1000 Posts and still here

Quote by Sexysteph
Oh well I have reached a 1000 posts and for some reason I seem still to be here. I wonder why?
I first heard of Swingingheaven from an old contact that had read one of my first ever erotic tales and they suggested I send some to the site. Now being the very shy individual I was at that time I emailed this strange Guy called Mark and offered to send him some of them. I did not think anything of it till I got a reply from him asking if I had any more. Well have to admit …. I had several more and I sent them to him. This was the very first boost I ever had from a complete stranger who managed, to instil confidence in myself .. to encourage me to be myself and not repress my thoughts. Mark created my own little section of Swingingheaven, which sadly has become a bit neglected lately - I think I should do some more stories soon.
Anyway I went away from the Swing scene for quite a while when I had to re-evaluate my life. I had been a chatroom op on another site but suffered for a while from stress. When I came back one of the regulars from the old site was now a regular on Swingingheaven and he told me to check out the Chatroom here. So I did and one of the very first people who spoke to me in there was one of the Chat ops – non other than the King of Bollox himself - Mr NeilinLeeds. Like Mark he made me feel so welcome I pulled up a chair and seemed to become part of the crowd in there.
I was a bit scared of the Forums and terrified by the Mods (especially Bluexxx) she seemed sooooooooooo tough. I found it very intimidating to get started out here but I had plenty of encouragement. Gradually I began to meet people through the social meets.
Unfortunately I hit a disaster patch in my life again at the end of May last year when I was sexually assaulted by a Bus Driver and had to undergo counselling. The attack had happened because I was a swinger. The guy was sure that he would get away with it thinking I would not report it because I was a swinger. I did report it and he lost his job but it left me wondering if I could cope with swinging any longer. One of the regulars who I trusted, Marcuso, who I consider to be a very dear friend, was one guy I told the whole thing to – if it had not been for him I reckon I would have turned my back on a lifestyle I love. I owe you honey … Big time Thanks. He helped me put it all behind me and move on.
Since then of course I seem to have posted a lot more on the Forum, Got involved in Munches and had tremendous fun with a lot of very lovely people.
Swingingheaven has been there for me when I have needed it – so a big big thank you for putting up with me and building my confidence and I hope I have not bored anyone too much.