Ok so a question for all of you. I am marrried and i have met a lady who is also married yet we would both like to have some serious fun together. Mostly it will have to be a few grabbed hours during school time but where the hell to go that doenst cost a fortune. I need a love nest maybe a lottery win so I can buy a place would be fab but that is as likely as getting struck by lightening.
So hwere do you huys who are playing alone find somewhere to hire rent by the hour (or so)?
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Depends what you class as a fortune, you can get a holiday Inn room from £19, no rules say you have to stay all night, you can check out early saying you have been called home or to work.
Google "married and cheating" they have sites for people in your position just like this site for swingers except that all the members are "like minded people" and no doubt have more ideas and suggestions than perhaps swingers might have.
Google "married and cheating" they have sites for people in your position just like this site for swingers except that all the members are "like minded people" and no doubt have more ideas and suggestions than perhaps swingers might have.
Call me old fashioned but nothing would repulse me more than knowing my man had brought back his knockoff to our home and messed with her in the marital bed (or anywhere in the home for that matter)
I could just about forgive the cheating but if it had been conducted at our home hell would freeze over before I could let it go, I'd slaughter them both.
I could just about forgive the cheating but if it had been conducted at our home hell would freeze over before I could let it go, I'd slaughter them both.
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Quote by Toots
Call me old fashioned but nothing would repulse me more than knowing my man had brought back his knockoff to our home and messed with her in the marital bed (or anywhere in the home for that matter)
I could just about forgive the cheating but if it had been conducted at our home hell would freeze over before I could let it go, I'd slaughter them both.
Ditto that Toots although i doubt i could forgive the cheating also
Sex God
Quote by Lost
Call me old fashioned but nothing would repulse me more than knowing my man had brought back his knockoff to our home and messed with her in the marital bed (or anywhere in the home for that matter)
I could just about forgive the cheating but if it had been conducted at our home hell would freeze over before I could let it go, I'd slaughter them both.
Ditto that Toots although i doubt i could forgive the cheating also
I feel the same. Talk about rubbing one's face in it!
Warming the Bed
Quote by MidsCouple24
Google "married and cheating" they have sites for people in your position just like this site for swingers except that all the members are "like minded people" and no doubt have more ideas and suggestions than perhaps swingers might have.
I couldnt have put it better myself. If you want adivice on cheating go elsewhere this is not the place for you!!
Carol
Sex God
to be honest guys there is not enough info there to suggest that the lady is actually cheating or doing this without her husbands knowledge 
Sex God
That's a very good point Rob, and it certainly seems there is an assumption amongst the morally incorruptible forumites of cheating.
For my part it's because the OP mentions wanting somewhere to go. If their partner was aware then why would she have to go anywhere? Why not just stay at home? Those questions are of course rhetorical and indeed private to the OP, but I thought I would demonstrate a train of thought as to why there could be an assumption of cheating.
This Shows a hotel that is available at reduced rates nearby, although it isn't on the Isle of Wight so is probably not really an option. My suggestion would be to ring/email round local hotels and see if they are willing to do the same thing. I know that places like premier inn's, Travelodge etc are willing to rent rooms during the day, but they tend not to advertise it.
For my part it's because the OP mentions wanting somewhere to go. If their partner was aware then why would she have to go anywhere? Why not just stay at home? Those questions are of course rhetorical and indeed private to the OP, but I thought I would demonstrate a train of thought as to why there could be an assumption of cheating.
This Shows a hotel that is available at reduced rates nearby, although it isn't on the Isle of Wight so is probably not really an option. My suggestion would be to ring/email round local hotels and see if they are willing to do the same thing. I know that places like premier inn's, Travelodge etc are willing to rent rooms during the day, but they tend not to advertise it.
Quote by Lizaleanrob
to be honest guys there is not enough info there to suggest that the lady is actually cheating or doing this without her husbands knowledge
Very helpful advice for the OP I am sure their problem is now solved thanks to your assistance, my reply did try to help and was not assumptive as those who responded to you suggest.
