Party for Couples & Females February 5th Surrey

30 Nov 2004

Hello There.
A Big Thank You to all who came last Saturday and made that party the biggest one of ours yet - word is spreading and our parties are growing!!!! wink

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/25898.html
The next Party will be on Saturday 5th February
Our Parties are Predominantly Soft-Swing and are perfectly suited to 'new-to-scene' people who want to check out parties.
The Venue we use features an Indoor Heated Pool & a dedicated Play Room.
As always these parties are for Couples & Females only.
We do not make any exceptions to this rule even if you are really nice and think that we might - we wont. So Single Guys please dont waste our time & yours.
If you are interested in coming along please drop us an email telling us abit about you and please include pics.

D&Mxxx

1 Dec 2004

any idea what date yet???

1 Dec 2004

Quote by surreycouple2
any idea what date yet???

Not yet.
Our original date was for the 29th - but that clashes with the SE Munch .
The other option is the 15th - but that is a bit too close to Xmas / NYear etc etc so might not be convenient for everyone.
Alternatively we might have it on the 5th of Feb - however Feb seems to be longer than we want to wait for a Party!!
Obviously Surreycouple2 (gosh this could get confusing!!) you will have to send pics etc as we have asked before.
Also you never got round to telling us who is was that recommended our parties to you.
wink

Dxx

1 Dec 2004

Can I ask a question? I know you have a strict criteria as to who is allowed to attend these parties of yours, but can't help noticing that there is never any feedback from anyone about it. Pretty much all the parties held by others have someone saying 'thanks for a great party, loved this....., loved that....., great meeting so and so........, do you know what I mean? Is part of the party agreement that no-one is to speak about it afterwards or is it that no-one from Swinging Heaven actually goes?
Just a thought :shock:
Mal

1 Dec 2004

Hi Mal,
I can answer that - most of the people who attend our parties are not regular forum posters - they either contact us, or we contact them through the Photo Ads section.
We get lots of emails and phone calls thanking us for the party, and are far too discreet to post those comments here (certainly without permission)
We did, however, attempt to post photos on here of our parties but sadly that is against the AUP and we're not technical enough to sort out a site.
Mxxx

1 Dec 2004

Quote by mal609
Can I ask a question? I know you have a strict criteria as to who is allowed to attend these parties of yours, but can't help noticing that there is never any feedback from anyone about it.
Pretty much all the parties held by others have someone saying 'thanks for a great party, loved this....., loved that....., great meeting so and so........, do you know what I mean?
Is part of the party agreement that no-one is to speak about it afterwards or is it that no-one from Swinging Heaven actually goes?
Just a thought :shock:
Mal

Hi Mal
I would dearly love all of the people that come to our parties to tell everyone just how good our parties are as that would encourage others.
However most of the couples that come to our parties either contact us (or we contact them) via the Photo ads section.
On the rare occasions that couples do come to us through the Forum they have posted and the posts have been favourable.
Most however just send us emails thanking us.
I am actually preparing a list of quotes and responses - but I was in two minds as to whether or not to put them on our ad or party thread in case we just seemed a bit smug.
Cheers wink

Dxxx

1 Dec 2004

We've been! And we can say we were not alone - we paid nothing - and these guys are genuine!
Though we're not validated by "popular" forum members.
But any concerns PM us.
We're going to wait till the summer to go along next! biggrin

1 Dec 2004

We have been and had a great time, it was our first party and we will be going again.
It is very relaxed and the people we met there were really nice, we are even planning to meet some cpls we met there in london.
If anyone is new and wants to to know what the party is like as it will be your first time you are free to PM me.
L & D

2 Dec 2004

Quote by cplonamission
We have been and had a great time, it was our first party and we will be going again.
It is very relaxed and the people we met there were really nice, we are even planning to meet some cpls we met there in london.
If anyone is new and wants to to know what the party is like as it will be your first time you are free to PM me.
L & D

Quote by OnlyUs
We've been! And we can say we were not alone - we paid nothing - and these guys are genuine!
Though we're not validated by "popular" forum members.
But any concerns PM us.
We're going to wait till the summer to go along next!

awww...you guys.....
Warms my Heart & makes it all worthwhile.
What also makes it worthwhile is being around lots of good looking naked people splashing around in the pool and touching each other and stuff......!!!!!!! wink

Dxxx

2 Dec 2004

Quote by surreycouple2
any idea what date yet???

Yes we do......!!!!
The new improved official date is......(drum roll).........
biggrin

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D
SATURDAY 5TH of FEB!!!!!!!
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
Hope to hear from you all soooon!!!!!
D&Mxxx

3 Dec 2004

Cheeky bump for the weekend!
wink

Mxxx

3 Dec 2004

We went to the last party which my partner and i had a great time....relaxing no pressure fun....there was alot of couples there as well but we were the only ones from the forum as everyone else had replyed through the ads would love to go to the next one as maggie and myself felt very comfortable at the last one!

