I know women are needed to make a dogging an event - I quote somebody, 'No Woman No Dogging' but is there ever such thing as woman doggers?
Even if there is, are this mostly watcher women who have turned up with a male partner?
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Woman Doggers, How Common Are They?
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Excuse me, I'm not common........I was brought up proper!! :P
So yes, there are women who dog rather than show and no, I don't turn up with a male partner
Sorry I thought all the doggers here were men but still most of them are. You don't need to be brave to go alone?
I was thinking of danger not from the genuine harmless doggers but from other intruders e.g. drunk boy racers, rapists, drug dealers...who know what. Perhaps this is why the police try to get involved for people's own safety since there is no guarantee things won't go out of hand.
What are the people who provide the sex show inside their car called?
Quote by lusty_modesty
Sorry I thought all the doggers here were men but still most of them are. You don't need to be brave to go alone?
Not brave necessarily but confident, aware, alert, cautious, and careful about the choice of dogging locations.
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I was thinking of danger not from the genuine harmless doggers but from other intruders e.g. drunk boy racers, rapists, drug dealers...who know what. Perhaps this is why the police try to get involved for people's own safety since there is no guarantee things won't go out of hand.
Answers as above really, I don't bother with super busy sites so most of the people you listed have no reason to be there and I know how to protect myself. To be honest Lusty, there's no guarantee that a night out in town won't get out of hand if the wrong people are there!
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I know women are needed to make a dogging an event - I quote somebody, 'No Woman No Dogging' but is there ever such thing as woman doggers?
Even if there is, are this mostly watcher women who have turned up with a male partner?
My wife will often go dogging while I remain in the car waiting as my legs are not up to much. Sometimes she will pair up with one of the local doggers who may be nervous of gary boys or something.
old couple
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My wife will often go dogging while I remain in the car waiting as my legs are not up to much. Sometimes she will pair up with one of the local doggers who may be nervous of gary boys or something.
old couple
From your username, you imply you're old and yet you feel it's safe enough to go dogging. Just wondering, does your wife get VIP treatment with polite doggers stepping aside a little for her to get a decent view of the show, presumably it's usually inside a car. I would have liked to get to know you personally, it's not everyday you meet an old couple like you doing what you do. I'm so enthralled.
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My wife will often go dogging while I remain in the car waiting as my legs are not up to much. Sometimes she will pair up with one of the local doggers who may be nervous of gary boys or something.
old couple
From your username, you imply you're old and yet you feel it's safe enough to go dogging. Just wondering, does your wife get VIP treatment with polite doggers stepping aside a little for her to get a decent view of the show, presumably it's usually inside a car. I would have liked to get to know you personally, it's not everyday you meet an old couple like you doing what you do. I'm so enthralled.
We have not always been old;-) We have been swinging before the term was in comon use. My wife is usually the one who gets couples going. The doggers like her to approach a couple who seem nervous. There is nothing to be afraid of as gary boys are but children and most doggers are polite and respectful or they get the elbow;-)
old couple
i don't think women dogging on their own is very common, (from what i've seen) but there are plenty who go out with their partners.
I'm a woman who goes out to meet for "dogging" both with my boyfriend and on my own, but i'm not much of a voyeur, i'm always there for the action! -does that make me a dogg-ee rather than a dogger?? lol
I'm a woman who goes out to meet for "dogging" both with my boyfriend and on my own, but i'm not much of a voyeur, i'm always there for the action! -does that make me a dogg-ee rather than a dogger?? lol
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We have not always been old;-) We have been swinging before the term was in comon use. My wife is usually the one who gets couples going. The doggers like her to approach a couple who seem nervous. There is nothing to be afraid of as gary boys are but children and most doggers are polite and respectful or they get the elbow;-)
old couple
Yeah I had it figured too that you had started swinging way back..........
Interesting you should say that, I was about to say that if I was thinking of putting up a dogging show myself, I too would be soothed by your wife doing the goading...as opposed to group of strange men from outer space. You're from such an interesting world.
I think couple put on the show because of the great adrenalin rush it gives back to their otherwise stagnating sex life. Women who have sex with the doggers are another ball game though, not for me.
