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Derby Social - Saturday 23rd September -Confirmations Needed

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Due to the grand success of our last few social nights, I have been asked to organise another one for Saturday 23rd September 2006. Depending on numbers and costs, a function room might be arranged for this night; but if this option is unavailable, we shall keep the night as traditional as our last socials and spend the night in a easy to find, friendly and welcoming bar.
As I have stated above, our last socials have been a grand success. Beaming results of high attendance and great laughs. It is the perfect situation to met new people, chat and giggle to other users and be able to put faces to names, whilst being in a safe and non-judgemental environment.
The bar/function room that we will most likely be using will be vanilla. This means we can’t all go dressed up as the domatrix/gimp in our favourite porn movie, though I’m sure some of the locals won’t mind! Please dress sensibly though (but not as sensibly as your grandmother!), I would suggest keeping in with the ‘Saturday night, painting the town Red’ dress code!
If you wish to come along to this particular Derby Social, then please feel free to post asking for an invite, or to mail me.
The Location, Time, etc will be mailed to each of you a week before the Event.

The Current Invite List
Single Fems
Chaotic_Spirit -Confirmed
Darkfire - Confirmed
HotandWet - Confirmed
Sarah-Joy and Lenny - Confirmed
DizzyTart - Confirmed
Single Males
bLEEp - Confirmed
Farkuen - Confirmed
gentlemanfor2 - Confirmed
Kajman - Confirmed
quotes - Confirmed
RogerTheDragon - Confirmed
Shnukle - Confirmed
Still - Confirmed
Will_32 - Confirmed
Couples
Clitfondler - Confirmed
HorneyOldTart n Mr_D - Confirmed
PaulandSue123 - Confirmed
RammyRam n DollyMinx - Confirmed
Sarah n Mal - Confirmed
Sleazy n NaughtyNymphos - Confirmed
Slightly Sinful - Confirmed
steandnik - Confirmed
tonylisa2006 - Confirmed
mike183 - Confirmed
WRATS - Confirmed
Due to a Large amount of single males wishing to attend, i think it wise to accept that amount and set up a sub list. That way if any single males on the orginal list decide to drop out, it gives the single males on the waiting list a chance to attend!
Waiting List
CrowMaster
Spannerman
Update
- We now have a private function room booked for this event.
-We also need everyone prepared to attend to confirm their places on the invite list so badges can be made (anyone who has a problem with having a badge made then please notify me!)
mmmmmmmmm put us on the list hun love to come
Hello Choatic
Single male from Coventry here 40 "virgin" at swinging meets and socials
love to be invited
also willing to assist any fellow members who require a lift to derby to
Robbie
Hi robbie, im just going to mail you quickly, hope this is ok!
pm yuo back Choatic
Robbiex
Hi
Can you put us down as 'possible maybes' please, as this is the same day as Mids and Newt get married, and we are off to the reception bit, ( it would seem I am responsible for introducing them to each other via this site!) so depending on timings / locations, we might be able to pop in for a short while, or the other hand we might not be able to!
Thank you
Sarah & Mal
hi chaotic, can you send us an invite, craigeanita wink
Quote by Sarah
Can you put us down as 'possible maybes' please, as this is the same day as Mids and Newt get married, and we are off to the reception bit, ( it would seem I am responsible for introducing them to each other via this site!) so depending on timings / locations, we might be able to pop in for a short while, or the other hand we might not be able to!

Sure thing! Wish them look for me!
Quote by craigeanita
hi chaotic, can you send us an invite, craigeanita

Your Down Sweet hearts!
Hi Chaotic,
I’m a really shy, very inexperienced newbie, and i dont know many people in Derby as I only move here last year after being brought up in a convent school. Yes i know my profile says i'm 38, but i'm a slow starter. :angel:
Do you think it would be Ok for me and my chaperone to come alone to your meeting. My chaperone is my 87 year old maiden aunt, she’s a little bit deaf but still quiet alert for her age.
I understand it’s a social gathering; shall I bring a selection of my needle point and home made jams to share? Do we all sing hymns at these meeting??
Oh I do hope you let me attend. I promise that I will not get in the way. :happy:
Regards
HnW
Quote by hotandwet
Hi Chaotic,
I’m a really shy, very inexperienced newbie, and i dont know many people in Derby as I only move here last year after being brought up in a convent school. Yes i know my profile says i'm 38, but i'm a slow starter. :angel:
Do you think it would be Ok for me and my chaperone to come alone to your meeting. My chaperone is my 87 year old maiden aunt, she’s a little bit deaf but still quiet alert for her age.
I understand it’s a social gathering; shall I bring a selection of my needle point and home made jams to share? Do we all sing hymns at these meeting??
Oh I do hope you let me attend. I promise that I will not get in the way. :happy:
Regards
HnW

