Adult Work

14 Oct 2010

Quote by smiley_boy
Seems like the swinging clique are ganging up

Good grief... are you like 12?! :giggle:
It was a joke, you probably knew that though but still wanted to put me down rather than add anything to the topic, it's the sort of thing people who spend too much time on messageboards do after a while, here's to your next 6,000 posts, hopefully you'll learn to join in rather than try to show how clever you think you are.
My first thread and my last, I'll leave this messageboard to the regulars to show off on.
Rant over, now back to getting knocked back by women who wouldn't get a second look in the street, what fun :lol:
well there's always A**** W*** ...i mean what else was you looking on it for!

14 Oct 2010

It can come across as a bear pit in these forums to the new poster and starting contentious posts can be one way of getting noticed in the beginning, however, you do have to post with the knowledge that what you type may not be the way in which others interpret it. Remember also that posting in print is different to conversation in that a reply can be thought about changed around before posted so maybe come across as being clever, but it isn't, its a considered response.
You say your post was a joke Smiley boy. Where is the humour? You maybe able to see it but others cant. Thats not their fault, its yours for posting without considering how others may see it. Not an uncommon mistake believe me most of us 'clique', as you, say have been there and have learned the hard way although accepting tha fact that it could be ourselves in the wrong and learned the right way to post.
Maybe it might be that you should try replying to some posts before starting a topic to get used to 'how things work'. Please don't think that your contributions to forum won't be appreciated just ease yourself in the door rather than burst in, it can takw time to build relationships and a rapport even in cyber world.
Dirty girl hasn't been unreasonable or nasty or any of those things she was just replying to your posts, OK she is from Scotland, and that has to be taken into account, but on this occasion she's not been offhand at all.
Hang about and put your t'upporth in on some other posts see how the land lies then start some more threads if you have questions or ideas you want to see debated, new blood is good blood for forums, just make it more considered or else learn to enjoy being twatted by the 'clique' biggrin

14 Oct 2010

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
Seems like the swinging clique are ganging up
I know of swingers that have become sex workers, the logic being, I may as well get paid for something I enjoy, but I then know after a days "work" the last thing on their mind is looking for casual sex with swingers or chatting about sex on sites like SH.
On the other hand I suspect that sex workers who have had no interest in swinging and do it strictly for the money may well think that a site full of desperate blokes looking for sex might be a good place for picking up business.
I could be wrong and I'm sure you'll tell me I am. :P

and you have proof on this
We cant make members prove everything they say :-? Otherwise Vampayana also has to prove the below, its just not practical.

Quote by vampanya
Lmao Lost - or for practice?
What crap about sex workers not being swingers too though. Why the hell not if they love sex. I know someone who does both quite happily.

didnt say we could make any one prove anything i asked if they had proof of this .
See it was roundabout here that I got lost completely! Still easily done.
Anyway on the other point I think as soon as cliques, ganging up and bullying get mentioned, especially when its just debate being taken wrong, it gets peoples backs up big time and its a good way to really get jumped on.
But to then compound that with personal insults is pretty much forum suicide.
I've said this before: disagreeing with someone is not bullying. Others disagreeing too is not ganging up. Its a forum. And unless opinions differ it would be a bloody dull one.

14 Oct 2010

I joined AW as a result of someone on the chat in SH saying why are you doing this for free when you could earn money doing it on adult work. I was on cam playing. I looked into it and to cut a long story short I did it for a short period of time. Found it all a little boring though tbh and once AW have had there share of the money you earn, there is very little left. I packed it in after about 3 months. I met lots of other girls working on there that also play on SH and meet. I guess you can do both!

14 Oct 2010

I worked out once that if I worked as an escort and charged the typical amount, I would only have to work 3 hours a week and I could pack in full time work and take home the same amount.
Definitely in the wrong job. LOL

14 Oct 2010

Quote by tweeky
Seems like the swinging clique are ganging up
I know of swingers that have become sex workers, the logic being, I may as well get paid for something I enjoy, but I then know after a days "work" the last thing on their mind is looking for casual sex with swingers or chatting about sex on sites like SH.
On the other hand I suspect that sex workers who have had no interest in swinging and do it strictly for the money may well think that a site full of desperate blokes looking for sex might be a good place for picking up business.
I could be wrong and I'm sure you'll tell me I am. :P

and you have proof on this
We cant make members prove everything they say :-? Otherwise Vampayana also has to prove the below, its just not practical.

