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sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.
You have been here a long time, but only have 55 posts. Perhaps a change of approach might be worth considering? I don`t know how much socialising you do via Munches, but that, and joining in with the Banter in the Cafe would certainly help you to get to know whose genuine and who isn`t.
Hope that helps smile
Venusxxx
Hi Jed & Fiona
I know that feeling but let me assure you there are lots of genuine people out there
just try post more times this may help you in getting a larger response but im sure its only
a matter of time before you get what you want & if you dont move to Manchester and
i can meet you smile
Thanks MrT
lol see getting more already lol biggrin
i cant belive the kranky's have no work confused do you think thay can find some here??sorry posts not points!!.but hey we are genuine and did attend the latest essex munch?are we press or something?errrrrr no just genuine fun
Quote by jed/fiona
sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.

didn't you meet any genuine people at the essex munch then......we were there and we are genuine....honest! wink
biggrin lol yes we were a little shy as our first munch,but did our best to say hi to a few &sex........very sexy,so was mr's and libra a couple of guy's we met....you know who u but......still no sex :cry: maybe soon??
If I can make an observation Jed/Fiona, you don't have a link in your signature to an Ad. here, do you have one? and if so I would think linking it to your sig would let anyone who is interested find out more about you.
Roger the Dragon
P.S. I have no link in my sig at the moment as I am fully booked. lol
Quote by jed/fiona
or young single guy.

That's me out then. Mid life crisis ??? been there and got the T shirt.
Seriously though, keep trying.
Quote by jed/fiona
sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.
aw if only you were nearer,i am genuine lol wink
Wish you lived nearer me guys. Well if that's a genuine pic anyway! Best wishes and should you ever be heading in this direction please feel free to PM me. Where exactly are you, I'm an infrequent business traveller to London. Gary.
Quote by jed/fiona
sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.

just waiting for you to say you are looking for older guys. although i do agree, the younguns must be nuts if they are messing you about
Hi
like all above can't belive you havent found anyone
Oh by the way Im in essex wink
get in touch
Quote by jed/fiona
sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.

ageism strikes again /me sobs heartbreakingly
/me sneakily looks around and sees nobody is taking any notice
Oh well, I tried, nobody cant say I didnt try smile
and as I call in a Colchester (300 mile round trip) regularly to see a lady friend down there, Essex aint that far away :P
Quote by jed/fiona
sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.

I can't believe it either. rolleyes
We've been a member of this site for a year now, and we've met some really nice men. :shock:
Played with a few and told a few 'no thanks' :roll: :roll:
Quote by kristof
and as I call in a Colchester (300 mile round trip) regularly to see a lady friend down there, Essex aint that far away :P

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr isn't Colchester in Essex...........or have they moved it to another county lol
Dave_Notts
Quote by jed/fiona
sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.

Don't get too bored just yet. I'm still waiting for an invite. But I'm not a couple (anymore) nor a single male :(
i find older guys are more genuine and always meet if they say they will.
try one you may be surprised, there a lot better than these young ones lol
good look and have fun biggrin
I can understand jed and fionas frustration, We have only recently decided to give in to Jacky's Bi-curiousity, and as we think we are reasonably attractive, we thought it would be a relatively simple task of posting an ad and waiting for Bi fems to drop into Jacky's lap! We have now realised that it is gonna take a fair amount of time and effort to get what we want out of this lifestyle. As total newbies, we are a little nervous about the idea of munches, and we really aren't sure about how we should progress, given the fact that we don't really feel like we could at the moment become "hardened" swingers, so any advice or pointers would be most welcome! Anyway, our ad is number 215063, so if someone would like to take a look at it and maybe tell us how we could improve it ( or find us sexy enough to send us a message!) we'd be grateful!
Jacky & Mark
Quote by cuddly-catlin
i find older guys are more genuine and always meet if they say they will.
try one you may be surprised, there a lot better than these young ones lol
good look and have fun biggrin

I totally agree with cuddly-catlin, go for the older guy............he says hopefully lol
Quote by Dave__Notts
and as I call in a Colchester (300 mile round trip) regularly to see a lady friend down there, Essex aint that far away :P

