Am I Alone Married

4 Sep 2006

Quote by stevedee
I am a happily married man, that is all for except an active erotic sex wife over the years has lost the desire. I have tried everything to make it more exciting, but with little effect.
Is it wrong for me to look elsewhere, I have always had a strong sexual urge and really can't go through the rest of my life with this important factor missing.
Ladies......Am I wrong in what I do. I do not wish to harm my wife, but she need never know.
Any help or advice gladly accepted.

Tell me something....
What exactly did you hope to get from posting this?

4 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady
I am a happily married man, that is all for except an active erotic sex wife over the years has lost the desire. I have tried everything to make it more exciting, but with little effect.
Is it wrong for me to look elsewhere, I have always had a strong sexual urge and really can't go through the rest of my life with this important factor missing.
Ladies......Am I wrong in what I do. I do not wish to harm my wife, but she need never know.
Any help or advice gladly accepted.

Tell me something....
What exactly did you hope to get from posting this?
theres a term for it..... but the word just escapes me....
its something to do with trying to ease guilt or something.....

4 Sep 2006

Quote by DeeCee
I am a happily married man, that is all for except an active erotic sex wife over the years has lost the desire. I have tried everything to make it more exciting, but with little effect.
Is it wrong for me to look elsewhere, I have always had a strong sexual urge and really can't go through the rest of my life with this important factor missing.
Ladies......Am I wrong in what I do. I do not wish to harm my wife, but she need never know.
Any help or advice gladly accepted.

Tell me something....
What exactly did you hope to get from posting this?
theres a term for it..... but the word just escapes me....
its something to do with trying to ease guilt or something.....
I didn't ask you and I didn't ask you or other forum users for a reason - only he can answer it - you are just assuming.... if I want assumptions I am quite capable of making my own. :P

4 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady
I am a happily married man, that is all for except an active erotic sex wife over the years has lost the desire. I have tried everything to make it more exciting, but with little effect.
Is it wrong for me to look elsewhere, I have always had a strong sexual urge and really can't go through the rest of my life with this important factor missing.
Ladies......Am I wrong in what I do. I do not wish to harm my wife, but she need never know.
Any help or advice gladly accepted.

Tell me something....
What exactly did you hope to get from posting this?
theres a term for it..... but the word just escapes me....
its something to do with trying to ease guilt or something.....
I didn't ask you and I didn't ask you or other forum users for a reason - only he can answer it - you are just assuming.... if I want assumptions I am quite capable of making my own. :P
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i love it when your firm with me.........
redface

4 Sep 2006

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
,a lot of adds saing single but cant accom that one makes me laugh

Lives with parents,
Lives with flatmates who object to naughties in the house,
Shares a bedroom with a flatmate,
Is divorced but has custody of the kids,
Lives in a shitehole,
Doesn't want people round the house in case they're bunny-boilers or axe murderers ...
Plenty of possibilities why single 'single people' won't accomodate.

4 Sep 2006

Quote by northwest-cpl
,a lot of adds saing single but cant accom that one makes me laugh

Lives with parents,
Lives with flatmates who object to naughties in the house,
Shares a bedroom with a flatmate,
Is divorced but has custody of the kids,
Lives in a shitehole,
Doesn't want people round the house in case they're bunny-boilers or axe murderers ...
Plenty of possibilities why single 'single people' won't forgot ,married wife dont know,by the way just saying most are in the latter said

5 Sep 2006

I appreciate how you feel and understand your frustation but what you must consider before playing away is that while she never need to know the important fact you cannot deny is that "you know" , it will eat away your insides and you will no longer have the mariage you now have however bad it is now , as men we have to look ourselves in the mirror evry morning when we shave.....will you be able to continue looking yourself in the mirror after you have had great sex with another women.

5 Sep 2006

Thank you everyone for your help and advice.
use to swing many years ago, but alas my other half has lost interest now and is happy just to watch her soaps.
I still have a very strong sexual urge and do not want life just to pass me by.
My wife knows how I feel and has tried to regain her sexual side of the marriage , but after a few weeks it just dwindles away. It's usual the same position and I feel it's just to keep me happy. In fact I'm more frustrated than ever after sex. I just want to feel the excitement again. Yes I have tried many times with my wife, I am not selfish and would do anything to please her.
Steve