Advising people to go to a site where many have a need for what the OP is looking for is sound advice not assumption.
Where did I say I believed they were married and cheating, I simply pointed out the numerous sites available to people who are, and therefore by the very nature of what the people on those sites do there is more chance of them being able to advise the OP.
Personally I (who is being accused of being a MORALLY INCORRUPTIBLE FORULITE) did try to advise the OP of two options they could have.
Sex God
Reads to me like the lady in question and her prospective lover are trying to snatch a sneaky couple of hours by themselves without their partners knowledge. OK its not explicit and i'm not an analyst of wordy bollox so my opinion still stands and if i'm wrong i guess i'm going to hell on a bus
Sex God
Is it just because I'm a man? ...but the idea of my wife or girlfriend playing with another girl in my bed is anything but unpleasant.
Perhaps, when I was younger and less experenced, I might've felt a twinge of "missing an oportunity to watch or join in", but I wouldn't ever have had any objections.
Perhaps, when I was younger and less experenced, I might've felt a twinge of "missing an oportunity to watch or join in", but I wouldn't ever have had any objections.
Sex God
Quote by Lost
Reads to me like the lady in question and her prospective lover are trying to snatch a sneaky couple of hours by themselves without their partners knowledge. OK its not explicit and i'm not an analyst of wordy bollox so my opinion still stands and if i'm wrong i guess i'm going to hell on a bus
bugsy the top deck
Sex God
Quote by skinny
Is it just because I'm a man? ...but the idea of my wife or girlfriend playing with another girl in my bed is anything but unpleasant.
Perhaps, when I was younger and less experenced, I might've felt a twinge of "missing an oportunity to watch or join in", but I wouldn't ever have had any objections.
i must admit when Liza used to play with her girlfriends on her own, our house was out of bounds ,,,,,, purely a respect thing
Sex God
Quote by MidsCouple24
to be honest guys there is not enough info there to suggest that the lady is actually cheating or doing this without her husbands knowledge
Very helpful advice for the OP I am sure their problem is now solved thanks to your assistance, my reply did try to help and was not assumptive as those who responded to you suggest.
Advising people to go to a site where many have a need for what the OP is looking for is sound advice not assumption.
Where did I say I believed they were married and cheating, I simply pointed out the numerous sites available to people who are, and therefore by the very nature of what the people on those sites do there is more chance of them being able to advise the OP.
Personally I (who is being accused of being a MORALLY INCORRUPTIBLE FORULITE) did try to advise the OP of two options they could have.
really mids you do read a lot more into things than are ever there
i suggested we did not know all the facts
trev stated as a community we sometimes are a little to quick assume things (which i have also been guilty of at one time or another )
but no one no where has pointed a finger at you jed!!!! all your guilty of is being a oversensitive to whats written in the forum or laymans term being a bit of a tit
Sex God
Quote by Lizaleanrob
really mids you do read a lot more into things than are ever there
i suggested we did not know all the facts
trev stated as a community we sometimes are a little to quick assume things (which i have also been guilty of at one time or another )
but no one no where has pointed a finger at you jez!!!! all your guilty of is being a oversensitive to whats written in the forum or laymans term being a bit of a tit
Thankfully someone else noticed the meaning behind my last post, namely that on reflection I may have leapt to the wrong conclusion. I don't think so, but I offered a reason what had made me to think so.
It's getting to the stage round here that I can't even point out my own mistakes without someone taking offence. Just for the record, this time I do mean you Jed.
Sex God
Quote by Trevaunance
really mids you do read a lot more into things than are ever there
i suggested we did not know all the facts
trev stated as a community we sometimes are a little to quick assume things (which i have also been guilty of at one time or another )
but no one no where has pointed a finger at you jez!!!! all your guilty of is being a oversensitive to whats written in the forum or laymans term being a bit of a tit
Thankfully someone else noticed the meaning behind my last post, namely that on reflection I may have leapt to the wrong conclusion. I don't think so, but I offered a reason what had made me to think so.