Sex God
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think couple put on the show because of the great adrenalin rush it gives back to their otherwise stagnating sex life. Women who have sex with the doggers are another ball game though, not for me.
whooooooooa
just a minute if im reading this right, stagnating sex life????? no way, best sex ive ever had is with rose this last twelve months, staggy sex life yes not stagnating!
do i assume anything other than the missionary is what couples do till things go pear shaped? when they move to the spoons or doggy stile ,the sex is going down hill??
dogging is just another branch of a sexual adventure for us, it certainly isnt a remedy for a problem!
staggy hoping he has misread your post
xx
Quote by lusty_modesty
I think couple put on the show because of the great adrenalin rush it gives back to their otherwise stagnating sex life. Women who have sex with the doggers are another ball game though, not for me.
You are so far off the mark. Maybe you should keep your opinions to yourself until you know what you are on about.
Not worth further comment.
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We are a couple from would love to be dogged by a couple of women...maybe a little participation....Maybe a private show.....get in touch if ur interested...
I'll send some pics...
And again..........not every female dogger is particpating or showing, not all women who show will offerparticipation and those who do are not a guaranteed shag every time.
Sex God
One dark night, when I was in foreign parts I glimpsed a single woman dogger, and have heard tales of other plus of course the posts on here from Serendipity (will I ever get to meet her : )
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i don't think women dogging on their own is very common, (from what i've seen) but there are plenty who go out with their partners.
I'm a woman who goes out to meet for "dogging" both with my boyfriend and on my own, but i'm not much of a voyeur, i'm always there for the action! -does that make me a dogg-ee rather than a dogger?? lol
It makes you very interesting but unfortunately also very far away from us:-(
old couple
Quote by edgarcase
We are a couple from would love to be dogged by a couple of women...maybe a little participation....Maybe a private show.....get in touch if ur interested...
I'll send some pics...
Very often if you use dogging places that garyboys go to you will see there are girls in pairs or more following or being followed by the lads. They are always much more mature and interested than the boys and many we have spoken to were really desperate to see a performance without being involved. Our crowd wouldn't oblige them unless they took part;-)
old couple
Quote by lusty_modesty
We have not always been old;-) We have been swinging before the term was in comon use. My wife is usually the one who gets couples going. The doggers like her to approach a couple who seem nervous. There is nothing to be afraid of as gary boys are but children and most doggers are polite and respectful or they get the elbow;-)
old couple
Yeah I had it figured too that you had started swinging way back..........
Interesting you should say that, I was about to say that if I was thinking of putting up a dogging show myself, I too would be soothed by your wife doing the goading...as opposed to group of strange men from outer space. You're from such an interesting world.
I think couple put on the show because of the great adrenalin rush it gives back to their otherwise stagnating sex life. Women who have sex with the doggers are another ball game though, not for me.
Not at all. Couples who go dogging are the ones whose sex life has not stagnated. We have been swinging for more than 30 years and even though we are both pretty knackered now we still have a very strong sex life although not so energetic obviously. Dogging is our hobby and we have a collection of pics of girls and even voluntary gang bangs too. Girl on girl is our favourite and we have plenty of them too;-)
old couple
Quote by Serendipity
We are a couple from would love to be dogged by a couple of women...maybe a little participation....Maybe a private show.....get in touch if ur interested...
I'll send some pics...
And again..........not every female dogger is particpating or showing, not all women who show will offerparticipation and those who do are not a guaranteed shag every time.
Yes that is a fact. Many doggers are into masturbation more than bonking where we hang out. Fortunately no woman goes without as my wife takes care of that;-)
old coupe
Sex God
Quote by lusty_modesty
What are the people who provide the sex show inside their car called?
Having fun? Why does there need to be a label?
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think couple put on the show because of the great adrenalin rush it gives back to their otherwise stagnating sex life. Women who have sex with the doggers are another ball game though, not for me.
whooooooooa
just a minute if im reading this right, stagnating sex life????? no way, best sex ive ever had is with rose this last twelve months, staggy sex life yes not stagnating!
do i assume anything other than the missionary is what couples do till things go pear shaped? when they move to the spoons or doggy stile ,the sex is going down hill??
dogging is just another branch of a sexual adventure for us, it certainly isnt a remedy for a problem!
xx
Well thank god you’re the lucky ones that your sex life has always been fantastic…and thanks for setting the record straight but no thanks for the tone of your defense that only reveals your immaturity that just doesn’t fare up well with the sort of reply you get from Oldcouple and Serendipity. Have the public hurt you so much to make you this insecure to reply the way you do?
