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Help with portsmouth munch....

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Could i please get this as a sticky.....
Is there any1 willing to arrange a munch in the south ...portsmouth seems like a great idea... lol
Could some1 please help...im a busy person and i don't get the time to sort sumthing like this out....
Stickied as requested
Thanks blue...xx
So is there any1 who will arrange it..im to busy...but mayb we could all help abit..i know there was alot of interest on the forum.... we really need to get 1 organised so we can b having as much fun as the north...
I think if we all do abit to help out we could sort sumthing...or hijack the local nudist beach wink (only joking)
So lets get this ball rolling peeps...so we can meet each other and have a chat....this will not b just for the south peeps any1 from sh can cum if we sort out a venue...mayb sum1 who has organised another munch could give us sum advice....i'm don't know the first thing aboput organising sumthing like this...so lets all learn together...
Hi
new to munches but been around scene for a few yrs.
We live in w. Sussex and agree not enuf happening down here.
Let us know how we can help guys
Andy & Andi
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Cheers.....we need more people to help....
Cum on u southerners lets get sumthing done..................
here here to us southerners having as much fun as the randy folks up north i would be happy to help (although last suggestion of a beafeater went down like a lead balloon redface ) oh well thought i might email a known club in the area and see if they new of any swingingers freindly pubs in the area lets face it untill we come up with a venue nothing much else can happen :shock: mad
Pete
If u could sort out a venue and how much per head that would b a start lol
PJ is having a look and sizing up a possible venue now so fingers crossed biggrin
THATS GREAT... lol
yes,that sounds good,or even southampton,may be in winchester,may be we could do this very soon
paul
I'd definitely be interested in coming along!
CM
I'm from Wiltshire,would love to attend or help out if i can.
I'm not sure whats happening now :cry: ....i would still like a munch to happen or even a small party.......pj2play pleezzzzze sort sumthing out....i beg u wink
Hi folks just checked out site suggested by bifem seem s ok can hold 50 people and has an ibis hotel within easy reach only prob is w/ends are awkward for them but thursday nights are pretty free and would cost £50 plus a deposit for breackages includes use of bar and background music not realy sure what else would be required as never had the pleasure of attending a munch.
This is a very safe venue popular with the gay community and fetish scene peeps no larger louts etc.
The only other place i know of is in southampton if ne one wants to get info from there let me know and i will let you know the venue.(attended swingers parties there in the past but landlords are a bit sensitive about any action taking place on the premises)
described our get together as a social event not confident enough to say it was for a load of sex maniacs lol redface lol
let me know what you think and possible dates and we can take it from there.
Pete
Thats great....we have a start....i'm not to fussed on dates but u'll have to let every1 know about the cost..mayb have sum1 on the door or have tickets etc...
I've mentioned this in the chat room a couple of times and got a lot of "when "and "where" so told them to look here for the details.
Now it's just a case of waiting for the details.
Rachel
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interested in attending if you firm this up, also happy to help with organisation, etc.
At the Croyden munch we had some simple badges (by the wonderful IcePie) that worked well. Can nick his idea and do them for this, if he isnt coming along of course smile
pm me if I can be any help and I will drop you my mobile number by return.
Pete i think is sorting a venue...so really he's the best 1 to chat with...i think your idea is great to even if it is hijacked wink
Hi guys, we've met a cpl who have great contacts on the swinging scene in Portsmouth.
They know of a place, pub with an upstairs function room that we could probably get.
They have a lete night license etc
We will find out more soon but it sounds like the right thing.
Just nered time to sort more details
Good things come to those who wait!!
A&A smile
Sounds like thing are starting to happen.
Soon be in full swing.
As it were.
Rachel
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Still waiting for PJ and VFR to get back as I think they were looking into things PJ in particular with a possible venue smile I have told him though that it might be better for all concerned that it be held possibly at a weekend say on either a Friday or Saturday evening that way I feel more people may be able to attend without worrying about work etc.
Correct me if I'm wrong but I understand a munch to be just an event where ppl meet up, have a few drinks and swap contact details etc with no actual fucking going on.
If I am correct in that asumption surely you could just have one in virtualy any pub, no real need to arrange funtion rooms you would just need to get to the venue at reasonable time to ensure everyone go a seat in the same area.
Or am I mistaken?
Quote by surreycouple2003
Correct me if I'm wrong but I understand a munch to be just an event where ppl meet up, have a few drinks and swap contact details etc with no actual fucking going on.
If I am correct in that asumption surely you could just have one in virtualy any pub, no real need to arrange funtion rooms you would just need to get to the venue at reasonable time to ensure everyone go a seat in the same area.
Or am I mistaken?

I'm pretty sure I have seen threds and other posts asking more or less the same thing.
Not sure about you but I would not feel to cumfortable going to my local BeefEater with 50 other like minded people and having to watch what is being said about our experiences and other sexual encounters sad I would prefer if this was done with the landlords/ owners permission and possilbly out of the gaze and earshot of the straightlaced general public . As for people "Fucking" as you so delicatly put it , that would be up to the people to make their own arrangements to find somewhere for their activities as I am sure that fornication in public is still ileagle and even private clubs have to have some sort of license. I'm sure though you will have lots of answers to your questions.
Cheer up and give us all a big biggrin
Hi there Bifem
I do apologise for my less than polite terminology however I felt it neccessary to avoid any potential misunderstanding as to what I was refering to (seeing as I was potentially labouring under a false impression as to what a 'munch' actually was) and using terms such as 'touching' or 'contact' may have caused some confusion.
Personally I would have no qualms what so ever about sitting in the corner of a pub chatting about stuff, although I do recognise and respect that others may feel more comfortable doing this elsewhere.
Hope that explains my position :-)
Hi folks sorry havent left any new info last few days been caught up on family matters.
Finding it hard to get the location previously mentioned on a friday or saturday as it doubles up as a second bar at week ends and not to keen on letting out for private does.
TY to surrey cpl for asking that ? i was getting quiet worried as the boundries of a munch did seem to be getting a bit blurred and getting a bit concerned as to what i was letting myself in for redface lol
Do have another place in mind will get a cost and possible dates for a weekend over the next cpl of days .
P.S would be happy to meet in a pub if anyone else arranges a munch.
biggrin Come on Pete hun we're all getting desperate here lol :P ( When is the end of the munch season ??)Seriously hun good on you for taking it on kiss and by the way did VFR get hold of you ?
Quote by pj2play
TY to surrey cpl for asking that ? i was getting quiet worried as the boundries of a munch did seem to be getting a bit blurred and getting a bit concerned as to what i was letting myself in for redface lol

Hi PJ
Your very welcome!
Personally I think there is quite alot of confusion with regard to terminology, thats why its sometimes best to just call a 'spade a spade' or a 'fuck a fuck'.
Maybe the site needs a glossary!!! :-)
ps hope all goes well with your munch planning.
Quote by surreycouple2003
Personally I think there is quite alot of confusion with regard to terminology, thats why its sometimes best to just call a 'spade a spade' or a 'fuck a fuck'.
Maybe the site needs a glossary!!! :-).

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
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kiss Thank you Sussexguy :P