It's getting to the stage round here that I can't even point out my own mistakes without someone taking offence. Just for the record, this time I do mean you Jed.
at least you got his name right
Sex God
Quote by Lizaleanrob
at least you got his name right
One does one's best
Quote by Lizaleanrob
really mids you do read a lot more into things than are ever there
i suggested we did not know all the facts
trev stated as a community we sometimes are a little to quick assume things (which i have also been guilty of at one time or another )
but no one no where has pointed a finger at you jez!!!! all your guilty of is being a oversensitive to whats written in the forum or laymans term being a bit of a tit
Thankfully someone else noticed the meaning behind my last post, namely that on reflection I may have leapt to the wrong conclusion. I don't think so, but I offered a reason what had made me to think so.
It's getting to the stage round here that I can't even point out my own mistakes without someone taking offence. Just for the record, this time I do mean you Jed.
at least you got his name right
You see now, I could accept what you say, I could accept people pointing out facts, such as there being no admission or proof of someone cheating in the OPs post, but when it is coupled with a minor but relevant snipe at people in the forums I make no apology for finding it to be part of the normal "attacks on posters" however minor it was.
And I refer to the bit .....
That's a very good point Rob, and it certainly seems there is an assumption amongst the morally incorruptible forumites of cheating.
You don't have to be on your high horse or morally incorruptible to see that there is a a possibility of cheating, regardless of that I simply offered advice that was requested
Sex God
And people wonder why there is bickering in the forums? Maybe it's because people can't take a little light humour when it's placed in front of them.
Seeing as you are taking unintended offence Jed I will now go into intricate detail just for you and I apologise in advance if I put any words in the mouths of other people.
1st Post OP: Asks for advice
2nd Post you: Provides advice - recommends 'married and cheating'.
3rd Post Dean: Suggests they grab time whilst husbands are at work (Alluding to cheating, IMHO)
4th Post Toots: Talks about deans post and how she would feel (definitely mentions cheating, but not by the OP, just in general.
5th Post Lost: Agree's more or less with all of Toots' post.
6th post Me: Agree's with Toots and Lost.
7th Post Sexy: Agrees with your post (No 2).
Now at this point every post except the OP and, starting with yours, has mentioned cheating or talked about cheating. I believe that everyone that commented thought that the OP was cheating, I know I did.
8th Post Rob: States that there is no evidence of cheating.
This caused me to read the whole thread again, rather than just take one single post as my object of reply. Suprise, suprise, there is nothing in the OP's post to say whether there has been any cheating going on.
9th post Me: I agree with rob and then post the following:
Let's face it, what we all do in the swinging world is morally wrong to a large percentage of the British populace, but to us it's completely normal. In the same way that our life choices may differ from someone else, a cheating person has made their choice and who are we to cast judgement on them? To the majority of the population our swinging morals are corrupted far from the norm.
Now I'm deeply sorry that you feel that a little light humour is inappropriate, but I fail to see why at this point you feel it was a personal swipe at you.
10th Post you:
Very helpful advice for the OP I am sure their problem is now solved thanks to your assistance, Was that you using light humour? After all Rob never actually provided any assistance to the OP and yet you assume he has 'solved' their problem.
As for you being accused as a 'MORALLY INCORRUPTIBLE FORULITE', I'm sorry, but you are way off the mark because I can't see that anywhere, Have a good look now, because you and I both know I haven't. Go on then I challenge you. Where specifically did I call you a MORALLY INCORRUPTIBLE FORULITE?
For the sake of completeness:
11th post Lost: Says why he thinks the OP is cheating.
12th Post Skinny: let's us know what gets his rocks off
Incidentally this is a joke for those that can't spot humour, Yes Jed I do mean you.
13th Post Rob: Jokes with Skinny.
