Possibility of Singles Social but maybe with a twist??

13 Nov 2008

After the successful singles social which I organised last year, I was 'thinking' of doing another, possibly around valentines or late Feb. The last one was for the 'totally single' only, so that everyone there knew beyond doubt, that everyone attending was available for play, or something more, should they click with someone... This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does.
The idea of this is so that anyone who would like to approach someone, doesn't worry of offending by being 'over familiar' to someone who doesn't 'get active' and just likes to chat.
Saying that, this would be totally a social & not a sexual meeting but would give an opportunity to meet the likeminded.
Does this sound like a possibility?? Or would you prefere totally singles only?? Or not bother at all
It would again be here in Loughborough.
Thanx
Minxie :rascal: xx

13 Nov 2008

I'm easly suited either way... and as the last one was a great night.. please can i be the first to put my name down for this.
Jiggle

13 Nov 2008

Sounds like a good idea!
Could you put my name down too please?
XX

14 Nov 2008

Hi
I'd like to put my name down for this.
Seems like a good idea to me.
Cheers
Slider

14 Nov 2008

Sounds like a brilliant idea. Would definitely be interested

14 Nov 2008

Great idea
I'm keen for this.
Add my name too
Kris

16 Nov 2008

Minxi..please put my name down ,went to the last one you organised and had a great night so gonna have to attend this one to..
1wineman2.

16 Nov 2008

count mrs easy in babes

16 Nov 2008

wow a social in Loughborough for singles - count me in for sure!!!!!! biggrin

:D:D

16 Nov 2008

Sounds like a brilliant idea (sorry I missed last one).
... which way to Loughborough?

16 Nov 2008

Please put my name down too! I'd love to be apart of this one, sounds great!!

16 Nov 2008

Hi.
If it is OK, I'd be up for attending a social that was for singles and consenting couples.

17 Nov 2008

Sounds all we need Please add me

17 Nov 2008

Quote by Buxom-Minx
This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does.

Doesn't this mean everybody on the site?
If you want singles or couples thats everyone else. Who else is left Minxie? Or have I missed another set of people in SH lol

Dave_Notts

17 Nov 2008

Hoooray - something for the singles!!
Yes please Minx I'd love to attend, please add my name to the growing list.
Scarlett xxxxxxx

18 Nov 2008

Quote by Dave__Notts
This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does.

Doesn't this mean everybody on the site?
If you want singles or couples thats everyone else. Who else is left Minxie? Or have I missed another set of people in SH lol

Dave_Notts
Yes Dave.. you have missed some others... The section in a partnership that Don't play. They are the half partnership that let their other half whilst they're happy only to watch or to let them go off and play.
And after reading the many topics here over the last 2 yrs, I see that there are people here who prefere just the social side(chatrooms/forums) without meets etc, and thats their business, the rest of us can get on with ours :rascal:
Anyway, to avoid last years endless grief in the forums, I thought I'd put the option forward for playing couples, esp those that would like to meet a single fem or a single guy without the pressure of a commitment.
This post at the moment has not yet been made a definate event & very few have expressed wether they'd prefere it to be a total singlies thing?? or like the idea of the playing couples coming too??
So until I have much more informative feedback I will not be making definate plans.
Thankyou to those that have posted so far x but can you please also let me have your preferences.
Thankyou
Minxie :rascal: xx

18 Nov 2008

i'll be interested :bounce:

18 Nov 2008

Hello
Well yet again Minxie that 'does' have decided to take the 'bull by the horn'. May I put my name down please for what promises to be a great night..I missed the last one due to work commitment!
I am not swayed either way for exclusively singles or with couples.. I think we should be inclusive. We should not behave like couples that treat singles like pariahs. The only speculation surely is that anyone that attends is by default available to play!!!!
Regards amd kisses
South

18 Nov 2008

Yeah - what South Darky said!
I generally don't meet up with couples normally - but that's only because of problems I've had with the male half of the couple not letting the female half of the couple know they were a) talking to me or b) meeting me. If it were a situation where both half of couple there and happy for play, then would be more relaxed to know I could approach the male half without causing problems within a couple, which is always something I avoid at all costs.
Just my little opinion
Scarlett xxxxx

18 Nov 2008

Yes please -- put me down as a "provisional"

18 Nov 2008

Minxi - what a great idea - I'm happy either way but I see the point made by others preferring singles - please put my name on the list - a definite single (who loves to play), Jack

18 Nov 2008

I would be up for this please keep me posted.

18 Nov 2008

only me again..Minxi i'm happy to play with singles or couples ..as long as theres a click think either is fine..hope loads put there names down and the party takes place so you did organise a great bash last time..xx.

19 Nov 2008

Quote by ScarletTheHarlot
Yeah - what South Darky said!
I generally don't meet up with couples normally - but that's only because of problems I've had with the male half of the couple not letting the female half of the couple know they were a) talking to me or b) meeting me. If it were a situation where both half of couple there and happy for play, then would be more relaxed to know I could approach the male half without causing problems within a couple, which is always something I avoid at all costs.
Just my little opinion
Scarlett xxxxx

Totally agree Scarlet biggrin

that was my point entirely.
Knowing everyone there was available 4 play without upsetting a partner, yaaay lol
Anyway, all those who have replied are more than welcome should this go ahead for definate.
Please keep your opinions coming in so I know which way to sway x
Minxie :rascal: xx

20 Nov 2008

Yes please put my name down

20 Nov 2008

Sounds like a great idea.
I agree with what was said by Southdarky before.
I'd love to come if you go ahead with it.

22 Nov 2008

Anymore interest at all?
Anymore opinions??
Weeell, I needed a bump hehe :P
Minxie :rascal: xx

22 Nov 2008

I'd be interested either way nice to get socials round our way!
But can i clarify... by couples do u mean couples that are happy to play or couples that are happy to play with singles?
Ta
Jus xx

22 Nov 2008

Quote by Juicy_BBW
I'd be interested either way nice to get socials round our way!
But can i clarify... by couples do u mean couples that are happy to play or couples that are happy to play with singles?
Ta
Jus xx

Hi Jus
Yes I see I hadn't made that very clear.. Thankyou for pointing it out x
The couples must both be happy to play with singles. If they are only into other couples they cant attend anywhere. This is purely directed towards singles being able to approach any other guest there without fear of 'ooooo your a threat' type of attitude. Just all mutual friendliness
Minxie :rascal: xx

22 Nov 2008

sounds fun i enjoyed the last one so please put me down for this one. Penfold lol

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