A Question

3 Dec 2003

I know the definition of cuckolding and I do not have a problem with it. However I am wondering if there is an equivalent word for a man who is being dominated, held in chastity and restrained by his wife while she is with another women. She would make her husband watch and possibly clean up afterwards, or be used in whatever manner the women want?
Does anyone know if there is a specific word for the situation confused

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Thanks
Rachel

3 Dec 2003

i dont know but i would love to be that man lol

3 Dec 2003

Sounds very much like the same thing to me rachel......a woman with a cuckold partner. Apart from what needs to be cleaned up afterwards I can't see much difference.
I can understand why you're asking the question but sorry, I've never heard a different a different word to describe it.
Steve

3 Dec 2003

LUCKYGITTUS
lol

3 Dec 2003

A man who knows and tolerates his wife's (partner's) sexual infidelity is a wittol. He's a cuckold if he doesn't know.
The acceptance of a sexual partner's 'infidelity' is a connivance.
However, as far as I can tell, there is no other term for a woman who either tolerates or is ignorant of her partner's infidelity. Curious that, isn't it?
Don't you just love the English language? :P

3 Dec 2003

From:
WITTOL
A contented cuckold.
Way back in medieval times there was the English cokewold, which eventually became our modern cuckold. The first bit is also the source of our cuckoo, with â€“old attached as a suffix giving a pejorative sense.
Some bright wordsmith of the fifteenth century took the old word and changed the first bit into wete, the quality of awareness or knowledge. (This is our modern word wit in slight disguise, as in witting, the opposite of the more common unwitting). So the idea is of a knowing cuckold, but especially somebody who is happy about the situation. This was not a state of affairs that most spectators thought reasonable or likely, so the word later took on a sense of a half-witted person, a fool. It was not accidental that William Congreve entitled a character in his play The Old Bachelor Sir Joseph Wittol. Shakespeare borrowed the adjective in The Merry Wives of Windsor: â€œI know him not; yet I wrong him to call him poor; they say the jealous wittolly knave hath masses of money; for the which his wife seems to me well-favouredâ€.
The word has pretty much gone out of use, and most old books in which you will find the word use it of a fool, but a few writers retained the cuckold sense as late as the nineteenth century. Hereâ€™s an example from an American literary magazine of 1840: â€œI knew full well that the wittol husband is a subject of ridicule rather than sympathy, and therefore, carefully concealed my suspicionsâ€.
I don't know - you ask a simple question! wink

lhk
Kat

3 Dec 2003

Oh, Kat, you're so-oooo sexy when your pedagogical. Shivers up and down my spine! kiss

3 Dec 2003

Bugger.......pressed the wrong button and ended up in :shock:

3 Dec 2003

:shock:

pedagogical

:shock: Is that something to do with being the town bike? :shock:
lhk
Kat

3 Dec 2003

Thanks for the warning! :lol:
lhk
Kat redface

think anyone noticed?

3 Dec 2003

Is that something to do with being the town bike?

Only if you'd like a ride, Kat, but I was thinking more of being in instructor/mentor/teacher mode. I'm sure you'd look divine in a cap and gown swishing your cane. :twisted:

3 Dec 2003

Seems so i'm affraid mate, seems so, lets just say that you and I are almost the same, the difference being, i thought about it, you did it.
Cheers mate, mark of Mark and Linda.
"fuck, we love this site".

3 Dec 2003

Quote by Sappho
Is that something to do with being the town bike?

Only if you'd like a ride, Kat, but I was thinking more of being in instructor/mentor/teacher mode. I'm sure you'd look divine in a cap and gown swishing your cane. :twisted:
HEY...Cap and gown are copyright to Jags!!!
biggrin

:D

3 Dec 2003

HEY...Cap and gown are copyright to Jags!!!

Ok, you get the cap and gown, I get the cane. I'll give you a head start, I will close my eyes and count to 100.
1,2 miss a few, 99, 100, COMING, READY OR NOT!
rolleyes

How many times have the women in here heard that I wonder!! :roll:
lhk
Kat

3 Dec 2003

Only if you'd like a ride, Kat, but I was thinking more of being in instructor/mentor/teacher mode.

So Sappho, do you respond well to PIF?
lhk
kat#

3 Dec 2003

PIF, Kat?

Personally Instructed Foreplay?
Passionate Intense F**king?

3 Dec 2003

Do you know, I was going to say, but wondered if anyone had any other suggestions??
Penis Inserted Fully? (actually that works - Do you respond well to Penis Inserted Fully)
I'll tell you tomorrow if noone gets it
lhk
Kat

3 Dec 2003

Pretending It's Fun? That's not a very nice thing to ask, so it can't be that.
Please Invite Friends? That's sounding better.

3 Dec 2003

Do I respond...? :shock:

Penis Inserted Fully?

Yes, it is preferable

Personally Instructed Foreplay?
Passionate Intense F**king?

Yes and Yes :twisted:

4 Dec 2003

PIF - Performance Improvement Feedback, latest buzzword to replace Constructive Criticism and the Feedback Sandwich in essence:
Define which performance criteria are being measured
Define the level of current performance
Provide evidence
Define the required level of performance
How will the improvement be achieved
Define the timescale
So....
"I want you to f*** me like I've never been f***ed"
"oh baby, that really turns me on"
"Feel how hot and wet I am"
"I want to cum"
"F*** me hard"
"NOW"
A simple, but effective model to encourage and motivate participants while providing a common direction along with a sense of purpose and worth.
lhk
Kat

4 Dec 2003

So I can't use the phrase "fancy a shag?" anymore? :cry:
Mal
wink

4 Dec 2003

So I can't use the phrase "fancy a shag?" anymore?

Did it work? Could be where I have been going wrong. Using far too many words.
Well, Mal, if it worked before then I am sure it still will.
Must go. I promised I would go and do some work. If I get caught in here I could end up being spanked by both Kit AND Sappho.
:twisted: :twisted: Mmmmmmmmm, now there's a thought! :twisted: :twisted:
Seriously considers staying around for a while, jumping up and down and shouting "Look! Look! I am over here!!!!" :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

4 Dec 2003

Morning Will wave

Actually the full phrase was
" Fancy a shag?"
followed by
"SLAP"
followed by
"I take it a blow job is out of the question?"
You can make the rest up lol

Mal

4 Dec 2003

You can make the rest up

Most blokes do anyway wink

Did I tell you about the time I was snowed in for two weeks in a hotel with 30 nymphomaniac netball playing Amazon nurses...... 8) No, it's true, every word. I swear it on my 12 inch everhard, cum a gallon every 5 mintues willy!
lhk
Kat

4 Dec 2003

I know you're lying - you don't have 30 in a netball team!!
Unless you count the subs, physio, trainer, life coach, coach driver, catering consultant.............................
Mal
wink

4 Dec 2003

Morning Mal wave

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Quiet in here lately. Mind you, not been around much myself.

4 Dec 2003

Ohhh! Don't you just love jargon. The joy of the acronym! Here's another

PIF - Performance Improvement Feedback, latest buzzword to replace Constructive Criticism and the Feedback Sandwich

Here's another for you Kat,
SMART
Specific - Get laid by Xmas
Measurable - Always keep tape measure in handbag
Achievable - If I'm lucky
Realistic - Are you kidding?
Time bounded - 21 days to go

4 Dec 2003

Realistic

Personally, I prefer the minor variation:
R = Relative to the individuals need
Do you really NEED a shag by christmas?
wink

lhk
Kat

4 Dec 2003

Affirmative
redface

5 Dec 2003

*Steve changes his name to Christmas* biggrin