Quote by vampanya
Lmao Lost - or for practice?
What crap about sex workers not being swingers too though. Why the hell not if they love sex. I know someone who does both quite happily.

didnt say we could make any one prove anything i asked if they had proof of this .
Make or ask, who cares its still pointless in this type of to you that your opinion to me sounds like he made contact with a swinger who also escorts and got a knock back and tryed to out the -person i maybe wrong ,i know a cany few ppl who escort and swing and make time for both tbh i was cany shocked when they took to this but dont treat them any different than i would if i did not know what they did and just because they do that it dont make me think anything bad about them

14 Oct 2010

I think there are probably people working on here too. I have been made enough offers in the chatrooms to make me think that if that many people here offer money for sex then there must be some who accept it.
I have never and would never accept it but have nothing against anyone who does. Each to their own and if some sites cater for that then it keeps a lot of them off here.
I would quite like to know what everyone is talking about though cos I'm ubber nosey and it would seem that I am the only person here who doesn't have a clue what site everyone's on about!! lol

14 Oct 2010

AW is a site called Adult work Funlovers. Google it and all becomes plainly obvious mate

14 Oct 2010

Thank you .... I'm off for a nose lol

14 Oct 2010

can't help thinking that if the OP found people on here were also on an escort site that he had to be looking at the escorts on that site ...... for some reason wink

15 Oct 2010

Quote by MidsCouple24
can't help thinking that if the OP found people on here were also on an escort site that he had to be looking at the escorts on that site ...... for some reason

Maybe its because they deem to give him a second look if his got the right amount of money/credits!!

Quote by smiley_boy
Rant over, now back to getting knocked back by women who wouldn't get a second look in the street, what fun

15 Oct 2010

Don't know if this qualifies but i was chatting to a couple here 2 weeks ago about a gangbang. They were looking for 6 to 8 guys, but there was a cover charge of £50, they said to cover the cost of room & refreshments. Well £300 to £400 seems a little excessive to me, so i'm thinking there is a profit in there somewhere. What catagory does this fall into fun or business?

15 Oct 2010

Quote by prags
Don't know if this qualifies but i was chatting to a couple here 2 weeks ago about a gangbang. They were looking for 6 to 8 guys, but there was a cover charge of £50, they said to cover the cost of room & refreshments. Well £300 to £400 seems a little excessive to me, so i'm thinking there is a profit in there somewhere. What catagory does this fall into fun or business?

Business - should have reported them!

15 Oct 2010

Quote by smiley_boy
Seems like the swinging clique are ganging up

Good grief... are you like 12?! :giggle:
It was a joke, you probably knew that though but still wanted to put me down rather than add anything to the topic, it's the sort of thing people who spend too much time on messageboards do after a while, here's to your next 6,000 posts, hopefully you'll learn to join in rather than try to show how clever you think you are.
My first thread and my last, I'll leave this messageboard to the regulars to show off on.
Rant over, now back to getting knocked back by women who wouldn't get a second look in the street, what fun :lol:
If you believe in what your saying, stick to your guns, stand up and be counted

