Anyone can have an off day .... performance be a tad under par, get the wrong end of the stick or have been misled about their actual prowess.
Don't see the fairness in naming and shaming someone to the world .... tantamount to humiliation to me and hardly in line with the ethos of this site.
OMG! What an email!
Personally I would prefer for friends to give me accurate information. I trust them to know me and my likes/dislikes well enough to be able to tell if a man is suitable or not.
I'll tell you one story: once I met a guy whom I fancied like mad. He had an ape-like quality about him which stirred my senses. He used to be with this woman, so I asked her about him. She gave good recommendations but also told me he had previously been with someone else. I asked the someone else and she said he was alright but be very firm with him. So I went ahead reassured by the recommendations and had a relationship. The guy treated me like crap and double-timed me with another woman. I later found out that he had done this to both of them but they never admitted they had been fooled. I was angry. If it had been me, I would have revealed my stupidity and pray that another woman would not have to go through the emotional turmoil that I went through. But it seems most people would not humiliate themselves in the eyes of others. Hope this answers your question.
All shags should be classified on the following scale:
B&B - 15 mins
B&B - whole night
B&B - Night plus breakfast
Travelodge
Holiday Inn
Marriott
Hilton
Ritz
Claridges
My Place :twisted:
Please allow me to rephrase the intro to my debate questions - this is not about making a public posting. I am asking peoples views on ..... When you are asked in private and reply in private - How honest would you be if you did know something relating to the questions above? Would you reply at all?
I understood that you meant private conversations, and the views I expressed are on that basis.
I wouldn't feel bound by confidentiality unless the other person and I had specifically said so before hand, in which case I probably wouldn't have gone any further. Being discrete is one thing (not blabbing in public etc) but an enquiry from another member is not like that. So I think (hope) I'd have said something like "Well, it didn't work for me on that occasion, but I can't say what it would be like for you" or perhaps "If he was the only butcher in town I'd be tempted to buy my meat at Tesco" (or go on a fish diet... you get the drift).
If the question of danger arises, then public responsibility takes priority over everything.
WW
I think it is unpleasant talking behind people's backs. If someone wants to find out whether someone else is a good shag they should see for themselves without asking someone else's opinion, which at best is going to be subjective.
I think if it in private you should be honest......yea it can be on off day..... there again if he came so quick surely it is a compliment anyway...means you were so good and so fantastic that he just blew his top.
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But how big a lie before you feel it is alright to discuss it?
What if they just lied about their hieght or added/subtracted a few years of age?
what you mean if I told you I was 21...had a six pack like Peter Andre..and a 10 inch dick....you would notice when I actually turned up and whats worse you would mind. huh some people so bloody fussy !!!!!!
