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Any hoo - any advice on my ramblings and a good way to go about meeting a sexy friendly couple while on the site would be appreciated.
If you'd said you wanted to meet a female I may have been able to help.
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I think that for anyone it makes a big difference if you make the effort to get to know the other people a bit before going in for the 'kill' as it were.
I haven't yet reached the stage where I've met up with a couple, simply because I've not established a sufficiently strong connection - and to be honest I havent' looked that hard. I've had a look at the adds mostly and good god they can be intimidating, they're all a bit random and someone displaying their cock - well is likely to be one!!
I think that the chat rooms are interesting but it's a bit off-putting to be bombarded with whispers when you kind of want to just get involved in a bit of banter.
what am I doing wrong!!!
Amber x
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The other category that lets singles down, with us anyway (couples do this also) You have a nice first chat, begin to think "yes, maybe" but because you have not fallen at their feet straight away, the next time they see you in chat, you dont even get a "Hi" and they have moved on to another target - this just re-iterates that our waiting was the right choice.
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If there are any couples in the south-east (NW Kent in particular) who want to befriend a straight, honest talking genuine guy who only works a three-day week (lol), then drop me a line - love to chat to kindred spirits. John
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Back to the original question however I would be interested to hear from others as to how many of arranged 'meets' have come through and how many have been cancelled at the last minute.
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(rant over, coffee and ferrero recher in hand...all is calm......;)
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(rant over, coffee and ferrero recher in hand...all is calm......;)
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I know females and couples get an absolute shedload of mail but it would be nice every so often to get a reply, even if it's just "thanks but no thanks".
Like I said before though, I do understand that fems and cpls will always be snowed under with mail on this site and therefore probably can't even hope to reply to even half of the messages they get. But it is nontheless frustrating.
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(long time lurker, first time poster)
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I know females and couples get an absolute shedload of mail but it would be nice every so often to get a reply, even if it's just "thanks but no thanks".
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(long time lurker, first time poster)
Quote by plumdrops
I know females and couples get an absolute shedload of mail but it would be nice every so often to get a reply, even if it's just "thanks but no thanks".
Quote by minotaur
(long time lurker, first time poster)
Quote by plumdrops
I know females and couples get an absolute shedload of mail but it would be nice every so often to get a reply, even if it's just "thanks but no thanks".
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And manners have very little to do with how many replies you'll get. It's more to do with the volume of mail couples and single females get, that they can't answer due to lack of time. Don't whinge about it, just put it down to experience and move on.
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And manners have very little to do with how many replies you'll get. It's more to do with the volume of mail couples and single females get, that they can't answer due to lack of time. Don't whinge about it, just put it down to experience and move on.