If this is the sort of attitude you have, how do you expect couples whose sex life are stagnating (shit really does happens) to consider dogging. Drawn from your example, it could lead to conclusion that if your sex life isn’t great anyway, then dogging isn’t going to make any difference to these stagnating couples. If this results in less dogging conversion, then I’m sure doggers would have something to worry about.
Or am I make the assumption that there are enough of your 'superior type' to keep the country, dogging happy. Fair enough, then I won't go preaching dogging on stagnating couples, so all you husbands out there...lock your wives at home and join the ever increasing doggers crowd.
Sex God
Quote by lusty_modesty
think couple put on the show because of the great adrenalin rush it gives back to their otherwise stagnating sex life. Women who have sex with the doggers are another ball game though, not for me.
whooooooooa
just a minute if im reading this right, stagnating sex life????? no way, best sex ive ever had is with rose this last twelve months, staggy sex life yes not stagnating!
do i assume anything other than the missionary is what couples do till things go pear shaped? when they move to the spoons or doggy stile ,the sex is going down hill??
dogging is just another branch of a sexual adventure for us, it certainly isnt a remedy for a problem!
xx
Well thank god you’re the lucky ones that your sex life has always been fantastic…and thanks for setting the record straight but no thanks for the tone of your defense that only reveals your immaturity that just doesn’t fare up well with the sort of reply you get from Oldcouple and Serendipity. Have the public hurt you so much to make you this insecure to reply the way you do?
If this is the sort of attitude you have, how do you expect couples whose sex life are stagnating (shit really does happens) to consider dogging. Drawn from your example, it could lead to conclusion that if your sex life isn’t great anyway, then dogging isn’t going to make any difference to these stagnating couples. If this results in less dogging conversion, then I’m sure doggers would have something to worry about.
Or am I make the assumption that there are enough of your 'superior type' to keep the country, dogging happy. Fair enough, then I won't go preaching dogging on stagnating couples, so all you husbands out there...lock your wives at home and join the ever increasing doggers crowd.
wtf" tone of my reply" can we have a mods judgment on my tone of reply please as i fail to see where i was anything but to the point with what i said ," superior" what the fluck????? "insecure" wtf" hurt by the public" wtf
all i was saying in a polite manner ,imho, was. well what i said above , maybe some people do go dogging for all sorts of reasons but and this was my point not all do to improve a flagging sex life, oh yeh and btw my sex life hasnt always been great im sad to say but it damn well is now.
staggy :confused:
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Well thank god you’re the lucky ones that your sex life has always been fantastic…and thanks for setting the record straight but no thanks for the tone of your defense that only reveals your immaturity that just doesn’t fare up well with the sort of reply you get from Oldcouple and Serendipity. Have the public hurt you so much to make you this insecure to reply the way you do?
If this is the sort of attitude you have, how do you expect couples whose sex life are stagnating (shit really does happens) to consider dogging. Drawn from your example, it could lead to conclusion that if your sex life isn’t great anyway, then dogging isn’t going to make any difference to these stagnating couples. If this results in less dogging conversion, then I’m sure doggers would have something to worry about.
Or am I make the assumption that there are enough of your 'superior type' to keep the country, dogging happy. Fair enough, then I won't go preaching dogging on stagnating couples, so all you husbands out there...lock your wives at home and join the ever increasing doggers crowd.
wtf" tone of my reply" can we have a mods judgment on my tone of reply please as i fail to see where i was anything but to the point with what i said ," superior" what the fluck????? "insecure" wtf" hurt by the public" wtf
all i was saying in a polite manner ,imho, was. well what i said above , maybe some people do go dogging for all sorts of reasons but and this was my point not all do to improve a flagging sex life, oh yeh and btw my sex life hasnt always been great im sad to say but it damn well is now.
staggy :confused:
Sorry Lusty but I'm with Staggy & Wild Rose on this, their reply didn't contain an attitude of any type and was no different to mine in tone. They merely addressed a rather large assumption on your part and put across their view......there was no superiority or immaturity about it, just a statement of fact based on their sex life.
