For this to happen, i need female experts (naming no names of course unltil they come forward) to start off by listing their likes+dislikes and offer their Subject Metter Expert advice to men as to how to do things. I can then after a few weeks gather all the findings and publish to SH members, so there is no excuse for lack satisfaction in our beloved female community.
Quote by scotsdave
Can i say i never have full sex until a girl has had at least a couple of orgasms. Use you tongue and fingers to good use guys and see the response you get.
You'll get deeper action once she's really turned on, which benefits you both dont go for the wham bam thank you mam approach.
Quote by Happy Cats
Wheres your self respect?
Just slap her on the arse and tell her to beg!
Quote by Darkfire
No No No
ooo you blokes just dont get it do you - I spell it out loud and clear and you lot still think we want materialistic side and sod the sex!
it has to come as a package - materialism = we want to be treated like a lady, bit of respect, and if that's not dooable, diamonds will suffice.
But material goods and gifts are no good on their own, this only works when they're hand delivered by a 6ft sex god with a 10 inch cock! :lol2:
oh, and i forgot the ability to breath through ears bit
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Quote by Calista
A man freshly showered, delicately smelling of aftershave, smartly dressed and immaculately mannered ..... gentle with his touches (without tickling), delicious with his kisses, leaving me breathless, protective with his hugs, leading with his advances, non pushy, understanding.
Skillful with his fingers, who knows how to touch caress and tease his way through foreplay, getting me right to the edge, can lick, tease and flick with his tongue, until I'm squirming, and begging him to fuck me, and then can use his penis well, not pounding or thrusting too much, but uses it to it's full length (I prefer them smaller btw) and captivates me for hours ....
C x
Quote by Darkfire
dunno, blokes being blokes it was all over and done with in 3 minutes flat and i didnt hang around for the match. :lol:
Quote by Darkfire
perhaps the point i was trying to get across was not so much about how much foreplay there is, or how long you can simply keep thrusting for...... I think the main thing that we, and certainly I want, is EFFORT. Its that favorite SH saying again - you get out of it what you put in, and its exactly the same for sex!
Someone makes the effort to look nice, dress well, wear sexy underwear or whatever other effort they've put into a meet for you, I think the very least that should be offered is compliments, and the effort reciprocated. Is it really too much to ask? :twisted:
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well to put in my twopeneth i like to start with a nice bottle of vino & a chat followed by a massage im no expert but it relaxes both partys & gets the baby lotion out
after a nice slow sensual massage gentle kisses up & down the spine usually start the ball rolling
then a little attention to the ears lips mouth spending time moving slowly down to the neck every thing done slowly moving on to breasts working towards the nipples then down to the stomach gentle kisses & down lower brushingthe pubic area without lingering & on to the thighs slowly working down towards the feet (can be a touchy area (suck it & see))
then upwards flicking around the pubes before oral & fingers stimulating all three sensative points at same time (getting good at that) & onle after the woman has came at least once & squirming for more does any form of penetration start :)
Everyone enjoys variety change & spontaneity.
Quote by steff35
a little time and effort pays dividends in the future, goes for everything in life!
Quote by davidsplayroom
I'm sure that you will all laugh but I for one have been trying, for years, to truly satisfy my women because I do really want to. I think I have even managed it a couple of times, not bragging, but I think I have. I truly believe sex is a giving thing and both parties really should be concentrating on pleasing the other not themselves. I totally agree with many of the comments quoted in the original post about taking time to bring a woman to the point that she is really ready and wanting penetration. When she whispers ‘just fuck me now’. My biggest problem comes when we do get to the penetrative sex part. I get close to reaching a climax and I have to slow down or change positions just to create time for me to calm and control myself keeping hard without actually climaxing myself so I can keep going longer. This often results in her saying ‘oh f.f.s. don’t stop now!’ so evidently she was close too, but not fully satisfied.
Quote by westerross
The only one rule is you've got to want to fuck her with your mind. You've got to want to make her soul shiver. She can see it in your eyes as you look deep into hers - there is no real hiding place. If you have that, the rest will follow naturally, whatever it is.
Helps if she wants you in the same way of course.
im not going first
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