Hi, just registered, but visited the site many times in the past just to nose. I have a question about when you have meets.
My g/f and I have had quite a bit of action in the past, but it's always involved her enjoying herself with a guy while I watch. We've never done stuff in group situations, where I take part.
Is it ok for a couple to go to one of your meets on that basis, or is it obligatory to get involved? I'm not saying that I never would, it's just that I enjoy watching her enjoy herself. Am I alone in that?
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Hi and :welcome: , we are still newbies really, but what I gather from this site is it's a case of whatever floats your boat as long as its all consenting adults and legal of course which is one of the reasons it's such a great site, and I'm sure your turn ons are not unusual in the swinging scene. Hope you find what you seek pal.
and :welcome: to the cafeHi, I'm fairly new myself but I would have thought that you would be expected to enjoy yourself, however it is that you do that, (Obviously as long as you are not doing anything that anyone else objects to like bringing your own sheep).
The fact that you don't actively participate wouldn't be a problem.
The fact that you don't actively participate wouldn't be a problem.
Sex God
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Thanks. We've met many single guys through sites (and one duo), we've just never been involved in the group 'scene'.
just take everything at your own pace...... and make sure that both of you are comfortable with evertything.....
some couples like couples...
some like singles
some like groups...
whatever it is that floats your boat, go and have a blast......
sean xxxxxxxxxxx
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(Obviously as long as you are not doing anything that anyone else objects to like bringing your own sheep).
Well I'm sorry to tell you Parrot I'm very selfish regards things like that and people have to bring there own sheep because they cant have mine
lol save money and have fun
hump a sheep and the result is
a Wolley Jumper
bloody old but what the hell, so am I
Sex God
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(Obviously as long as you are not doing anything that anyone else objects to like bringing your own sheep).
That's us Somerset folk buggered, then.
~Reese!
Orgasminator
Welcome 
All I can say is just do what you are happy with... its all about everyone doing what they are happy with, so if watching is what you are into then people that expect you involved shouldnt really be meeting you!
Limits and mutuall respect are fundimental parts of swinging.
All I can say is just do what you are happy with... its all about everyone doing what they are happy with, so if watching is what you are into then people that expect you involved shouldnt really be meeting you!
Limits and mutuall respect are fundimental parts of swinging.
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Is it ok for a couple to go to one of your meets on that basis, or is it obligatory to get involved? I'm not saying that I never would, it's just that I enjoy watching her enjoy herself. Am I alone in that?
Hiya Tool,
When you say 'our meets' - do yo mean munches and stuff? - At these you will find almost the whole range of perversions. There are many couples who enjoy swinging in the way describe, so no, you would not be alone.
Going to the various private parties you see dotted around requires more thought. There are parties where although not obligatory, the host will make it clear that there will be a LOT of sex going on everywhere you look, and if this is not the environment you want to swing in, you should stay away from them. However, there are just as many parties which will have strict rules "No sex downstairs" for example. At those, you would be quite welcome to spend the whole party downstairs, or even just nip upstairs and shut the door behind you are horny but do not want to share at that moment.
If 'your meets' was looking for individual answers rather then asking about munches. Then for us, sex at ANY meeting is not obligatory, but then, neither is abstinence! :twisted:
lhk
Kat
