Clare - Thank you.
You have given me both the opportunity and inspiration to echo your comments, almost to the letter. (Not the bi thing)
There are some truly wonderful and understanding people here. I don't care that it's allegedly not real life; and would argue that point anyway based on the Munches I've been to.
I came here in May looking for an easy lay (steady Easy) but quickly found I'd gotten hold of completely the wrong end of the stick.
Some of you have seen me go through the initial break up from some-one who was my world, the death of my belove'd Bertie (welling up now), the reconciliation, and more recently; the final split. Some thought I was being too public, but I had already decided that if we were to become friends, then I should treat you all with the same level of O&H and above all, respect, that I offer and hope for "in real life"
I found nothing but support and encouragement throughout my 'troubles' which will shortly be sorted and over.
I've had my fall outs here. Just like "in real life" Mainly due to my own arrogance. But I think we've gotten over them now. I'm sure if there are any more - we'll get over those too.
This is a wonderful place to be, and is full of wonderful people.
So I'd like to join Clare(oh ! ! - would I???????????) and say "Thank you" You really are something else.
So, Clare?
Fancy a fuck, then?
Clare - this place is wonderful - I discovered that ages ago.
Although I cannot physically participate as much as others in here - I have made some wonderful friendships.
I have said before -I went through years of having no confidence and hating my appearance. SH has helped a great deal in restoring my self esteem and letting me come to terms with who I am.
It is this type of thing that takes a while to realise.
You post is lovely and indicative of the worth of the Cafe and SH.
Hugs, Alex x
It was totaly refreshing as an environment... its a shame that "swingers" don't have regular munches in the same way the bdsm scene does.
There were so many highlights of the night that just could not have been done in any other social environment... Like "oh, you've got your hood pierced... Can I have a look at it/" result=knickers down, lol.
And a very fine thong with a very inviting message being shown so I could photograph it ;-)
And snogging a guy in public without everyone thinking I was really strange (well they do anyways, but.... lol)
Oh and hunting for the lighter in mars's (or was it venus's) pocket and not realising he had it in his hand, lolololol
Proper hugs and kisses as a way to say "hi..." instead of a hand shake or peck on the cheek.
If anyone from the notts/derby area is interested in a semi-regular get together with a few drinks in say derby/notts/ilson then let me know and if there is enough interest then I'll see if we can arainge it as a regular night out... say once a month as a night out for people... if its kept to local people then theres no real cost involved for anyone.
I thought everyone knew the world was full of unknowing people who's opinions are seriously flawed? I have interests in other boards, and it comes as NO suprise to me your thoughts. The television and newspapers screw up the world, because so many belive it or dont because of special effects. I recently saw jack Dee ripping the lung cancer advert off, where the woman could not breathe, and had a trailing airline to her face 24/7... she died by the way.. because he thought it was funny. People jus dont know what is serious and what is not these days. The soaps have replaced real lives for so many, and they cant talk, discuss things with anyone about owt. I recently had a chat with a friend about the myths of vasectomy, another about impotence, and it makes a stronger bond, but they felt it too bad to ask the doctor, and were in a real state of worry. What a world, where we are so afraid to tell anyone for fear of being branded!
I try to correct the misconceptions, but often it is best to listen, and to pinder on just how much we have learnt from the 60's? Judging by the earwiggings I get...not a lot? I rest my case on the recent program of teenage pregnancies..and how they thought it was not possible to get pregnant if they did X or Y, and even after 3 kids were STILL tring it and failing!
I'm jsut on my way out... but if anyone from the notts/derby and possibly leics/lincs areas (only because they are further aways and I dont know what public transport is like, unless one person drives the other drinks, lol) is interested then PM me and let me know if you'd be interested and i'll put something onto the lets meet section tommorow with some ideas :-)
As Clare said were really interested but it will have to be after crimbo for us
That's the worong wobble
I've got the best type of wooble on
Valpol and screamers
to when we meet (talking about you lot here) and how we don't have any other friends who we'd ever dream of doing that a great feeling to be so open and completely ourselves when were around you lot 
.In fact were so natural we could put our slippers on and feel right at home :D 
on him!(i remember thinking to myself,if you want kinky i can tell you all about it 
)
He told her that he knew she was Bi and that she fancied her friend,this woman kicked off big time :fuckinghell: saying that it was disgusting and make her feel sick.I had to hold back because i just felt like saying "WTF is wrong with that then???"But she's the kind of person that if i said that i was curious she'd automatically think that i fancied her (not a chance she's as butt ugly :huh: as they come :giggle: )
assionkiss: :rose: :inlove: 
Thus, we're especially appreciative of the occasional visitors that make the trek out to deepest, darkest Somerset for a visit. ;)