Oh deary me, it's a good job i know and love you or i would have to sue you for making me choke on my sandwich lol Newbie my grand white bottom! Your on the list as always babes!
Hi there Chaos and other Derby peeps...Fancy alowing a single Brummie guy along...If so then please add me to the list and look forward to meeting you all...Steve...... :twisted:
course you can Rock, would be great to see you here! Your on the list!
hi
got a feeling we are away that weekend but add us to the list and we will let you know soon
Hi Dee, will stick you down as possiblies.
Hope you enjoy tomorrow Derby Social, sorry i couldn't make it.
so sorry hun we forgot we had a munch on this day and its been booked for a long time its mr rams that forgot the date so sorry hun but next time xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Never mind, He is a bit of a dosey mare isn't he. Have a great time are your munch, and enjoy the Derby social which is happening tonight. Sorry i wont be making this one xxxxxx
Hope that I'll be able to make it. As I've enjoyed the last 2 that I've been too. lol
Can you put us down as possibles .. need to sort sitters out first.
Cx
Thanks for adding me to the list Chaotic. Be good to meet some new People...all a bit quiet in Black country lately...lol. See you all there and keep me updated...... :twisted:
Hi chaotic please can you include me on the list thank you xxx :-)
Quote by easycome2003_1
cock and easy has not asked chaotic to do the derby social none of the dates are good

The way i read it is that 'someone' has asked Chaotic to organise a social in Derby, she didn't say it was either of you. As far as i know, anyone can organise a social. dunno
Those organised by yourselves are always good fun and enjoyable but that doesn't mean that nobody else can arrange one, and if the dates aren't good for some then unfortunately thats the way the cookie crumbles sometimes, there have been more a few socials/munches we would have liked to attend but couldn't confused :cry:
Morb x
I've got a course in Derby all day on the 23rd so I might make this, depending what time we get finished - can I be a provisional please, but also I wont be able to 100% confirm until the day itself loon
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yes thats true anyone can arrange a social meet , but i think its rather unfair to take all the credit for the hard work that myself and cock slut as undertaken to ensure that derby was put on the map , we will arrange separate dates then if u feel that way . we wouldnt wanna spoil the fun .

Rant mode
For goodness sake stop being so petty, Derby is a big enough place, IMO no one has 'right' of arranging anything in a particular town / city etc.
I don't think for one minute CS is taking any credit for anything at the moment, all she is doing is arranging a social and I will 110% back her all the way.
I would also point out there were social meets going on in the Derby area long before you joined the site, so IMO no one as such 'put Derby' on the map
Grown up
Rant over.
Quote by Sarah
yes thats true anyone can arrange a social meet , but i think its rather unfair to take all the credit for the hard work that myself and cock slut as undertaken to ensure that derby was put on the map , we will arrange separate dates then if u feel that way . we wouldnt wanna spoil the fun .

Rant mode
For goodness sake stop being so petty, Derby is a big enough place, IMO no one has 'right' of arranging anything in a particular town / city etc.
I don't think for one minute CS is taking any credit for anything at the moment, all she is doing is arranging a social and I will 110% back her all the way.
I would also point out there were social meets going on in the Derby area long before you joined the site, so IMO no on as such 'put Derby' on the map
Grown up
Rant over.

Thats the point i was trying to make.
Its the people that attend that make the night not the one who arranges it and i'm sure theres no need to be territorial over socials, why not sit back from organising one and let someone else do the leg work? dunno
As Sarah said, Calista and I were organising Derby socials before either of you were here but for one reason and another we stopped doing so, and no doubt there were others arranging them before us.
Derby, and for that matter, the Midlands, is a big enough place for any who want to t arrange socials, no need to take offence is someone else does one.
Morb x
Quote by easycome2003_1
yes thats true anyone can arrange a social meet , but i think its rather unfair to take all the credit for the hard work that myself and cock slut as undertaken to ensure that derby was put on the map , we will arrange separate dates then if u feel that way . we wouldnt wanna spoil the fun .

I would like to point out that i did actually ask cockslut out of respect if i could arrange september's social and she happliy said yes.