15 Oct 2010

Quote by Bluefish2009
Seems like the swinging clique are ganging up

Good grief... are you like 12?! :giggle:
Bully! wink

I think not. Having an opinion that disagrees with someone does not make me a bully and joking or not, I resent the implication.
Good grief... are you like 12?! :giggle:
Is jokeing only the reserve of a select few
In my opinion, for what it's worth, Dirtygirly was the first person to enter a remark that was uncalled for, though I'm sure she meant it as a joke. But, if you give it out you must be prepared to take it back..... Pot.. Kettle... Black! Bluefish's reply was obviously tongue-in-cheek, following on the jokey nature, but it's always those that give it out that complain about similar being said to them.
Also, belittling people is not the best way to tell them that you don't agree with their point. I suggest if you are not thick skinned enough to enter into a bit of banter, don't hand out the 'off-the-cuff' remarks, and keep your comments civil to members that you don't know, thereby removing any upset before it starts.
Please don't take that as a attack on you, Dirtygirly, it is merely an observation, an opinion. You told Smiley that when he had said he wasn't judging anyone either way, he'd been talking rubbish! All he had stated, as his opinion, was that he did not expect that people who sold their body all day would be likely to go out at night swinging too. That is not a JUDGEMENT in any language. Perhaps there has been a misunderstanding in your interpretation, it happens to us all, but taking the high ground and accusing people of making judgements that they have not made is not the adult way of sorting it out, but I wouldn't dream of saying to you "Good grief... are you like 12!".
As with most forums, those people that live on the site, posting literally hundreds of times a month, tend to feel they can say what they like. Smiley had it spot on when he mentioned 'clique'. It's the reason that I tend to stay away from the forums. I've only been on today to catch up with new developments with the chatroom problem.
The topic of sex workers using the site is not one I have a problem with... good luck to 'em.... if I had the 'equipment' I'd be on my back making ££££££££'s! smile

Anyhoo, that's my tuppence worth.
Peace
Dex

16 Oct 2010

not so much of a clique, but more a flavour of the moment, selective notion. which attracts whatever participants that are available and willing to 'work' the idea.
usually it runs out of steam pretty quickly as it falters on basic logic, lack of constructive debate and the fundamentally poor origination of the topic.
good topics create interesting debate, poorly designed ones encourage arguments.

16 Oct 2010

Well Smiley_boy has opened a can of worms!!!!
Is it now the question Smiley_boy has done the site & the community a "service" by pointing out that theres members who are paid for there company on the site?
Or
A "disservice" to those members who indulge in some type of payed sexual work but come here to indulge there passions for free?
How many of the thousand odd hits this thread has had from members have then gone on to the said site & put in there area to see if they know anybody?

16 Oct 2010

Quote by sword-stileto
Well Smiley_boy has opened a can of worms!!!!
Is it now the question Smiley_boy has done the site & the community a "service" by pointing out that theres members who are paid for there company on the site?
Or
A "disservice" to those members who indulge in some type of payed sexual work but come here to indulge there passions for free?
How many of the thousand odd hits this thread has had from members have then gone on to the said site & put in there area to see if they know anybody?

I am always of the point of view that I would like to know everything.
I had a very quick look at the site but it was so poor in design I gave up after about 3-5 mins.

16 Oct 2010

Quote by tweeky
I had a very quick look at the site but it was so poor in design I gave up after about 3-5 mins.

3.5 minutes exactly?

16 Oct 2010

Quote by Lost

I had a very quick look at the site but it was so poor in design I gave up after about 3-5 mins.

3.5 minutes exactly?
lol

That was about 3 to 5 mins. Its a - not a .
Didnt time myself to the exact min smile

16 Oct 2010

I have read the thread from start to finish, and whilst the subject is pretty uninteresting all round, the comments are fun to read.
There are some real touchy unhappy chappies here aren't there.
Great fun nonetheless.

16 Oct 2010

Quote by flower411
Here`s a thought ....
A restorer of rare works of art happens to be in ya local pub and you get chatting to them ...
You mention that you have a family heirloom tucked away in your house and they ask to see it ....
You show it to them and they mention that it needs some restoration and that it`s so beautiful and rare they would do the work for free just for the pleasure of working on such a wonderful piece.
Would you turn them down because it`s what they get paid for ?

Are they at it as well?

17 Oct 2010

Quote by flower411
Here`s a thought ....
A restorer of rare works of art happens to be in ya local pub and you get chatting to them ...
You mention that you have a family heirloom tucked away in your house and they ask to see it ....
You show it to them and they mention that it needs some restoration and that it`s so beautiful and rare they would do the work for free just for the pleasure of working on such a wonderful piece.
Would you turn them down because it`s what they get paid for ?

Well said Flower!
I'd probably cook em a nice meal to say thanks tho... that part doesn't translate very well haha! wink