Also, I must stress that no-one here is responsible for encouraging couples whose sex life are stagnating (shit really does happens) to consider dogging
Couples considering dogging are made welcome, many of the experienced couples here offer advice and those of us who enjoy watching will chime in too from our perspectives.......but dogging is another form of sexual expression, we're not here as an alternative to Relate. Problems in peoples marriages, be they sexual or otherwise are not something that I feel qualified to try to resolve and I imagine many others would feel the same.
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Sorry Lusty but I'm with Staggy & Wild Rose on this, their reply didn't contain an attitude of any type and was no different to mine in tone. They merely addressed a rather large assumption on your part and put across their view......there was no superiority or immaturity about it, just a statement of fact based on their sex life.
Also, I must stress that no-one here is responsible for encouraging couples whose sex life are stagnating (shit really does happens) to consider dogging
Couples considering dogging are made welcome, many of the experienced couples here offer advice and those of us who enjoy watching will chime in too from our perspectives.......but dogging is another form of sexual expression, we're not here as an alternative to Relate. Problems in peoples marriages, be they sexual or otherwise are not something that I feel qualified to try to resolve and I imagine many others would feel the same.
Even then why do I feel less insulted (or even not insulted) by you than the staggy lot.
My last statement wasn't a serious suggestion of dogging for stagnating couple (as if I could!!!) , I appreciate that everywhere relationships are a lot complicated than that and okay I was adding 'poking fun' sarcasm brought on by the heat...
Believe me, I agree with you entirely with the marriage stuffs you quite correctly pointed out but it sure as hell stinks when people keep coming to you and tell you they tried Relate and all the conventional stuffs and it still doesn't work. I was trying my best to be broad minded enough to come to accepting that pershaps swinging and dogging may be the way forward for such couples but I'm not so sure anymore. Maybe you're either a swinger/ dogger or not, maybe it's just as easier for some couples to be Born Again Christian as I have seen in few troubled marriages.
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I was going to comment but before I do lusty_modesty, I haven't looked so please tell me if you are married or not
I hope you didn't think I was a single, unmarried, independent woman whose life is so uncomplicated (I believe there are such women) and used to hearing people with marriage problems. Perhaps that could be nice but....there's always something
You don't have to be married these days to feel married, yes I have experience in a committed relationship to be able to share problems about relationships with other couples...
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I hope you didn't think I was a single, unmarried, independent woman whose life is so uncomplicated (I believe there are such women)
I hadn't presumed anything about you which is why I politely asked. I was just curious as to why you are putting your theory on marital relationships onto others in such a strong manner
Quote by lusty_modesty
and used to hearing people with marriage problems. Perhaps that could be nice but....there's always something
During any of the above postings, where did any of the people/couples state they had a problem with their marriage
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You don't have to be married these days to feel married, yes I have experience in a committed relationship to be able to share problems about relationships with other couples...
So you are now judging every other marriage or relationship by your own experiences. Strange
Lusty, why so defensive when I only asked a simple question
Sex God
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Even then why do I feel less insulted (or even not insulted) by you than the staggy lot.
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dear modesty lot...... if i wished to insult you i wouldnt hide it in a post containing no insults, quote the insult if you can , or perhaps a retraction would show you are here for serious contribution or fun both acceptable behaviour as opposed to flaming. :rude:
staggy , (lot, well not, just staggy )
xx
Quote by Dawn_Mids
So you are now judging every other marriage or relationship by your own experiences. Strange
Lusty, why so defensive when I only asked a simple question
Me judging and defensive, maybe I am, maybe I'm not, too tired even to want to care arguing...the answer in life is how you choose to see things and feel comfortable with it and nobody can take that from you...
I wanted to care about stagnating couples (sorry not referring to those who never had this problem in the first place, just consider yourself lucky) enough to accept that dogging might be the way forward but I still don't know the answer and it really doesn't matter.
However it would have nice to find at least one couple admitting that their sex life was stagnating and to have claimed that dogging can work. No answer but it doesn't matter...
