advice

29 Jan 2011

I missed this post amidst all the jokey fun stuff, clearly.
Whenever I arrange a meet, be it mf, mmf or mmmf, I certainly don't have any expectations of guaranteed performance either on my part or that of my partner(s). I find it helps to relax and not expect anything - I certainly wouldn't judge anyone who couldn't get hard. There are times I can't orgasm, no matter how I am enjoying myself - that is no reflection on my partner at the time.
It happens, that's all. dunno

6 Feb 2011

One way to combat this is to plan longer meets, say between 5 and 48hrs, then everyone has plenty of time....and recovery time too if you want it wink

If you handed out viagra like smarties that might work too (tongue firmly in cheek ;o)
For me turning someone on and having them turn me on too is more than half the fun.
I have learnt that the brain is the best way for this too happen, stimulate that (via the senses and imagination) and the rest....erm....comes naturally lol