14th post Rob: Talks about a similar situation from a real life experience.
16th Post Rob: Tries to explain to you what is going on as 'really mids you do read a lot more into things than are ever there i suggested we did not know all the facts
trev stated as a community we sometimes are a little to quick assume things' and points out: 'but no one no where has pointed a finger at you jed!!!! all your guilty of is being a oversensitive to whats written in the forum or laymans term being a bit of a tit'
17th Post Me: I agree with Rob and point out that it was my mistake to assume there was anyone cheating
18th Post Rob: Jokes
19th Post you:
Well there you go assuming again and getting it wrong. Where have I attacked any specific poster by using the term morally incorruptible forumites? Show me where? Actually please don't waste my time, please do you SH civic duty and report me immediately with evidence of who I have specifically spoken about or alluded to.
That seems the only way you will get some sort of satisfaction for what Rob says is you being 'insensitive'.
Seeing as you are taking unintended offence Jed I will now go into intricate detail just for you and I apologise in advance if I put any words in the mouths of other people.
1st Post OP: Asks for advice
2nd Post you: Provides advice - recommends 'married and cheating'.
3rd Post Dean: Suggests they grab time whilst husbands are at work (Alluding to cheating, IMHO)
4th Post Toots: Talks about deans post and how she would feel (definitely mentions cheating, but not by the OP, just in general.
5th Post Lost: Agree's more or less with all of Toots' post.
6th post Me: Agree's with Toots and Lost.
7th Post Sexy: Agrees with your post (No 2).
Now at this point every post except the OP and, starting with yours, has mentioned cheating or talked about cheating. I believe that everyone that commented thought that the OP was cheating, I know I did.
8th Post Rob: States that there is no evidence of cheating.
This caused me to read the whole thread again, rather than just take one single post as my object of reply. Suprise, suprise, there is nothing in the OP's post to say whether there has been any cheating going on.
9th post Me: I agree with rob and then post the following:
Quote by Trevaunance
That's a very good point Rob, and it certainly seems there is an assumption amongst the morally incorruptible forumites of cheating.
Let's face it, what we all do in the swinging world is morally wrong to a large percentage of the British populace, but to us it's completely normal. In the same way that our life choices may differ from someone else, a cheating person has made their choice and who are we to cast judgement on them? To the majority of the population our swinging morals are corrupted far from the norm.
Now I'm deeply sorry that you feel that a little light humour is inappropriate, but I fail to see why at this point you feel it was a personal swipe at you.
Quote by TrevaunanceI explained my train of thought here.
For my part it's because the OP mentions wanting somewhere to go. If their partner was aware then why would she have to go anywhere? Why not just stay at home? Those questions are of course rhetorical and indeed private to the OP, but I thought I would demonstrate a train of thought as to why there could be an assumption of cheating.
Quote by TrevaunanceI provided advice in line with the OP's question here.
This website Shows a hotel that is available at reduced rates nearby, although it isn't on the Isle of Wight so is probably not really an option. My suggestion would be to ring/email round local hotels and see if they are willing to do the same thing. I know that places like premier inn's, Travelodge etc are willing to rent rooms during the day, but they tend not to advertise it.
10th Post you:
Quote by MidsCouple24
to be honest guys there is not enough info there to suggest that the lady is actually cheating or doing this without her husbands knowledge
Very helpful advice for the OP I am sure their problem is now solved thanks to your assistance, Was that you using light humour? After all Rob never actually provided any assistance to the OP and yet you assume he has 'solved' their problem.
Quote by MidsCouple24As I am the only one to have replied to Rob, you must be referring to me. However the post to which you refer has been explained above and was not aimed at you directly, but as as a community.
my reply did try to help and was not assumptive as those who responded to you suggest.
Quote by MidsCouple24Very true, but as i have said before I believe the majority of us believe she is.
Advising people to go to a site where many have a need for what the OP is looking for is sound advice not assumption.
