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whats your view on women that go dogging?

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I have been totally demoralized by a man that goes dogging..all his thoughts of us women is that we are slappers and easy lays and up for a shag with any one!.
I am very sure that all men are not like that...................but its these types of man that make a bad name for others!.........
so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?
Quote by Debbiewebs
I have been totally demoralized by a man that goes dogging..all his thoughts of us women is that we are slappers and easy lays and up for a shag with any one!.
I am very sure that all men are not like that...................but its these types of man that make a bad name for others!.........
so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?

One word.... "Admiration"
Ive been out dogging a fair few times with my partner and have always been treated with respect. All the guys have been very pleasant and non pushy, in fact several times ive had to persuade them to come and play as they have been too shy in coming forward.
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I have been totally demoralized by a man that goes dogging..all his thoughts of us women is that we are slappers and easy lays and up for a shag with any one!.
I am very sure that all men are not like that...................but its these types of man that make a bad name for others!.........
so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?

One word.... "Admiration" i agree
you ladies must be one thing or the other in my opinion,
very brave if alone or
confident in your relationship if a couple
wink
SURELY !!!!
we are all consenting adults ..doing what we freely want to do
so if men make negative comments about women going dogging
1. women will stop going = end of dogging
2. sexist
men want to play/poke/fcuk anything if we honest
so maybe we are all loose slappers then
It sounds like he has an antiquated view of women full stop Debz, regardless of whether they're dogging, choosing to have sex when and where they want or doing well in their career!
I wouldn't give his opinion a second thought and would rethink giving him your time....not with those kind of double standards. I guess he has no objection to watching or having sex with these "slappers" though eh? rolleyes
I see women that go out dogging as people that are justout enjoying life to the full. They certainly arent slappers but unfortunately there is trend going round at the moment were certain doggers think that any woman/couple that turn up at dogging sites guarantees them a shag. There seems to be a total lack of repect at the moment my last dogging experiencewas just a show and when they had finished they let me know I thanked them and walked away. I am just as happy just talking to couples/women if that is all they want there should be no guarantees of anything unless they offer with no pressure from doggers.
Hi,
It sounds a very old-fashioned bigoted view. He seems to think it is ok for him to go out looking for sex with lots of strangers, but he seems to believe it is a wrong for a woman to enjoy herself in whatever she wishes.
I shouldn't take much notice of it. I think most people on here would agree that we have the utmost respect for ladies who go dogging.
Charlie x
i love women who go dogging
theres not enough single women who do it
but i understand that nowadays women have to be more careful
if any single women wanted a lift sometimes i would be more than happy to oblige
People run away when I go dogging/cruising.
Don't know why dunno
:lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
Blue
you will have to venture over the pennines - think we might be a bit braver over here.
I am sure that I wouldn't run away, well unless you were running after me with a big dildo in your hand - that is a bit scarey!
out dogging
blues just come to the car park bolt
only kidding you should get out more often
your a pussy cat really lol
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so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?

Rarely confused
debbie
a woman out dogging is just only a woman expressing her sexual preference
if a woman likes dogging and wants men to join in i dont see why people should have a problem
if a man goes out and has sex with loads of women he is a stud
i can feel the old debate about double standards starting again
personally I don't think that this subject is just related to dogging, I think that it is just how they are in everyday life and how they see women as a whole!
this is just my opinion but alot the guys that go out dogging
1- think it is a god given right that they should get some action every time they go out,
2 - expect the women to drop at their knees and give them what they want and expect to do nothing in return,
3 - can't understand what the couple don't always find them attractive,
4 - most likely have no respect for women in everyday life, and see them as people that cook and clean.
5 - Go home at the end of their dogging (after getting stuck in traffic or at a business meeting!!!) and get in to bed with their wife expecting her to do what ever he asks!
This is just my opinion and now offence attended to any genuine doggers but I have seen many a good night ruined by the people that don't understand one simple word "RESPECT" - if you don't have it don't bother going. At the end of the day it is up to the women not the man who they have sex with!!!!
My bit of rant over!
I agree with you 100% dan.
women are human so whatever they like they do like everything a man does is not slaggy so that sometimes double standards . Guys if they and there partners like and accept it who are we to argue there enjoying themsleves and so are we. As long as you are happy thats the important thing name calling is just poeple who are jealous or do not understand or are making absouloute idiotsof themselves in the first place and if they want to be like that leave them to it they get nothing lol :P
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women are human

NO! :shock:
rotflmao
Quote by bluexxx
women are human

NO! :shock:
Can I just disagree with you on that one Blue, I know it isn't a good idea disagreeing with a Mod but! :shock:
Women are human 3 weeks out of 4, that 1 week they become non human spending machines! think I have that the right way round!
rotflmao
your on your own with this one dan
its was him blue bolt
lol :lol: :lol:
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your on your own with this one dan
its was him blue bolt
lol :lol: :lol:

I think my NO! was closer to the truth than Dan's
OK, I know where the bus stop is :uhoh:
No sorry I have to correct myself on that last post!!
1 out of 4 weeks they are human the other 3 they are crazed non himans with a liense to spend money!!!
:shock: No offence ment
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a liense to spend money!!!
:shock: No offence ment

It's not a licence to spend money!!
It's an art form! lol
I agree with the earlier comments that this disrespect towards the ladies is spreading. I hear the word "slut" far more than I like these days.
However, it is apprent that this type of behaviour doesn't come from the established doggers but more from those who are out for a quick shag whilst their wife is putting the kids to sleep or whilst he claims he has gone to the pub for last orders.
I admire women that go dogging, there is nothing sexier than a lady who knows what she enjoys and then goes and does it.
Those who disrepect the ladies are invariably desperate. Unfortunately, the publicity that dogging has received has alerted the depserados to another potential path to satisfy themselves.
Ignore them and enjoy yourselves, you can never get the time back again.
Joe
We go dogging from time to time as a couple..... hubby always there to look after me. But really I don't need looking after. We have never had cause for concern....MMMMmmmmm except on the first night - boy that was scarey !! but we soon got over it and have met some cracking folks, boys n gals..... Long live dogging!!
if this bloke thinks like that he should stop going dogging and stay in on a night and chain his wife to the sink. with his out of date veiws
I have been totally demoralized by a man that goes dogging..all his thoughts of us women is that we are slappers and easy lays and up for a shag with any one!.
I am very sure that all men are not like that...................but its these types of man that make a bad name for others!.........
so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?[/q
DOES IT REALLY MATTER WHAT A FEW IDIOTS THINK!!!!!!!!!
The world is full of narrow minded fools who scorn what they don't understand
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a liense to spend money!!!
:shock: No offence ment

It's not a licence to spend money!!
It's an art form! lol
I have to agree with you on that Serendipity and I bet you have a Masters Degree in it as well! :lol: