well at my first swinging experience i kissed and had oral sex with women
I had never thought about being bi sexual at all, it just happened. it didnt feel
wrong and i would probably repeat the experience.
Dont beat yourself up about it if you enjoyed it thats all that matters.
lisamarie
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Am I Bi-sexual or just confused
Sex God
Quote by EagerSlutOh ES Hoses out mate
"Water on"" and all that!
:thumbup: 
:lol: :lol:Oii, told you already........DONT GET HER STARTED!!!!
:wink:
Sex God
Quote by the_Laird
"Water on"" and all that!
:thumbup: :lol: :lol:Oii, told you already........DONT GET HER STARTED!!!!
:wink:
"Make pumps"?
:wink: :lol: :lol:
Quote by LondonBiFun
I never realised I was bi till I was going down on this one guys wife, and he started to finger me, I really enjoyed it, let one thing lead to another, and well, you get to choose from both sides ofthe fence.
i think thats how things mostly start!.............did me any way!
and now well i just enjoy both!............. :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by MOORHOPPER
:rascal: Ohh to put our pumps at work to douse her fire
Now that might just work, eh Eager??????? :wink:
Sex God
Quote by the_Laird
:rascal: Ohh to put our pumps at work to douse her fire
Now that might just work, eh Eager??????? :wink:
Fucked if I can remember who "her" is Laird!
ops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: Umm....................................
Warming the Bed
all a question of trying things out, I did a few things ages back, and, well suppose I would do the same again, if the circumstance were right, class my myself as being straight, but your sexual side, is just that sexual
Quote by markz
newcastle will win the league ? :giggle:
come you have to draw the line somewhere
Markz I do become delusional at times
Believe me when i say they won't
Champions league within 2 years and me having a Full orgy with 20 men and women on the evening of win :cheers:
Together with debbiewebs and Misschief serenading me with the cup (kindly donated by NUFC for the evening)
(and then they do that girlie kissing stuff) I can't say I'm attracted to me per say, not the way I am to women, but there is a raw sexual urge there.
i think thats how things mostly start!.............did me any way!
and now well i just enjoy both!............. :rascal:
Quote by Debbiewebs
I never realised I was bi till I was going down on this one guys wife, and he started to finger me, I really enjoyed it, let one thing lead to another, and well, you get to choose from both sides ofthe fence.
i think thats how things mostly start!.............did me any way!
and now well i just enjoy both!............. :rascal:
Quote by kentyoung guy
Hi
Im a 19yr old guy and new to the forum. I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I have been with girls of many different sites and have loved every encounter. However, over the last 6 months I have started reading guys ads and getting very turned on! I met up with one guy who was great he took things so slowly and in the end I sucked him which I really enjoyed. Afterwards, I felt really guilty and regretted but that soon went and i'm up for it again.
Do you think i'm bi-sexual or just "confused"
welcome to the forum. I agree with what other peeps have said, you're not doing anything wrong and should enjoy yourself..but you do need to work out why you feel guilty and beat yourself up afterwards. Is it because you think it's a shameful act or feel yr letting people down? Or are you worried about getting caught and maybe your family finding out?
You're still a very young guy and can probably use the excuse of sexual experimentation (unlike us old bastards..who are just perverts lol
), but try to address the guilt feelings you have as it will eventually wear down yr self esteemGood luck and well done for yr honesty..that will certainly help :thumbup:
Warming the Bed
Quote by Vix
Bloody 'ell Vix!!! I've now got a serious inferiority complex.
Mind you I bet he faints when he gets an erection - that thing'll take a lot of blood to fill
skulks off muttering about showoffs
Quote by wirral_guy
Bloody 'ell Vix!!! I've now got a serious inferiority complex.
Mind you I bet he faints when he gets an erection - that thing'll take a lot of blood to fill
skulks off muttering about showoffs
does he ever fall over?............................or is he conterbalanced and the back end so he dosent topple over?
Quote by Vix
BTW you all seem very nice, Thanks for that!
We may seem nice but I, for one, am evil and prey on unsuspecting young boys who I bring home and proceed to shatter their self esteem by showing them my hubby's huge cock.
I can assure you that that's exactly what she does, they took me to the pub, got me drunk, then it was back to their place where they feasted on my meat. After that we all got undressed and got sexual!
Be careful of that Vix woman, she lures you in then kepow! Look what happened to me!!!
Chris
and I wouldn't have had it any other way... Quote by LondonBiFun
I can't say I'm attracted to me per say, not the way I am to women, but there is a raw sexual urge there.