Quote by MidsCouple24
Where did I say I believed they were married and cheating, I simply pointed out the numerous sites available to people who are, and therefore by the very nature of what the people on those sites do there is more chance of them being able to advise the OP.{/quote]
Erm... Here?
Google "married and cheating" they have sites for people in your position just like this site for swingers except that all the members are "like minded people" and no doubt have more ideas and suggestions than perhaps swingers might have.
Quote by MidsCouple24
Personally I (who is being accused of being a MORALLY INCORRUPTIBLE FORULITE) did try to advise the OP of two options they could have.
As for you being accused as a 'MORALLY INCORRUPTIBLE FORULITE', I'm sorry, but you are way off the mark because I can't see that anywhere, Have a good look now, because you and I both know I haven't. Go on then I challenge you. Where specifically did I call you a MORALLY INCORRUPTIBLE FORULITE?
For the sake of completeness:
11th post Lost: Says why he thinks the OP is cheating.
12th Post Skinny: let's us know what gets his rocks off
Incidentally this is a joke for those that can't spot humour, Yes Jed I do mean you. 13th Post Rob: Jokes with Skinny.
14th post Rob: Talks about a similar situation from a real life experience.
16th Post Rob: Tries to explain to you what is going on as 'really mids you do read a lot more into things than are ever there i suggested we did not know all the facts
trev stated as a community we sometimes are a little to quick assume things' and points out: 'but no one no where has pointed a finger at you jed!!!! all your guilty of is being a oversensitive to whats written in the forum or laymans term being a bit of a tit'
17th Post Me: I agree with Rob and point out that it was my mistake to assume there was anyone cheating
18th Post Rob: Jokes
19th Post you:
Quote by MidsCouple24
You see now, I could accept what you say, I could accept people pointing out facts, such as there being no admission or proof of someone cheating in the OPs post, but when it is coupled with a minor but relevant snipe at people in the forums I make no apology for finding it to be part of the normal "attacks on posters" however minor it was.
And I refer to the bit .....
That's a very good point Rob, and it certainly seems there is an assumption amongst the morally incorruptible forumites of cheating.
Well there you go assuming again and getting it wrong. Where have I attacked any specific poster by using the term morally incorruptible forumites? Show me where? Actually please don't waste my time, please do you SH civic duty and report me immediately with evidence of who I have specifically spoken about or alluded to.
That seems the only way you will get some sort of satisfaction for what Rob says is you being 'insensitive'.
Sex God
Quote by MidsCouple24
really mids you do read a lot more into things than are ever there
i suggested we did not know all the facts
trev stated as a community we sometimes are a little to quick assume things (which i have also been guilty of at one time or another )
but no one no where has pointed a finger at you jez!!!! all your guilty of is being a oversensitive to whats written in the forum or laymans term being a bit of a tit
Thankfully someone else noticed the meaning behind my last post, namely that on reflection I may have leapt to the wrong conclusion. I don't think so, but I offered a reason what had made me to think so.
It's getting to the stage round here that I can't even point out my own mistakes without someone taking offence. Just for the record, this time I do mean you Jed.
at least you got his name right
You see now, I could accept what you say, I could accept people pointing out facts, such as there being no admission or proof of someone cheating in the OPs post, but when it is coupled with a minor but relevant snipe at people in the forums I make no apology for finding it to be part of the normal "attacks on posters" however minor it was.
And I refer to the bit .....
That's a very good point Rob, and it certainly seems there is an assumption amongst the morally incorruptible forumites of cheating.
