All Guys and no Girls!

14 Aug 2006

Quote by Teddy123
Hi, well I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm a total newbee and so perhaps unsure of the rules, possibilities etc. Here goes.... I've posted a reasonably good profile, attached some pics, nude, facial, clothed and written a totally genuine ad. I've sent messages to like minded cpls or females that fill both mine and their criteria and had these messages read by the receipient. Now I realise that I may not be the best looking guy in the world and maybe not everyones cup of tea, but I just haven't had a single reply to either my messages or my ad's. Some one explained to me (this person was a member of another sex site) that the ratio of guys to girls was probably 10:1 and therefore women get a massive hit rate and more to chose from. To be honest I haven't checked out how many guys ads are on here (it seems a bit gay to look). Now I'm not desperate for female company nor am I desperate full stop. I'm in a relationship and my girlfriend is 15 years younger than me and a total babe, but I just need extra sex. Come on, we all know what I mean or you wouldn't be on here. So, if there is any one out there that can shed some light on my dilema it would be appreciated.

You've just got stick in and get yourself noticed by participating in the forums and find a chatroom you would like to join in and particpate in.
Welcome BTW :welcome:

14 Aug 2006

Quote by Teddy123
Thanks, perhaps I've expected too much too soon from this site. I thought that it would be easy to meet likeminded people. I've never tried electronic sex meets before and guessed that my conquests in 'Norma' lclubs would be out numbered by this global means of meeting play mates!

One thing to note is it's more than sex on here there are freindships too and a community feel to the place, we try and help each other where we can ect. So its not an electronic sex meet site most folks here want to know any potential meets well before anything happens then if it doesnt happen there is less of a problem.
You joined just before me and it does take a while to become known and mix in with evryone. Seeing youve made three posts since joining i assume you use the ads and or chat more. Try reading previous posts similar to this using the search button to see what kind of task it involves to become known.
Whether you are gay, bi or not it's worth checking on what you may be up against and get some ideas on what to put in the profile. Though my gut feeling is you are not homophobic just a little embarrased and worried about looking.

14 Aug 2006

Quote by PoloLady
I am saying nothing - I am being good today

I bet you can't keep it up for a week
Bet Ya!
Bet Ya!
Bet Ya!
:giggle:
Stormwalker

14 Aug 2006

Quote by firelizard
I am saying nothing - I am being good today

I bet you can't keep it up for a week
Bet Ya!
Bet Ya!
Bet Ya!
:giggle:
Stormwalker
Would we want her to? wink

15 Aug 2006

As mentioned by others in a different way. Too many things in your profile(s) dont add up, divorced, single marry in Oct 06 ? plus the others items that dont add up. Could make people very wary. Just a thought

15 Aug 2006

nothings adding up in the profile and i personally dont like the " ive dated lap dancers etc etc " so fing what?
you saying your only interseted in body image and not the individual.
i think many people will think your not being truthful, ( all the differences in the ad , profile, forum)
telling us you have a g/f who is 15 years younger and youve dated lap dancers probally leaves alot of women on here thinking well good on ya but i aint contacting you as im sure id be considered below your normal score sheet.
honesty is the best policy
xx fem xx

15 Aug 2006

Quote by Teddy123
Hi, well I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm a total newbee and so perhaps unsure of the rules, possibilities etc. Here goes.... I've posted a reasonably good profile, attached some pics, nude, facial, clothed and written a totally genuine ad. I've sent messages to like minded cpls or females that fill both mine and their criteria and had these messages read by the receipient. Now I realise that I may not be the best looking guy in the world and maybe not everyones cup of tea, but I just haven't had a single reply to either my messages or my ad's. Some one explained to me (this person was a member of another sex site) that the ratio of guys to girls was probably 10:1 and therefore women get a massive hit rate and more to chose from. To be honest I haven't checked out how many guys ads are on here (it seems a bit gay to look). Now I'm not desperate for female company nor am I desperate full stop. I'm in a relationship and my girlfriend is 15 years younger than me and a total babe, but I just need extra sex. Come on, we all know what I mean or you wouldn't be on here. So, if there is any one out there that can shed some light on my dilema it would be appreciated.

Your post was okay until you said that!.....not a good way to go about things hun, you may find a few ladies who would be willing to oblige you, but the majority will not - especially with that kind of attitude. We are not all here to be unfaithful - I think you will find most are swingers rolleyes

15 Aug 2006

Quote by Teddy123
Thanks, perhaps I've expected too much too soon from this site. I thought that it would be easy to meet likeminded people. I've never tried electronic sex meets before and guessed that my conquests in 'Norma' lclubs would be out numbered by this global means of meeting play mates!

I think he twigged he was not getting the response he expected. wink