6 Dec 2004

Quote by da69ve
We went to the last party which my partner and i had a great time....relaxing no pressure fun....there was alot of couples there as well but we were the only ones from the forum as everyone else had replyed through the ads section.
We would love to go to the next one as maggie and myself felt very comfortable at the last one!

Hello there Dave & Maggie
Glad you guys had a good time!!! wink

We'd love you both to join us on the 5th of Feb.
Seems like a long way away - but the best things come to those that wait..!!!!! :wink:
Speak to you soon
D&Mxxx

7 Dec 2004

:wink: :wink:
Shameless Bump...!!!!!!
:wink:
Dxxx

8 Dec 2004

Not as shameless as this one!
wink

Mxxxx

8 Dec 2004

No single guys now theres a suprise rolleyes

Why is it that couples and females are welcome but single guys not, dont get it?
A lot of isngle guys on here get flak and yes some posts are crap but us genuine guys miss out on the fun, can someone explain why?

8 Dec 2004

Quote by EssexLad7
No single guys now theres a suprise
Why is it that couples and females are welcome but single guys not, dont get it?
A lot of isngle guys on here get flak and yes some posts are crap but us genuine guys miss out on the fun, can someone explain why?

Hi there Essex Lad
Its got nothing to do with how crap single guys post's or emails are nor is it to do with how genuine single guys are or arent.
Nor is it to do with the fact that it would not be humanly possible to deal with the ridiculous amount of emails from single guys we would receive on a daily basis (we get enough as it is!!)
The answer is much simpler than that - Its our party & we dont want any there.
wink

D&Mxx

9 Dec 2004

Quote by Elissamay
Not as shameless as this one!

Mxxxx

I wouldnt bet on it..........
:wink:

10 Dec 2004

Quote by surreycouple2003
Not as shameless as this one!

Mxxxx

I wouldnt bet on it..........
:wink:

11 Dec 2004

Hi everyone! we're new here and it all sounds quite relaxed, just what we were looking for. We considered the Rios social munch but it sounds a bit man heavy and as we are first timers a bit of equilibrium would be in order!
Your partys sound great, what do we have to do to be invited? we can provide pics!
We would like an intimate evening with other couples, what sort of age range come to the partys? I'm 39, my girlfriend is 27. Could you let us know some details (type of venue/people/ whats expected re:alchol etc price)
Thanks and look forward to meeting some of you!
Dr Rock & Ms Kitty
Mods message: as you're new here it would have been helpful if you had taken some LITTLE time to read the rules about avatars before posting yours.

11 Dec 2004

Quote by Naughty Nurse
hi just had to post a message here as Mal the moderators comment I felt was a little unhelpful to the lovely surrey couple I don't know if these comments were retracted as I had to write straight away I was that annoyed.
I loved the party the hosts were Great fun the venue was lovely the pool being a great extra. We were first timers and this party helped me break all the scarey stereotypes of swinging.
I would recomend this party to anyone it was great. and I'm definetly going next time.
Thanks guys x

Naughty Nurse - they weren't comments, it was a question. Therefore nothing to retract. It also allowed the hosts themselves to answer and also prompted others to comment positively on the party. There are a lot of timewasters on this Site. This gave them the opportunity to show they are not.
Mal
wink

13 Dec 2004

Quote by mskitty_DrRock
Hi everyone! we're new here and it all sounds quite relaxed, just what we were looking for.
We considered the Rios social munch but it sounds a bit man heavy and as we are first timers a bit of equilibrium would be in order!
Your partys sound great, what do we have to do to be invited? we can provide pics!
We would like an intimate evening with other couples, what sort of age range come to the partys? I'm 39, my girlfriend is 27.
Could you let us know some details (type of venue/people/ whats expected re:alchol etc price)
Dr Rock & Ms Kitty

Hi there
If you are interested in coming along you will need to send us an email telling us a little bit about yourselves and include some pics.
We will then send you all the details that you will need.
Our parties are only for Couples & Females.
There is no charge for our parties (we shell out for the venue) but you are responsible for your own refreshments.
Hope to hear from you soon wink

D&Mxxx

13 Dec 2004

Quote by Naughty Nurse
hi just had to post a message here as Mal the moderators comment I felt was a little unhelpful to the lovely surrey couple I don't know if these comments were retracted as I had to write straight away I was that annoyed.
I loved the party the hosts were Great fun the venue was lovely the pool being a great extra. We were first timers and this party helped me break all the scarey stereotypes of swinging.
I would recomend this party to anyone it was great. and I'm definetly going next time.
Thanks guys x

Hi there Miss NaughtyNurse - glad you had a great time and we look forward to seeing you guys in Feb!!!!

Quote by mal609
Naughty Nurse - they weren't comments, it was a question. Therefore nothing to retract. It also allowed the hosts themselves to answer and also prompted others to comment positively on the party. There are a lot of timewasters on this Site. This gave them the opportunity to show they are not.
Mal

To an extent they were comments - Mal mentioned the fact that we get very little feedback from our parties compared to other events that get posted on the forum and I guess that is a comment on an observation.
And it is touching that NaughtyNurse rushed to our defence, however I do agree with Mal and I in no way feel that Mals comments / question had any malice in it whatsoever.
I feel that it did give us & others the opportunity to respond - and we couldnt have wished for a better response from the few of our guests that do use the forum.
:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
Dxxx

14 Dec 2004

Quote by surreycouple2003
Not as shameless as this one!

Mxxxx

I wouldnt bet on it..........
:wink:

14 Dec 2004

Guys
Enough is enough
I know the old cliche about 'if you don't like it, you don't have to read it' - however, in my case as a moderator, I do. Bumping up posts happens all the time all over the forum, but yours are getting tedious. You have already said that you don't get many replies from the forum and most come from direct invites or from your ads, so I don't see the merit in you both continuously bumping this thread. If you continue to bump it as you have done, then I will start deleting them. If you persist after that, then I will lock it and people will have to go hunting for it.
Fair do's?
Mal

15 Dec 2004

Quote by mal609
Guys
Enough is enough
I know the old cliche about 'if you don't like it, you don't have to read it' - however, in my case as a moderator, I do.
Bumping up posts happens all the time all over the forum, but yours are getting tedious.
You have already said that you don't get many replies from the forum and most come from direct invites or from your ads, so I don't see the merit in you both continuously bumping this thread.
If you continue to bump it as you have done, then I will start deleting them. If you persist after that, then I will lock it and people will have to go hunting for it.
Fair do's?
Mal

Hi Mal
To be honest didnt really think it was all that tedious and certainly didnt think it would upset you of all people.
True we dont get as many responses from the forum as we do the photo ads but this thread has demonstrated that people that use the forum do come to our parties and we are receiving an increasing amount of email's from people interested in our parties because they have seen this thread.
However those people do not post on the thread - they just email us, therefore without the occasional bump the thread would soon be lost in the oblivion that is page 2 or 3 or 4 of the forum (and if we are all honest we all know that very few people read beyond page 1!!).
We offer an alternative to most parties because of the selection process we use. We create an environment where younger people who want to try swinging in a relaxed and chilled out environment can do so.
Younger people are probably (though not always!) going to a be slightly wary about attening a party and as you pointed out early on in this thread there are alot of timewasters out there - we therefore feel that it is necessary to maintain a high profile in order for people to see that
a) there are parties out there specifically for younger people
b) that we are genuine & our parties are real
We arent prolific with our re-bumping of the threads but we do feel that the re-bumping is useful. This thread has actually been bumped 6 times between Dec 3rd and Dec 14th - which really aint all that!
As users of this forum we are obviously in the hands of the mods and we have to abide by your decisions - however at the risk of upsetting you I feel that you have been a little heavy handed with your approach to this issue, you publicy gave us a dressing down and threatened to delete posts and then lock our thread - maybe that would have been better said in pm, dont know.
Maybe we can meet halfway - perhaps you might allow us the occasional bump.
Hope that this has swayed your opinion.
Cheers wink

D&Mxxx

15 Dec 2004

Hi D
I was just wondering if this post could be placed up the top as a sticky or is that just for munches?
Dave

15 Dec 2004

Quote by da69ve
Hi D
I was just wondering if this post could be placed up the top as a sticky or is that just for munches?
Dave

I'll refer you to this sticky then shall I, http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/17906.html
As they've obviously had a huge impact on you rolleyes

Jas

15 Dec 2004

Quote by Jas-Tim
Hi D
I was just wondering if this post could be placed up the top as a sticky or is that just for munches?
Dave

I'll refer you to this sticky then shall I, http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/17906.html
As they've obviously had a huge impact on you rolleyes

Jas
Oooh thats a bit spikey!!
Having a bad day?
Mxxx

15 Dec 2004

Just so you know that MOST days dealing with the TTTTs of the site are enough to give us Mods a bad day.
Between two Mods we have banned the same person from the site a total of 5 times since m.; banned at least 60 false posters and answered a bucketload of emails enquiries. and then we get THIS shit???
:P