Its what you do with it what counts isnt it. an 8 inch cock doesnt allways mean great sex does it!
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Why do most adds look for 8 inches plus?
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Fair enough mate!
whats it like to be that big? do woman really prefer it?
whats it like to be that big? do woman really prefer it?
Sex God
Oh not the size debate again 
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: It's the ususal fantacy of most women.....but when it comes down to reality most of them will tell you that an average size cock (5-7 inc) is sufficient and of course is more important if you know what to do with it.
A lot of women told me that when they tried exeptionaly large cocks after a few times they gave up, as it was not enjoyable for them anymore.
Jackie is right......and BTW Jackie that photo of your arse it gives me (daily) a constant problem with my average best friend....lol
wiz57
A lot of women told me that when they tried exeptionaly large cocks after a few times they gave up, as it was not enjoyable for them anymore.
Jackie is right......and BTW Jackie that photo of your arse it gives me (daily) a constant problem with my average best friend....lol
wiz57
Quote by bluexxx
Oh not the size debate again
Yeh, Blue same debates, same things being said - the guys with the less than big cocks all telling themselves that size dosn't matter, and all the girls they've been with have told them - of course - that "it's what you do with it that counts".
And then they want to know why we advertise for big cocks.... :roll:
Rachel
Why do people join in proper posts, and cane the people that are chatting? if you dont wanna talk serious why bother!!!
Quote by Lee19Essex
Its what you do with it what counts isnt it. an 8 inch cock doesnt allways mean great sex does it!
If a guy has an 8, 9 or even 10 inch cock -yes they do exist - and he's ramming you with it - it feels fantastic. "what you do with it that counts" is kind of half right. When it's that size, all he has to do is pump it, he doesn't need any other techniques, he just has to pump it and it gets you off.
Or he can lie there and you can ride it, and you will get off, if it is that big - which doesn't work if it is too small to touch the sides.
A smaller cock can be used to good effect - so can a finger - ask any lesbian or bi-fem. You just have to learn the techniques - in fact you are going to have to if that's what you've got.
You might not like that it's true, you might not WANT it to be true - but it is true.
Even if you get some girls who write here -on this thread - that they DON'T enjoy big cocks and PREFER smaller, 6 inch cocks - it doesn't change the large number of us who all want big cocks, that's why so many of our ads demand them!
So the answer to your question - an 8 inch cock always means great sex - yes it does!
Rachel
Sex God
I was being serious. We've had threads like this time and time again. They get boring after a while.
I don't think anyone wasn't being serious, were they - except maybe you
I don't think anyone wasn't being serious, were they - except maybe you
Quote by wiz57
It's the ususal fantacy of most women.....but when it comes down to reality most of them will tell you that an average size cock (5-7 inc) is sufficient and of course is more important if you know what to do with it.
A lot of women told me that when they tried exeptionaly large cocks after a few times they gave up, as it was not enjoyable for them anymore.
wiz57
Yes we tell you smaller guys that.
Any of you larger guys ever have a girl REALLY tell you that yours was too big?
Or were they too busy enjoying it?
Rachel
Firstly let me say that daily many new members join the board so I don't find it boring to r read the same questions. We have the coice to reply or ignore them.
Rachel
Yes it is a matter of size but depents from which angle you see it.
If the love tunnel of a woman is the size of the Channel tunnel than of course it needs a huge train, like the Eurostart, to be filled and satisfied. That is why a number of women enjoy fisting and that is the only way to satisfy them..
I expect you will admit that there are varius tunel sizes and at the end of the day it's like the sauspans which needs the right lid to fit correctly?
It's very easy to reconign a woman with a love tunnel the size of Channel Tunnel by looking her mouth. If she has a mouth like Julia at "Pretty Woma " from ear to ear then definately she needs a huge dong to satisfy her....but if a woman has a small petit mouth for sure 5-7 inches is enough to give them a good time.
As about me I have been very happy with my average 6 inches cock and I had plenty satisfied women in my life.
wiz
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Rachel
Yes it is a matter of size but depents from which angle you see it.
If the love tunnel of a woman is the size of the Channel tunnel than of course it needs a huge train, like the Eurostart, to be filled and satisfied. That is why a number of women enjoy fisting and that is the only way to satisfy them..
I expect you will admit that there are varius tunel sizes and at the end of the day it's like the sauspans which needs the right lid to fit correctly?
It's very easy to reconign a woman with a love tunnel the size of Channel Tunnel by looking her mouth. If she has a mouth like Julia at "Pretty Woma " from ear to ear then definately she needs a huge dong to satisfy her....but if a woman has a small petit mouth for sure 5-7 inches is enough to give them a good time.
As about me I have been very happy with my average 6 inches cock and I had plenty satisfied women in my life.
wiz
xxx
The question that started the thread was why do so many women advertise for big cocks.
Now you have at least one woman who has told you why.
That thing about the size of a woman's vagina being related to the size of her mouth is a myth, same as big cocks being related to big feet, hands or noses. One is based on bone structure and one is an organ is it's own right. But that isn't the issue.
We all know average guys will post the
"it's what you do with it that counts..."
"I have satisfied many women..."
"I have been told by many women..."
There are probably hundreds of guys that could post that.
What would make a counter argument was if we heard from a woman saying:
"I don't like big cocks - I want small ones"
or
a guy posting to say
"I wish my cock was smaller"
When we see one of those posted, that will be a convincing argument
Rachel
Now you have at least one woman who has told you why.
That thing about the size of a woman's vagina being related to the size of her mouth is a myth, same as big cocks being related to big feet, hands or noses. One is based on bone structure and one is an organ is it's own right. But that isn't the issue.
