old names moving on

22 Jul 2013

Quote by northwest-cpl
All we need now is Markz... bet he turns up simply to say... You want me don't you.

Is he on broadband or dial up?
He's still on carrier pigeon.
He hasn't picked up his messages for a while. He must be AFK

22 Jul 2013

Quote by bluexxx
He hasn't picked up his messages for a while. He must be AFK

He's always been an AFK- Annoying Fucking Kunt! :giggle:

22 Jul 2013

Quote by essex34m
I do still have some unfinished business with some people.

yes, actually there is that :twisted:
while I'm here, why the hell not! :evil2:

23 Jul 2013

I've spent some time pondering on how I came to be here and I honestly can't remember. However, for me after a few Munches and Socials, I realised that I quite liked the social aspect of gatherings and just being able to talk to people from all sorts of backgrounds and dispositions. I never really swung that much, mainly due to being too much of a Chicken rolleyes

but eventually, moving from my home town, getting a different job and resigning myself to certain things meant that even the social aspects fell away and I slipped off the radar.
I don't know how I feel about dipping toes back into the scene. I'm not going to rule it out, as I could deny myself something that might make me a better (or more deviant ;) ) person. There are things I'd like to experience, and in an ideal world I'd have loved to experienced them with certain people. In many cases, that's not possible, but that's life. Who knows? All I know is, that over the last few years, I've met a lot of people I would never have otherwise, laughed and felt a sense of kinship I would never have otherwise, learnt a few things about myself as well. A few of us are gone and I do feel a sense of loss that I can't really describe. I didn't know them as well as I would have liked, but enough to know that the world is a little less for their passing.
Eh...I was never that much of a deep thinker, but all I know is, I doubt my life would have been as...interesting as it has been.
Could have been far worse! lol

23 Jul 2013

Quote by Happy Cats
I was hounded out, humiliated and abused as a fool. Women hated me and men didn't want to be me.

And what stone did you crawl out of Mr Happy Cats??? Where's my hello?
I remember why we came here originally, I also remember why we stayed, things changed and we moved to other sites to be with the friends we made online. Since then social media has got involved and there is now less of a need for sites like this.
It's similar to the internet killing off readers wives mags, that's how you got to meet up in the olden days.

6 Aug 2013

Yeah.
There are reasons why it's so quiet round here these days
*snorts*

6 Aug 2013

Quote by essex34m
I found the swinging scene by accident. I had no idea of the experiences I would have, or the friendships I would make. I made no conscious effort to find the scene, I made no conscious effort to stop swinging. But as my signature says (You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave) I can't walk away.
The reason I can't walk away from the scene, is moments like this. Yes, it is tragically sad as to why some people are here posting again, but on Facebook I have friends and acquaintances from this scene, and they are why I can never leave. That link will always be there and even if there is no swinging occurring, the bond that ties is there.
And I suppose that while I am still around the scene, then the scene will be still around me, and I do still have some unfinished business with some people.

Have just re-read this.
It rings very true.

6 Aug 2013

Politics i loved being a chatroom op, when the site was sold i got de-oped for no reason was never the same after that people slipped away and i found myself in a crowd of folk and mostly alone so i moved on stopped swinging for a few years found a new site and have been having a ball for the past couple of years ;o)

7 Aug 2013

moving on.
with me i think its an age thing.
when i was younger i wanted to shag all the time, go to social and had a great time.
these days im at my happiest riding my harley down some road.
still love meeting people and enjoy the fun.
so its not moving on. its growing up lol

7 Aug 2013

Quote by Dlep
I could deny myself something that might make me a better (or more deviant ;) ) person.

Is that even possible -you MORE deviant !!! bolt

7 Aug 2013

Quote by Tasitus
I could deny myself something that might make me a better (or more deviant ;) ) person.

Is that even possible -you MORE deviant !!! bolt

You'd be surprised how tame I've gotten (not that I was wild and unruly in the first place) lol

7 Aug 2013

Quote by Dlep
I could deny myself something that might make me a better (or more deviant ;) ) person.

Is that even possible -you MORE deviant !!! bolt

You'd be surprised how tame I've gotten (not that I was wild and unruly in the first place) lol

Ey up Dlep!
I can't comment on your being tame, wild or unruly but I can comment on your use of the word "gotten". Stop it man!

7 Aug 2013

Quote by Happy Cats
I could deny myself something that might make me a better (or more deviant ;) ) person.

Is that even possible -you MORE deviant !!! bolt

You'd be surprised how tame I've gotten (not that I was wild and unruly in the first place) lol

Ey up Dlep!
I can't comment on your being tame, wild or unruly but I can comment on your use of the word "gotten". Stop it man!
I've actually missed that Avatar rolleyes

(Hello ;) )

10 Aug 2013

Quote by essex34m

my question really would be what made you guys move on when clearly you had so much fun here

I found the swinging scene by accident. I had no idea of the experiences I would have, or the friendships I would make. I made no conscious effort to find the scene, I made no conscious effort to stop swinging. But as my signature says (You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave) I can't walk away.
The reason I can't walk away from the scene, is moments like this. Yes, it is tragically sad as to why some people are here posting again, but on Facebook I have friends and acquaintances from this scene, and they are why I can never leave. That link will always be there and even if there is no swinging occurring, the bond that ties is there.
And I suppose that while I am still around the scene, then the scene will be still around me, and I do still have some unfinished business with some people.
I already told you!!! I sent that tenner in the post flipa