A question for the single guys.

9 Aug 2013

If you are meeting a couple with a view to join him in f*cking his wife, or in my case, f*cking my wife while I watch, usually armed with a mug of coffee i might add,how do you go about making the couple feel at ease. I do understand that it must take some 'balls' to step up to the mark by you guys but this is about your approach to them. Just am asking out of curiosity.

9 Aug 2013

In my experience, it's the single guy who's the most nervous, in this scenario.
So, maybe the question could be reversed?

9 Aug 2013

Quote by bluexxx
In my experience, it's the single guy who's the most nervous, in this scenario.
So, maybe the question could be reversed?

Was going to do that topic a bit later smile

Mind I should of left it open to all I guess :/

9 Aug 2013

Do a "who is the most nervous?" poll :giggle:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Lost
If you are meeting a couple with a view to join him in f*cking his wife, or in my case, f*cking my wife while I watch, usually armed with a mug of coffee i might add,how do you go about making the couple feel at ease. I do understand that it must take some 'balls' to step up to the mark by you guys but this is about your approach to them. Just am asking out of curiosity.

(with a past partner) used too play a kind of dare game (think it came from Ann Summers) where you would slowly loose your cloths, nervousness and inhibitions. When it got so far I would then take a back seat and let them get on with it.
We did this with 3 different guys and seemed to do the trick.

9 Aug 2013

Quote by herts_darlings1
If you are meeting a couple with a view to join him in f*cking his wife, or in my case, f*cking my wife while I watch, usually armed with a mug of coffee i might add,how do you go about making the couple feel at ease. I do understand that it must take some 'balls' to step up to the mark by you guys but this is about your approach to them. Just am asking out of curiosity.

(with a past partner) used too play a kind of dare game (think it came from Ann Summers) where you would slowly loose your cloths, nervousness and inhibitions. When it got so far I would then take a back seat and let them get on with it.
We did this with 3 different guys and seemed to do the trick.
Great to see you in the Forum Herts xxxxxx

9 Aug 2013

i just fart then follow through.....helps ease the situation...... :twisted:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Paddy
If you are meeting a couple with a view to join him in f*cking his wife, or in my case, f*cking my wife while I watch, usually armed with a mug of coffee i might add,how do you go about making the couple feel at ease. I do understand that it must take some 'balls' to step up to the mark by you guys but this is about your approach to them. Just am asking out of curiosity.

(with a past partner) used too play a kind of dare game (think it came from Ann Summers) where you would slowly loose your cloths, nervousness and inhibitions. When it got so far I would then take a back seat and let them get on with it.
We did this with 3 different guys and seemed to do the trick.
Great to see you in the Forum Herts xxxxxx
Always great to see you in your kitchen Paddy!

13 Aug 2013

The single guy normally gets over his nerves the moment Mrs T grabs his hand and says "lets go upstairs" lol

20 Aug 2013

As a single guy, who prefers to meet/join couples with the view of me pleasuring wife as hubby watches, yes, I can confirm, I'm usually the most nervous. On a couple of occasions, being so nervous, or not as ease might be a better phrase, failing to pleasure at all.
On those occasions, both times, from my point of view, hubby was at fault. By rushing around, getting so close (which I can understand as to get close up views), to talking and directing, one even answering his mobile and start a conversation whilst his wife was trying to get me hard!!!
I've found the easiest time(s) have been where wife has taken the lead, took me upstairs and hubby follows a little afterwards.

21 Aug 2013

i have met a few couples and always had a really nice time with them.
dont think nerves come into it as such as ive always spoken to the male half of the couple before hand.
a couple is two people and i do not forget that.
dont know if it takes balls to do it as such.
in my experience things have been good and plentyof fun had by all.
just relax and be yourself.

21 Aug 2013

have met two couples in the past (getting to old now )started with getting to know the man first chatting on line maybe meeting for a drink
I found it easier on the first meeting to meet in a nice quiet pub with the couple have a few drinks and a chat see if we get on with no pressure on the outcome and no expectations then let the lady decide if she wants to take things further
it also depends if the man wants to watch or join in if he just watches take the lady to another room and he can join you with camera in hand a few minutes later
if he joins in then you should both undress the lady together be sure to check if any male contact is expected
above all have fun and make it fun for them

21 Aug 2013

Just chill. Go with the flow. How hard can it be? Hehehehe, no pun intended

5 Sep 2013

I have preferred for the woman and i to go ahead for some fun and the guy to come in later on as by that time my heads not thinking about "omg is he trying to burn a hole in my head ir not?!"

5 Sep 2013

think answer has to be....just be yourself. I make sure I talk to the guy as much as the lady....so he doesn't feel like I'm ignoring him. then when time is right just say...well shall we have a little fun then...works for me !!

5 Sep 2013

we have had all sorts of meets, some where the guy doesnt want to talk at all to either of us and some when he wouldn't shut up. the most memorable was when a guy travelled down and stayed in a hotel, met Trev 4 hours later for a beer and after three hours of Friday night pubbing they come home for a threesome.
It was certainly different!

6 Sep 2013

I usually feel at ease with people anyway and I think that rubs off and makes them feel comfortable too. At least I can't say as I've noticed any nervousness from any of the peeps I've met.

7 Oct 2013

Its about connection and being on the same, or similar wavelength. Whether one person or the whole party is nervous, if you cant all chat and relax then chances are it wont run as smooth.
Plus, nerves are a good thing.. it can show excitement. Laughing about said nerves and neither person thinking they're more of a veteran than the other - This helps.
There are so many different dynamics to this sort of situation. That's the beauty of it. No 2 threesomes are the same wink

7 Oct 2013

Quote by the_magik_s
Its about connection and being on the same, or similar wavelength. Whether one person or the whole party is nervous, if you cant all chat and relax then chances are it wont run as smooth.
Plus, nerves are a good thing.. it can show excitement. Laughing about said nerves and neither person thinking they're more of a veteran than the other - This helps.
There are so many different dynamics to this sort of situation. That's the beauty of it. No 2 threesomes are the same

Think this is a cool point and really relevant :thumbup:

7 Oct 2013

Quote by Lost
Its about connection and being on the same, or similar wavelength. Whether one person or the whole party is nervous, if you cant all chat and relax then chances are it wont run as smooth.
Plus, nerves are a good thing.. it can show excitement. Laughing about said nerves and neither person thinking they're more of a veteran than the other - This helps.
There are so many different dynamics to this sort of situation. That's the beauty of it. No 2 threesomes are the same

Think this is a cool point and really relevant :thumbup:
Why thank you very much, Lost redface

I appreciate your appreciativeness :thumbup:

22 Oct 2013

Guess it depends on how experienced the couple and the single guy is lol
I have had a few meetings with experienced couples and new couples each meeting is so different you all know what your there for but thats the furthest from your mind at the start.I am lucky I live on a narrow boat so the conversation is all about the boat after a while you know what happens downing a few Peronis along the way.
Some couple's have uped and left I wasn't for them thats the way it above all else your nerves get to you at some point the wait, walking up to their door or even waiting for them in a bar looking at the door everytime someone walks in thinking is that them lol
But I guess thats why we do it and enjoy the chase the meet and the play
Have fun all
Xxxx