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr isn't Colchester in Essex...........or have they moved it to another county lol
Dave_Notts
pmsl
my way of sayng that I am a travelling guy smile . yes Colchester IS in Essex, what I meant was that as I make that trip regular, to me, Essex is not that far away, please excuse my crap dicriptive processes :P
Quote by Nomad_Soul
i find older guys are more genuine and always meet if they say they will.
try one you may be surprised, there a lot better than these young ones lol
good look and have fun biggrin

I totally agree with cuddly-catlin, go for the older guy............he says hopefully :lol:
believe me when I say cuddly-catlin is well worth the meeting m8, a real nice lady with a great sense of humour, a verrrrrrrry nice body and a lovely person to boot.
Have to say I had a great time when we met last week :) ( and caitlin, lets do it again soon puhhhleeeeezzzz )
Quote by Nomad_Soul
i find older guys are more genuine and always meet if they say they will.
try one you may be surprised, there a lot better than these young ones lol
good look and have fun biggrin

I totally agree with cuddly-catlin, go for the older guy............he says hopefully lol
Perhaps ( confused: ) us guys of "more mature years" were brought up in a different way.
Manners maketh the man or something like that :!: wink smile
the problem is your down south rolleyes
i lived nr chessington world of adventures for 26yrs its just on the outskirts of london.
i thought the london sex seen was good then i moved up north and wow what a difference :shock: :shock:
ive lived op north since 1996(damon hill world champ)oops sorry bout that. anyway i have never met and enjoyed the company of so many perverted sexual devients ever in my life wink :wink: :twisted: :twisted:
and just like they say at Mcdonalds "im loving it"
move up north :twisted:
we totally agree we also finding it extremely hard to find anyone,and we seem to attract loads of fakes oh well we will kep trying ps our ad is 199522 if anyone wants to have a quick look xx sad
i suppose the reason you havent met anyone is in my opinion the kind of person you ask to meet and some guys will lie and some wont and then whaen it comes to the crunch they lose is pleanty of genuine single guys and i know iam one thus i disagree with cuddly-caitlain on one aspect that she puts all young single males in on e category and truth be told yeah there are some time wasters out there that includes older men ,couples and females and i suppose the only way is more interaction and not losing heart oh and also the cretreia you use to pick these i say i will be meet be assured i will be there and never expect more than what is being offered.
Quote by Libra-Love
But I'm not a couple (anymore) nor a single male sad

We'd invite you anyday babe, you're totally and utterly gorgeous...........plus, you're only a short car ride away - over the bridge.............. wink
We were at the munch, but didnt get to meet you sad Maybe see you at the next one in Herts in May! lol
Quote by kristof
and as I call in a Colchester (300 mile round trip) regularly to see a lady friend down there, Essex aint that far away :P

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr isn't Colchester in Essex...........or have they moved it to another county lol
Dave_Notts
pmsl
my way of sayng that I am a travelling guy smile . yes Colchester IS in Essex, what I meant was that as I make that trip regular, to me, Essex is not that far away, please excuse my crap dicriptive processes :P
Quote by Nomad_Soul
i find older guys are more genuine and always meet if they say they will.
try one you may be surprised, there a lot better than these young ones lol
good look and have fun biggrin

I totally agree with cuddly-catlin, go for the older guy............he says hopefully :lol:
believe me when I say cuddly-catlin is well worth the meeting m8, a real nice lady with a great sense of humour, a verrrrrrrry nice body and a lovely person to boot.
Have to say I had a great time when we met last week :) ( and caitlin, lets do it again soon puhhhleeeeezzzz )
Thanx kristof.
was a fantastic day and you was great.
and yes cant wait to see you again.
soon i hope :D wink
Quote by Libra-Love
sad i can't belive that a sexy goodlooking couple cant meet a genuine couple or young single guy on this site,is it full of time wasters and wanna be's???.losing faith????.help!.

Don't get too bored just yet. I'm still waiting for an invite. But I'm not a couple (anymore) nor a single male :(
Libra maybe you me and Jed and Phiona could get together smile
Hi Guys!
Well, you met me too - albeit briefly - and I'm genuine and not a timewaster! Like Libra, I'm just waiting on an invite... ;) :twisted: