly would not be so presumptuous as to imagine I knew what couples wanted ....they will all be individual in their tastes.

I assume that you have the list of people who you've told about the place, why not communicate with them to see what the "average" practises are that they are used to and then let everyone else know what to expect. That way if someone comes from an area where people do X but you know that most of the people in your list do Y, that you can inform the people not to expect X and not to worry if they see Y occur?