I never realised I was bi till I was going down on this one guys wife, and he started to finger me, I really enjoyed it, let one thing lead to another, and well, you get to choose from both sides ofthe fence.
i think thats how things mostly start!.............did me any way!
and now well i just enjoy both!............. :rascal:
its very big of you to admit your not that vain to be attracted to your self , :giggle:
xx fem xxx
Quote by fem_4_taboo
I can't say I'm attracted to me per say, not the way I am to women, but there is a raw sexual urge there.
I never realised I was bi till I was going down on this one guys wife, and he started to finger me, I really enjoyed it, let one thing lead to another, and well, you get to choose from both sides ofthe fence.
i think thats how things mostly start!.............did me any way!
and now well i just enjoy both!............. :rascal:
its very big of you to admit your not that vain to be attracted to your self , :giggle:
xx fem xxx
Ya ya! :P
I may not beconfused, but you all know I'm a mis-speller!
Quote by cool4catz
Hi
Im a 19yr old guy and new to the forum. I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I have been with girls of many different sites and have loved every encounter. However, over the last 6 months I have started reading guys ads and getting very turned on! I met up with one guy who was great he took things so slowly and in the end I sucked him which I really enjoyed. Afterwards, I felt really guilty and regretted but that soon went and i'm up for it again.
Do you think i'm bi-sexual or just "confused"
welcome to the forum. I agree with what other peeps have said, you're not doing anything wrong and should enjoy yourself..but you do need to work out why you feel guilty and beat yourself up afterwards.
Does he?
Quote by alspals
try to address the guilt feelings you have as it will eventually wear down yr self esteem
Will it?
Quote by alspals
Good luck and well done for yr honesty..that will certainly help :thumbup:
What with?
Kentyoung guy, just go out and enjoy yourself, enjoy the fact that you are bisexual and know that you have discovered experiences which many never will. It's up to you how open you want to be about it and exactly how "bi" you feel you are.
One thing I hope you do discover which may surprise you is just how many women are turned on by male bisexuality. If you find such a woman that's when you can really start to have a good time! I used to think it was a turn off for women but now I know how wrong I was!
You should never regret anything you DID do in life, just try not to end up regretting things you DIDN'T do.
Why appear so critical of my post cool4catz? KYG said in his original post that he felt really guilty and regretted these encounters afterwards. I was only showing concern abt that and hoping that he finds a way of not feeling guilty or regretful about it. If he's feeling this way, then obviously he thinks that being bi is in someway wrong? I don't think it is and was wishing him good luck in finding an answer. I don't think just saying 'go on and get on with it' was necessarily the answer he was looking for.
being bi is not wrong its wonderfull !!
remember that its too late on your death bed saying that i wish you had done something
but did`nt ,cause you was afraid of what other people might say.
bi guys and girls look the same - taste the same - smell the same as anybody else
just have twice as much fun thats all..
remember that its too late on your death bed saying that i wish you had done something
but did`nt ,cause you was afraid of what other people might say.
bi guys and girls look the same - taste the same - smell the same as anybody else
just have twice as much fun thats all..
Quote by cool4catz
Why appear so critical of my post cool4catz? KYG said in his original post that he felt really guilty and regretted these encounters afterwards. I was only showing concern abt that and hoping that he finds a way of not feeling guilty or regretful about it. If he's feeling this way, then obviously he thinks that being bi is in someway wrong? I don't think it is and was wishing him good luck in finding an answer. I don't think just saying 'go on and get on with it' was necessarily the answer he was looking for.
The only person who knows what Kent young guy thinks is Kent young guy. I was simply questioning how you could be so certain of what action he needs to take and what will happen to him if he doesn't. He said himself that those feelings soon went and he was "up for it again". That was my experience too. I speak from experience, not supposition, and I can only answer his question in terms of the experience I have had. It is such a personal and individual thing that I don't feel that any other kind of advice is of any use, save for that about always playing safe. You may differ of course.
..why do you assume you're the only person with relevant experience and as such your opinions are any more valid than anyone else's? Kent Young Guy posted on here because he was seeking opinions and help from fellow members (not just the bi ones) . I did not assume my judgement would be right for him, but several people have replied to help him, so he can pick out those which are most relevant to his circumstances. Incidentally, and not that it's relevant, I too am a bi male.
Warming the Bed
Quote by aka loco
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bi guys and girls look the same - taste the same - smell the same as anybody else
just have twice as much fun thats all..
now that, i like the sound of!
Warming the Bed
Quote by Vix
wow!!!!!
Orgasminator
Quote by kentyoung guy
I met up with one guy who was great he took things so slowly and in the end I sucked him which I really enjoyed. Afterwards, I felt really guilty and regretted but that soon went and i'm up for it again.
Do you think i'm bi-sexual or just "confused"
I have no dought that your not just confused, i would say that you have started batting for the otherside or even both sides.
TS
