it seems that the general opinion here,is that many couples are abandoning the dogging scene,various reasons are given,mainly that mainstream venues have reached saturation point,due,no doubt,to media sensasionalism and internet have come across,(notice i resisted,cum across)many couples drawn to dogging through the same media,but,obviously for every new couple,there will be 200 single is usually assumed that fleeing couples are finding sanity and sanctuary in the club-scene,or,simply arranging private ,i'm sure both these options have been found to work for some couples,but,for us,and i'm sure a majority of couples,these outlets dont offer the same level of spontaneous exhibitionism or more,that dogging does? isnt it more likely,having learned the painfull lessons of sharing the "good news",that couples have moved on to unpublised venues,with small,respectfull audiences and participants,that will keep tight lipped in future?this might be an over simplification,but driving into a small woodland carpark the other night,i was gobsmacked to see 4 couples,1 single female/convincing tv and only 5 guys,yes,it could have been a private meet,but i wont be posting the location,just in case!!
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vanishing couples?
Umm, spot on I feel. When me and the missus went out recently to a VERY well known site near to Lowestoft, we parked up and was decended upon by a legion of guys...that was the last straw for us and now we arrange meetings at a place we have found in Lowestoft that's unspoilt. We have since found out that the 'locals' here use mobile phones to contact other doggers as soon as a couple is spotted meaning a small gathering of a few guys can quickly turn into a few hundred !....
So all in all, yes, having found a new spot, and only doing arranged meetings is the only way around these parts.
So all in all, yes, having found a new spot, and only doing arranged meetings is the only way around these parts.
hiya accidental,yeah,yours is a case in too have witnessed that mobile phone scenario,wherby groups of doggers have an agreement to contact others in the group,informing them of pending seems so counter productive though,the groups just get bigger and all so organized too,groups put forward scouts out to monitor movements,its like a military excersise mate!!anyway,glad ur both finding good action aint a million miles from lowestoft ourselves,maybe you could pm us sometime,we will give you a look? have fun.
Warming the Bed
Judging by the luck we have had lately it seems that pre-organised meets are the only way to go (for us anyway 
) as on our first visit to a well known spot in Dartford, our car was surrounded by 4 guys in about 5 mins. This was quite off putting, as we are both fairly new to the dogging scene and was really hoping that there would be at least another couple there. Last night we decided to go to a not so well known spot off the M20 and no one else was there for the hour that we were there 
(well - not that we know of anyway!)
D&A
) as on our first visit to a well known spot in Dartford, our car was surrounded by 4 guys in about 5 mins. This was quite off putting, as we are both fairly new to the dogging scene and was really hoping that there would be at least another couple there. Last night we decided to go to a not so well known spot off the M20 and no one else was there for the hour that we were there (well - not that we know of anyway!)D&A
Well being surrounded by a few legions of guys with their proud manhood stuffed against our windshield is a tad off putting for the wife...we were somewhat attracted to the unexpected side of things..."will anyone be there ?", "will I get to see a really big one ?" <- ( that's in my wifes case you understand). It was the unexpected part of it that was a thrill as well as being watched and watching so pre-arranging things take the edge off for us a bit but looks like it's the only thing to do.
Oh, and just for a giggle, I was coming home from a day away at another office when I stopped at another site on the suffolk coast ( NO I'M NOT MENTIONING IT...but most of it sunk in the sea and was a big sea port in the middle ages..), anyway, no one there so took my chance to releave myself in the bush...came back to the car when I noticed 1 car next to mine parked on the drivers side..( hoho I think, can have some fun here )...so I crawl up to the passenger side of my car and starts to looking in....within 5 minutes 3 cars arrive firing their main beams at me..christ it looked like a scene from Close Encounters the amount of light hitting me...1 of the guys came up to me, looked into an empty car and said something along the lines of F****** P*** and all cars left...o well, I thought it was funny.
Anyway, yes back to the point...we need to get the fun back into our "sport" again, before the idiots spoil it.
Oh, and just for a giggle, I was coming home from a day away at another office when I stopped at another site on the suffolk coast ( NO I'M NOT MENTIONING IT...but most of it sunk in the sea and was a big sea port in the middle ages..), anyway, no one there so took my chance to releave myself in the bush...came back to the car when I noticed 1 car next to mine parked on the drivers side..( hoho I think, can have some fun here )...so I crawl up to the passenger side of my car and starts to looking in....within 5 minutes 3 cars arrive firing their main beams at me..christ it looked like a scene from Close Encounters the amount of light hitting me...1 of the guys came up to me, looked into an empty car and said something along the lines of F****** P*** and all cars left...o well, I thought it was funny.
Anyway, yes back to the point...we need to get the fun back into our "sport" again, before the idiots spoil it.
Sex God
Quote by O.K.
There should be a limit on the number of Voyeurs allowed round a car at any one time, and if it is abused then the couple concerned ought to drive away, because this crowding is ruining what once was an enjoyable, harmless, pastime.
It is up to the couple concerned to set the limits of how many guys they will allow around their car.
Several months ago we quite often got up to 10 guys at the car within minutes of arriving. We simply asked them to move away and usually they would.
Having too many guys at the car could be awkward if a police car drove into the park. If just one or two, you could get away with saying you were chatting, but 10 guys? No way! :shock:
They spolit it for themselves but sadly we seem to be stuck with them locally so we now go more for arranged meets instead.
Sometimes we would prefer more spontaneuos fun but at least with arrangements you can be sure you won't be overcrowded
Tracy-Jayne & Jon
Sex God
Quote by dirtydoggers
it seems that the general opinion here,is that many couples are abandoning the dogging scene,various reasons are given,mainly that mainstream venues have reached saturation point
not us!
Sex God
OK, good idea. Let's limit the amount of voyeurs allowed around a car at any one time.
Any advance on 100???
Any advance on 100???
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
OK, good idea. Let's limit the amount of voyeurs allowed around a car at any one time.
Any advance on 100???
I agree and think we should adopt the same system that Tesco's uses at the Deli counter. You know, the ticket dispenser? We could also have a 'Please queue here' sign (perhaps dimly lit so people could see it and line up in an orderly fashion, but not too bright that it attracts moths)
hey,accidentalvoyuer,we came unstuck with the big cock thing the other night mate!we usually get rid of guys the missus aint interested in by giving it the "she's only interested in really big ones boys,sorry".at which,this young lad unzips and unleashes,furkin hell man,i swear it started crawling along the ground!!he had more to shag with than i've got to walk with!!anyways,i style tickets are an option,as would be the argos type speaker system,"dogger number three please",but,the system i would like to implement would be,all watchers must be de-bagged,any that lose their erections are eliminated,as this would be disrespectful to the couple,however,if all voyuers "lost wood" it would be deemed the couples fault,whom,thereafter would only be permitted to "show" on of which,anyone in the east of blighty up for a "witches and warlocks"2 bash in october,complete with sacraficial picnic table?i am looking thru the bottom of a wine glass,but it could be fun?
