I was wondering. If you go to a swingers club for the first time. If its not very good. Do you give it a second chance. To be honest we don't. Not sure whether thats fair or not. We did go to a club once which was very good on our first night. Then we kept going even though it never lived up to the first time then gave up on it.
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A Second Chance
Sex God
Well, I guess it depends just HOW shite the night was as to whether I would try again. I went to one club and it was REALLY shite so I never ever bothered to go back. The atmosphere wasn't there at all even though it was fairly busy, so I considered it pointless to go back. Another club, I went once and never considered going back cos it was too expensive for what it was. However, I went to yet another club (OK, I get about 
), and it was a bit crap, but I gave it the benefit of the doubt and went back a second time.... just to confirm my feelings that it was in fact actually not my thing at all 
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I have my fave clubs that I go back to time and time again and I guess everyone else is the same. There are a couple of clubs that I've yet to try that are on my "to do" list so I'm not a total stick in the mud :wink: :wink: :wink:
), and it was a bit crap, but I gave it the benefit of the doubt and went back a second time.... just to confirm my feelings that it was in fact actually not my thing at all . I have my fave clubs that I go back to time and time again and I guess everyone else is the same. There are a couple of clubs that I've yet to try that are on my "to do" list so I'm not a total stick in the mud :wink: :wink: :wink:
Orgasminator
we went to our first club last year it was good for us in the way that it was quiet and gave us a chance to look around, we stayed and played and enjoyed the experience, We then tried another club which was better in some ways but worse in others, so we tried another club recently, we stayed longer and played harder it was one of those places that made you feel comfortable even though it was our first visit, and made the first club seem a bit amatureish, so i suppose it,s what your looking for and hope to enjoy, we will go back to the others though especially if we know there,s people from here going, or a special theme night, but it,s a personal choice at the end of the day 
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As a newbie and only having been to organised parties and not clubs can I ask what is it that in your opinion makes a club good? The atmosphere? The people? Plenty of people playing? Clean? What makes a club not very good?
Would love to know thanks...
I think firstly the atmosphere has to right. This is obviously made if there are quite a few people there. We have been to clubs that are absolutely dead. Then there's the facilities. To be honest we are to old to do the mattress on the floor thing anymore
and yes it has to be clean. We went to one club that is no longer with us and it was awful. It was filthy. There were loose wires hanging from sockets it was in my opinion a death trap. We were lucky that we had arranged to meet some people there or else we would have walked straight out. It was also very cold :lol: 
Orgasminator
That's the thing I can't understand. Some of these clubs must be raking it in but they cannot be bothered to spend a few quid on maintenance and cleaning. We've been in some clubs that are disgusting. We would never go back. Whether we go back to a club after a so-so experience depends on lots of things, the staff, facilities, whether we pulled, etc.
Sex God
Always try everything twice... just to make sure you did it right the first time
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That's the thing I can't understand. Some of these clubs must be raking it in but they cannot be bothered to spend a few quid on maintenance and cleaning. We've been in some clubs that are disgusting. We would never go back. Whether we go back to a club after a so-so experience depends on lots of things, the staff, facilities, whether we pulled, etc.
Yes I have forgot to mention the staff. That makes a big difference. If they are friendly and welcoming it makes all the difference. Our first time at a club the staff put us at ease straight away.
I am quite surprised with the number of new clubs starting up that they get it so wrong. Surely as you say the amount of money there is to be made. They would put in a bit of research so they get it right
Our first ever visit to a swinging club was awful, and we have never been back to that club since, as it being our first ever time to a club it could of put us off trying any others, but luckily it didnt, although it was about 6 months before we plucked up the courage to go to try another one.
Lindaxxx
Lindaxxx
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Our first ever visit to a swinging club was awful, and we have never been back to that club since, as it being our first ever time to a club it could of put us off trying any others, but luckily it didnt, although it was about 6 months before we plucked up the courage to go to try another one.
Lindaxxx
Yes its very important to remember that there are other clubs out there. Some good some bad. To be honest I think that if our first experience was bad. We may have never gone again because we originaly went out of curiosity more that anything. Luckily ours was a good experience and have really enjoyed our time swinging ever since.
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We tried a club in London,hoping it would be good so we wouldn't have to keep travelling North....well guess what we are still travelling North!
Sorry to hear that. Is there any decent clubs down south or is it the north that has the monopoly on decent clubs.
The better clubs do seem to be up north.
