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A thought crossed my mind this morning brought there by some of the responses in this thread.
What do people class as "sending a mail" I mean there is the obvious of writing something after clicking on the send e-mail box, but do people think that they have made real contact by just sending a "friends invite" or sending the standard "would like to know more" ?
We get friends invites everyday and we do ignore those, our profile states that we only add people to our friends list that we have met in person, this is what we consider friends to be, people we have met, I can understand that some people consider themselves friends people they chat to regularly on here and may extend thier own friends list to include them, but seriously, no other contact than sending a friends invite, do you really think that they are friends and that genuine contact has been made ?
We feel the same about the "would like to know more" mails and always answer them but think some show the sender to be simply time wasters, chancers or dreamers, like one of the ones we got this morning, we did as requested, we took a look at thier profile, no text written about themselves and no pictures, no shrep no nothing, members since 2004, this just made us think they were really not swingers just dreamers and timewasters who hadn't even bothered to read our own profile. But we did reply politely.
So, what is sending a mail to you ? what do you consider a contact worthy of a response ?
Perhaps we can all learn something about each other ?
What do people class as "sending a mail" I mean there is the obvious of writing something after clicking on the send e-mail box, but do people think that they have made real contact by just sending a "friends invite" or sending the standard "would like to know more" ?
We get friends invites everyday and we do ignore those, our profile states that we only add people to our friends list that we have met in person, this is what we consider friends to be, people we have met, I can understand that some people consider themselves friends people they chat to regularly on here and may extend thier own friends list to include them, but seriously, no other contact than sending a friends invite, do you really think that they are friends and that genuine contact has been made ?
We feel the same about the "would like to know more" mails and always answer them but think some show the sender to be simply time wasters, chancers or dreamers, like one of the ones we got this morning, we did as requested, we took a look at thier profile, no text written about themselves and no pictures, no shrep no nothing, members since 2004, this just made us think they were really not swingers just dreamers and timewasters who hadn't even bothered to read our own profile. But we did reply politely.
So, what is sending a mail to you ? what do you consider a contact worthy of a response ?
Perhaps we can all learn something about each other ?
Warming the Bed
Hi, i have now sent 2 messages and both havent been opened yet, Have you checked your settings because i believe you can hace it so you dont receive any messages from single guys so you will never receive my messages
Warming the Bed
Quote by MidsCouple24
Whoops your quite right, just checked and we did have single males blocked, sorry for that, must have done it years ago and as we were still getting those annoying and timewasting "friends requests" from guys (and couples) we didn't realise it was activated, it is off now.
doh
Quote by MidsCouple24
Whoops your quite right, just checked and we did have single males blocked, sorry for that, must have done it years ago and as we were still getting those annoying and timewasting "friends requests" from guys (and couples) we didn't realise it was activated, it is off now.
Mids.........
This isn't just a Homer moment, this is a coffee meets monitor moment
I think some back peddling is needed in this thread
Glad you got it sorted, and now you may be able to recieve more PM's :thumbup:
Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts
Whoops your quite right, just checked and we did have single males blocked, sorry for that, must have done it years ago and as we were still getting those annoying and timewasting "friends requests" from guys (and couples) we didn't realise it was activated, it is off now.
Mids.........
This isn't just a Homer moment, this is a coffee meets monitor moment
I think some back peddling is needed in this thread
Glad you got it sorted, and now you may be able to recieve more PM's :thumbup:
Dave_Notts
I doubt the guy you are talking about requires us to back peddle, he does not seem the type to require that kind of thing after we appologised in the first place and he is the only one we said we hadn't recieved a mail from, to be honest we would have expected him to be informed by the site if a mail cannot be sent to someone due to thier privacy settings but obvously that is not the case on this site. We have now corrected our mistake and held our hands up to it if people believe that an apology is not enough just say in the thread and we will close our account as a pennance. that should make you happy
Sex God
Quote by MidsCouple24
Whoops your quite right, just checked and we did have single males blocked, sorry for that, must have done it years ago and as we were still getting those annoying and timewasting "friends requests" from guys (and couples) we didn't realise it was activated, it is off now.