We all know average guys will post the
"it's what you do with it that counts..."
"I have satisfied many women..."
"I have been told by many women..."
There are probably hundreds of guys that could post that.
What would make a counter argument was if we heard from a woman saying:
"I don't like big cocks - I want small ones"
or
a guy posting to say
"I wish my cock was smaller"
When we see one of those posted, that will be a convincing argument
Rachel
Quote by wiz57
It's very easy to reconign a woman with a love tunnel the size of Channel Tunnel by looking her mouth.
If she has a mouth like Julia at "Pretty Woma " from ear to ear then definately she needs a huge dong to satisfy her....but if a woman has a small petit mouth for sure 5-7 inches is enough to give them a good time.
Not really sure about that mouth thing......
I'd be interested to hear about a guy wanting a smaller cock - I do recall an episode of Sex & the City featuring that, but never for real..!!!
I should imagine it is very much a horses for courses thing - however the one thing that allways sticks in my mind and in my experience women who say that size doesnt matter all seemed to own big dildos......
Personally I am of average size - I used to think that I was small (and the ads pages do nothing to dispell that!) however since hosting and going to parties I have realised that isnt the case.
I would however prefer to have a slightly bigger cock.
Dx
The thing is in the normal outside world these arguments do hold up. They are all largely theory anyway and are never put to the test.
In the swinging world we we do meet up and have sex with each other, often in front of each other, the myths get dispelled pretty quickly.
Which is really what this is about - a new guy has come in here looking for girls to shag and finds the girls are looking for guys with big cocks -so he starts complaining.
We get a few guys doing the "size dosn't matter argument".
It doesn't change the ads though!
Your solution is better D - hold a party.
And personally - I'm looking forward to Halloween!
Rachel
In the swinging world we we do meet up and have sex with each other, often in front of each other, the myths get dispelled pretty quickly.
Which is really what this is about - a new guy has come in here looking for girls to shag and finds the girls are looking for guys with big cocks -so he starts complaining.
We get a few guys doing the "size dosn't matter argument".
It doesn't change the ads though!
Your solution is better D - hold a party.
And personally - I'm looking forward to Halloween!
Rachel
Quote by mark/surrey
the tecnique that magority of girls ive mad elove to love lots of long slow teasing foreplay, if you know what your doing and you have a good tongue,youre 90% there in pleasing her.
This is an important point from Mark - technique is very important for the guys using the cock and all guys can learn good technique to satisfy their women.
My and my girls all have strap on and we all use them to fuck each other and we all have polished our techniques.
It's also worth noting that none of us have chosen 5 or 6 inch strapons.
However, foreplay is important - tongues and fingers - and when it's just girls this is more than enough.
Our preference is for the girls to all please each other with finger and tongues - but we want the guys there fucking us to have big hard cocks - and be good with them of course.
If the guy has poor technique - if he's big - you can go on top and enjoy it - decide how you ride, level of peneration, everything.
Horse for courses as is said.
And more courses for boys hung like horses.
Rachel
Quote by chick0074
The thing is in the normal outside world these arguments do hold up. They are all largely theory anyway and are never put to the test.
In the swinging world we we do meet up and have sex with each other, often in front of each other, the myths get dispelled pretty quickly.
Rachel
So the difference of the normal world and here is only that internet allows you to circumvent the time finding what you looking for, in meeting and having sex.
I tottally agree with Mark that 90% of women need the long foreplay before they are satisfied. Most women can have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation and small munber from vaginal penetration.
You're very new to swinging aren't you as well as this site.
A lot of women come quickly - either doing it to each other - or with a guy who knows what he's doing wth his cock. Especially if the cock is big.
It still doesn't change the issue - most of the ads - women looking for a guy to join them - want big cocks.
And you are still in here arguing against the reasons given. A man telling a woman what women want - as if you know better than us what we want or what satisfies us!
We are still yet to hear from the woman who like small cocks or te guy who wishes he had a smaller cock
Rachel
A lot of women come quickly - either doing it to each other - or with a guy who knows what he's doing wth his cock. Especially if the cock is big.
It still doesn't change the issue - most of the ads - women looking for a guy to join them - want big cocks.
And you are still in here arguing against the reasons given. A man telling a woman what women want - as if you know better than us what we want or what satisfies us!
We are still yet to hear from the woman who like small cocks or te guy who wishes he had a smaller cock
Rachel
Quote by wiz57
I tottally agree with Mark that 90% of women need the long foreplay before they are satisfied. Most women can have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation and small munber from vaginal penetration.
So out of the five women you've had sex with in your whole life - 4 and a half of them needed long foreplay?
hah!
Rachel
Sex God
Thank you for the common sense Rachel! Wiz57 sounds like he's been reading too many text books
Know you'd say that, D!
Makes you wonder why they bother posting.
Like your party thread - couples and b-fems only - and you get " can single guys come as well" - duh!
(though Mark/Surrey did make a good case - perhaps he should be the exception?)
So we get ads for "young fit guys with large cocks wanted" and we get "would an old Greek bloke with a small cock do?" - duh!
Rachel
Makes you wonder why they bother posting.
Like your party thread - couples and b-fems only - and you get " can single guys come as well" - duh!
(though Mark/Surrey did make a good case - perhaps he should be the exception?)
So we get ads for "young fit guys with large cocks wanted" and we get "would an old Greek bloke with a small cock do?" - duh!
Rachel
Sex God
Step 2 - get the strap on all lubed up and ready :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
