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Black/White social – Chams, Feb Friday 13th
lets get this str8..dont know what all the fuss about
1- black n white social
2-social open for all
3-jiggle want to attend-LAWR DOESNT KNOW HIM
4-jiggle has 400 posts-LAWR DOESNT KOWN HIM
5-jiggle knows alot of pplz from sh/chams-LAWR DOESNT KNOW HIM
6-ITS NOT ABOUT THE COLOUR OF HIS SKIN-LAWR DOESNT KNOW HIM
7-All lawr ask for is..someone to VEIFY him
8-im going to get me popcorn-lol
1- black n white social
2-social open for all
3-jiggle want to attend-LAWR DOESNT KNOW HIM
4-jiggle has 400 posts-LAWR DOESNT KOWN HIM
5-jiggle knows alot of pplz from sh/chams-LAWR DOESNT KNOW HIM
6-ITS NOT ABOUT THE COLOUR OF HIS SKIN-LAWR DOESNT KNOW HIM
7-All lawr ask for is..someone to VEIFY him
8-im going to get me popcorn-lol
Sex God
Quote by wittyclitty
Hi Lawr
I was going to add my name, but due to the on going debate I feel I will give this social amiss, but I do hope you have a successful one all the same.
Also it really has put me off going in the chatroom to, to which I am a regular.
witty
I think I am in the same boat as you.... I said the same thing to someone else last night, I may not have spent as much time in the room as you, I liked to dip in from time to time, but it has certainly put me off going in there as well
Quote by agent_J
lets get this str8..dont know what all the fuss about
7-All lawr ask for is..someone to VEIFY him
All the fuss is about the way it was asked. I'll give you the full quote
Quote by Lawr
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. After looking at your pics, I'm wondering why you would want to attend this particular social.
If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.
Now if it was asked like:
Quote by Lawr
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.
One line was taken out and it has two different meanings. So no, he didn't just ask for someone to verify him. Now do you know what the fuss is about?
Anyway, this is supposed to be a guestlist for those wanting to attend a social. If you would like to add to the thread Ahabs has started then I will be happy to carry on the debate.
Dave_Notts
PS I hope the evening goes well Lawr, and I hope this is not your last event you organise. Only cos I may want to get our names down for a future one.
Warming the Bed
Bump! 
Sex God
Prapsits just the DA in me, but can you begin to IMAGINE the scenario and outcry had this thread taken a slightly different slant ?
Its a subject that has sat heavy with me in the swinging world for a long time, and becoming more prevalent on this site every not sure of the bottom lines myself to be honest, but disturbing none the less.
Its a subject that has sat heavy with me in the swinging world for a long time, and becoming more prevalent on this site every not sure of the bottom lines myself to be honest, but disturbing none the less.
Orgasminator
Quote by Silk and Big G
Prapsits just the DA in me, but can you begin to IMAGINE the scenario and outcry had this thread taken a slightly different slant ?
Its a subject that has sat heavy with me in the swinging world for a long time, and becoming more prevalent on this site every not sure of the bottom lines myself to be honest, but disturbing none the less.
With regards to FoxyChick's comment suggesting the argument is void as a lot of white guys go into the room anyway, yes this part is true. However, what she doesn't see (as she's never ventured into the room) is why these white (and asian) men go into the room: for the sole purpose of "tryign their luck" to change the preference (or minds) of the females there, then kick up a fuss (yelling "discrimination" when their offer gets turned down). I wonder why.
Like I said before, it would be like me going into the Lesbians for lesbians and "trying my luck" there. The reality of swinging: its all about preference, even when that preference works against me, I have to respect it - shame the argument on this thread clearly has no consideration for that.
Quote by Ahabs
Prapsits just the DA in me, but can you begin to IMAGINE the scenario and outcry had this thread taken a slightly different slant ?
Its a subject that has sat heavy with me in the swinging world for a long time, and becoming more prevalent on this site every not sure of the bottom lines myself to be honest, but disturbing none the less.
With regards to FoxyChick's comment suggesting the argument is void as a lot of white guys go into the room anyway, yes this part is true. However, what she doesn't see (as she's never ventured into the room) is why these white (and asian) men go into the room: for the sole purpose of "tryign their luck" to change the preference (or minds) of the females there, then kick up a fuss (yelling "discrimination" when their offer gets turned down). I wonder why.
Like I said before, it would be like me going into the Lesbians for lesbians and "trying my luck" there. The reality of swinging: its all about preference, even when that preference works against me, I have to respect it - shame the argument on this thread clearly has no consideration for that.
This is a guest list. Copy and paste this over and people can then debate with you.
And bump
Dave_Notts
Sex God
AAh Ahabs mate, frustrating and cliched as it may be the truth is none of us can have it both ways.
It sometimes pays to advertise,but when you reduce advertisements to their core they simply describe a commodity - not a person.
I suppose it all comes down to the question of whether its all about inclusion or exclusion from both sides of the coin.
Blimey I can mix some metaphors when I get going rofl !
It sometimes pays to advertise,but when you reduce advertisements to their core they simply describe a commodity - not a person.
I suppose it all comes down to the question of whether its all about inclusion or exclusion from both sides of the coin.
Blimey I can mix some metaphors when I get going rofl !
Sexpert
Well said dave_Notts - this is a guest list - so lets have a list of who is actually going and leave the debate to the cafe.
Sex God
Oops sorry Dave, quite right. Please disregard my last comment - ill skulk away
Warming the Bed
exactly leave this for the social and if ppl have to keep harping on go to the other thread... tbh its now getting boring 
I just hope the tone of this debate does not spoil what should be a good night - after all, it should be about FUN.
This social (described as such because it implies there is no certainty of play!) is intended for a group of black men and white fems/couples to meet. Yes it's an open night at Chams and other people will be there!
Please, no contentious replies - just put your name down if you fit the criteria and want to cum!!
This social (described as such because it implies there is no certainty of play!) is intended for a group of black men and white fems/couples to meet. Yes it's an open night at Chams and other people will be there!
Please, no contentious replies - just put your name down if you fit the criteria and want to cum!!
Orgasminator
Quote by Liz_lea
phew i am out of breath reading through this lot what the heck has been going on anyway lawr and mememe please can you add us to the list have to work next day but never mind will have to be a martyr to the cause loland i think you know who i am lol
luv liz
* Splish splosh splash! *
Master of Sex
Quote by scorpiolady1
exactly leave this for the social and if ppl have to keep harping on go to the other thread... tbh its now getting boring
i totally agree with you scorpio..
can we please leave this subject alone get on with havng a good time,and a great night and making new friends.
Warming the Bed
good, we from yorkshire and we do cpls, but my woman only prefers black men which is preety hard in yorks....the 2 swingers club hardly have any black men, am always the only one.....
Sexpert
Hi Lawr
Have you got a list of who is attending?
Have you got a list of who is attending?
Warming the Bed
Hi domino_2, yes I do have a list. It's made up of SH and Non-SH members, that's why I have not put it up here.
Warming the Bed
pumkin16542, I would not worry too much about the numbers. As long as those that make it have a nice time, that's the main thing.
Shani_cpl, see you there.
Shani_cpl, see you there.