Mids.........
This isn't just a Homer moment, this is a coffee meets monitor moment
I think some back peddling is needed in this thread
Glad you got it sorted, and now you may be able to recieve more PM's :thumbup:
Dave_Notts
I doubt the guy you are talking about requires us to back peddle, he does not seem the type to require that kind of thing after we appologised in the first place and he is the only one we said we hadn't recieved a mail from, to be honest we would have expected him to be informed by the site if a mail cannot be sent to someone due to thier privacy settings but obvously that is not the case on this site. We have now corrected our mistake and held our hands up to it if people believe that an apology is not enough just say in the thread and we will close our account as a pennance. that should make you happy
Everybody makes mistakes, nobody got hurt, please dont leave the site !!
John & Shel
Warming the Bed
I hope you dont leave the site as well, i certainly dont need anyone to back peddle and we have both moved on and learnt from this. i apologise if it has dragged on longer than it shud and if i have upset you or anyone else with my comments, i know if i now send a mail and it is not opened not to judge or question anything. thanks Dave
Mids.........
This isn't just a Homer moment, this is a coffee meets monitor moment
I think some back peddling is needed in this thread
Glad you got it sorted, and now you may be able to recieve more PM's :thumbup:
Dave_Notts
I doubt the guy you are talking about requires us to back peddle, he does not seem the type to require that kind of thing after we appologised in the first place and he is the only one we said we hadn't recieved a mail from, to be honest we would have expected him to be informed by the site if a mail cannot be sent to someone due to thier privacy settings but obvously that is not the case on this site. We have now corrected our mistake and held our hands up to it if people believe that an apology is not enough just say in the thread and we will close our account as a pennance. that should make you happy
Quote by MidsCouple24
Whoops your quite right, just checked and we did have single males blocked, sorry for that, must have done it years ago and as we were still getting those annoying and timewasting "friends requests" from guys (and couples) we didn't realise it was activated, it is off now.
Mids.........
This isn't just a Homer moment, this is a coffee meets monitor moment
I think some back peddling is needed in this thread
Glad you got it sorted, and now you may be able to recieve more PM's :thumbup:
Dave_Notts
I doubt the guy you are talking about requires us to back peddle, he does not seem the type to require that kind of thing after we appologised in the first place and he is the only one we said we hadn't recieved a mail from, to be honest we would have expected him to be informed by the site if a mail cannot be sent to someone due to thier privacy settings but obvously that is not the case on this site. We have now corrected our mistake and held our hands up to it if people believe that an apology is not enough just say in the thread and we will close our account as a pennance. that should make you happy
Quote by MidsCouple24
No takers then, s'funny copy and pasted the same add on another site and trawled through hundreds of replies, took only an hour to find a suitable guy, anyone think this site is becoming more of a "cammers only site" ? nowt wrong with that but maybe the site owners would be better off recognising that and concentrating thier efforts and server space on doing just that, forgetting actuall meeting facilities and make it the best cam site on the net ? just a fort like
Just seen this. I may be interested. I'm a single male who lives with family, so can't accommodate. If you are still interested, I will message you. Will update my profile accordingly.
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No takers then, s'funny copy and pasted the same add on another site and trawled through hundreds of replies, took only an hour to find a suitable guy, anyone think this site is becoming more of a "cammers only site" ? nowt wrong with that but maybe the site owners would be better off recognising that and concentrating thier efforts and server space on doing just that, forgetting actuall meeting facilities and make it the best cam site on the net ? just a fort like
Just seen this. I may be interested. I'm a single male who lives with family, so can't accommodate. If you are still interested, I will message you. Will update my profile accordingly.
Thanks Pmes we have it covered for now and the meet went better than expected, but will put another add in the future should the need arise thanks to everyone for the positive comments