You don't have to be on your high horse or morally incorruptible to see that there is a a possibility of cheating, regardless of that I simply offered advice that was requested
OMG
Really jed !!!!
i think you need to get a third party to read it all to you, as somewhere your missing the point.
there are no snipes at you! yes i spelt your name wrong (flog me for it )then made a quip at my own inabilities
WTF makes you think your that important to us that we wish to drag out your every word or do you have complex about being unimportant so make a big thing about it
trev gives the correct advise press the the little yellow triangle
in edit: if im honest, firstly your talking BOLLOX mids
and secondly trev wasted far to much time writing his eloquent reply to you jed as it will be wasted on you
i applaud trev for writing it
:worship: Trev,
You know he is referring to the other posters, maybe yourself included, as the "morally incorruptible forumites" though Mids doesn't list names only slightly guarded swipes.
Its amazing how folks jump to assumptions when the comment wasn't even directed at them, but hey-ho if the cap fits then wear it!
You know he is referring to the other posters, maybe yourself included, as the "morally incorruptible forumites" though Mids doesn't list names only slightly guarded swipes.
Its amazing how folks jump to assumptions when the comment wasn't even directed at them, but hey-ho if the cap fits then wear it!
Sex God
I am morally corruptible if the price is right
Sexpert
Quote by Lost
Reads to me like the lady in question and her prospective lover are trying to snatch a sneaky couple of hours by themselves without their partners knowledge. OK its not explicit and i'm not an analyst of wordy bollox so my opinion still stands and if i'm wrong i guess i'm going to hell on a bus
You must be proper posh! I was always told I would be going to hell on a hand cart!
Sex God
Quote by herts_darlings1
Reads to me like the lady in question and her prospective lover are trying to snatch a sneaky couple of hours by themselves without their partners knowledge. OK its not explicit and i'm not an analyst of wordy bollox so my opinion still stands and if i'm wrong i guess i'm going to hell on a bus
You must be proper posh! I was always told I would be going to hell on a hand cart!
Can't be that posh herts. Apparently i have to share the damned bus with Rob! lol
Sex God
Quote by Lost
Reads to me like the lady in question and her prospective lover are trying to snatch a sneaky couple of hours by themselves without their partners knowledge. OK its not explicit and i'm not an analyst of wordy bollox so my opinion still stands and if i'm wrong i guess i'm going to hell on a bus
You must be proper posh! I was always told I would be going to hell on a hand cart!
Can't be that posh herts. Apparently i have to share the damned bus with Rob! lol
shhhhh herts, losty dont know its an old omnibus and he's right it aint posh if im on it
Sex God
Quote by Cubes
Okay ladies and gents... just to be clear: If you object to someone's apparent moral code, please feel free to walk away from the thread. Nobody's forcing you to get involved.
That said, how about we let the OP have her thread back now, if she still wants it?
Excuse me !!!
me losty and herts are in the middle of hijacking this thread if you dont mind
Jeeze:: some people
:bolt: Sexpert
Quote by Lizaleanrob
Reads to me like the lady in question and her prospective lover are trying to snatch a sneaky couple of hours by themselves without their partners knowledge. OK its not explicit and i'm not an analyst of wordy bollox so my opinion still stands and if i'm wrong i guess i'm going to hell on a bus
You must be proper posh! I was always told I would be going to hell on a hand cart!
Can't be that posh herts. Apparently i have to share the damned bus with Rob! lol
shhhhh herts, losty dont know its an old omnibus and he's right it aint posh if im on it
Three of us going to hell at the same time in the same mode of transport, might as well do some nibbles for the journey. Who fancies Tappas?
Sex God
Quote by Ste-n-Kez
Ok so a question for all of you. I am marrried and i have met a lady who is also married yet we would both like to have some serious fun together. Mostly it will have to be a few grabbed hours during school time but where the hell to go that doenst cost a fortune. I need a love nest maybe a lottery win so I can buy a place would be fab but that is as likely as getting struck by lightening.
So hwere do you huys who are playing alone find somewhere to hire rent by the hour (or so)?
Have a look at Holiday Inns or go to a local Swinging Club.
Have fun
Yeah travelodge or buy a large van
Anyway back to this omnibus Rob. Damn good thing really as I'm not a vegetarian but i like do the odd carrot or spud
