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An ad in bad taste or not?

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Wish I'd thought of it first redface
No way is it in bad taste - it's a dreadful time of the year if you're single and stuck in; it's even worse if you're married and stuck in!!!!! smile
are you paying rolleyes
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Abilene - go for it!
Wish it was me - I shall instead be sitting in front of the TV slightly bored...

You and me both. :cry:
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Abilene - go for it!
Wish it was me - I shall instead be sitting in front of the TV slightly bored...

You and me both. :cry:
I can feel a party coming on....!
Abilene - you go for it. If I wasn't tied up fer new year I would.
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Defo go for it Abilene--let us all know how you get on.
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Hmmm ... maybe I should put the ad up and then let you guys pick the winner. Kinda like a SH reality dating thing .... that way I can blame y'all if it goes ass up ( excuse the pun ).

Funnily enough, I have thought about doing a "Virtual Blind Date" thread on a Saturday night :shock:
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Defo go for it Abilene--let us all know how you get on.

Looks like we have a presenter in the making lol
Just need someone to be "our Graham" biggrin
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Hmmm ... maybe I should put the ad up and then let you guys pick the winner. Kinda like a SH reality dating thing .... that way I can blame y'all if it goes ass up ( excuse the pun ).

Funnily enough, I have thought about doing a "Virtual Blind Date" thread on a Saturday night :shock:
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Defo go for it Abilene--let us all know how you get on.

Looks like we have a presenter in the making lol
Just need someone to be "our Graham" biggrin
i nominate Dammie wink
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Hmmm ... maybe I should put the ad up and then let you guys pick the winner. Kinda like a SH reality dating thing .... that way I can blame y'all if it goes ass up ( excuse the pun ).

Funnily enough, I have thought about doing a "Virtual Blind Date" thread on a Saturday night :shock:
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Defo go for it Abilene--let us all know how you get on.

Looks like we have a presenter in the making lol
Just need someone to be "our Graham" biggrin
i nominate Dammie wink
I reckon Drew or Bloke :giggle:
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I reckon Drew or Bloke :giggle:

Marvellous idea!!!! :happy:
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Ok, so is it bad that I am actually considering putting an ad in the Meets forum looking for someone to wine and dine me on New Years Eve.
Is it bad that I want to be so blunt about wanting to be treated to a good old fashioned date ... i.e. nice restaurant, wine after, hold the doors open blah blah ... the whole nine yards.
Bottom line is New Years Eve is nearly here and I do NOT want to be sitting home getting all maudlin about the fact that I am here and single. Yes, I love being single but it does get a little hard around the holidays.
Anyway, I guess I want to know ... would it be in bad taste to do it and there be no up front promises of any 'action'. Not saying there wouldn't be but don't want to mislead and promise it.
Your thoughts? ( and not too much piss taking lol )

Abi, if I lived nearer I'd be both privillaged and yes, honored to offer to be your date. Having sneeked alook at your Pics I truely cannot for the life of me see why you don't have someone to spend the time with already! anyway the best of luck
Snowhawk kiss
i forgot about Drew
he would be gr8 at it wink
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You go ahead, but go dutch. It would be a shame to see you band.

I am going to play devils advocate here and ask ... Why would I get banned ( assume that's what you mean when you say band ) if I my date pays for dinner?
Someone just may say you were excepting money or item of value. SH frowns on such things. I am lead to believe..
I read the ad and can't see anything bad about it. Hope you have a fab new years eve with a nice man. Good luck x
stu
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I'm available for hire lol

freelance toilet cleaner
what a novel idea rolleyes
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You go ahead, but go dutch. It would be a shame to see you band.

I am going to play devils advocate here and ask ... Why would I get banned ( assume that's what you mean when you say band ) if I my date pays for dinner?
Someone just may say you were excepting money or item of value. SH frowns on such things. I am lead to believe..
I am going to try to NOT be offended at that line of thought. Why don't you just be blunt and say my wanting a date for New Years Eve sounds like prostitution to you.
I can't see anything wrong with the ad. You've made it clear that there may be nothing more on offer than a pleasant evening with your company. I think that's far more honest than some young bimbo who leads a guy on in the pub all night then ditches him after he's paid for everything.
All the very best with your quest Abi. I'm sure there are true gentlemen on here who will fully understand what you are looking for.
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I can't see anything wrong with the ad. You've made it clear that there may be nothing more on offer than a pleasant evening with your company. I think that's far more honest than some young bimbo who leads a guy on in the pub all night then ditches him after he's paid for everything.
All the very best with your quest Abi. I'm sure there are true gentlemen on here who will fully understand what you are looking for.

Thanks for that hun. Funny thing is though Lissa, I have at no point said that I am expecting the 'date' to pay for everything. It has just been assumed. lol. Also for the right company ..well ... who knows what might happen, just don't want any expectations. ;)
I think its a great idea smile
Might even try it myself biggrin
I'm less likely to get offers though sad
And before markz asks who's paying lol its me, but not for you markz :lol:
Abilene this restaurant your going to does it have ample parking lol
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I think its a great idea smile
Might even try it myself biggrin
I'm less likely to get offers though sad
And before markz asks who's paying lol its me, but not for you markz :lol:

I'll give you a reference, jesster :D
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Abilene this restaurant your going to does it have ample parking lol

Hopefully enough for a double decker bus :shock: :shock:
Quote by Lissa
I think its a great idea smile
Might even try it myself biggrin
I'm less likely to get offers though sad
And before markz asks who's paying lol its me, but not for you markz :lol:

I'll give you a reference, jesster :D
Thanks Lissa :) but i think i might need more than a reference :lol: i need a miracle :lol:
Seriously though, it makes a big difference to have some company on certain nights of the year (mainly xmas eve and new years eve) when you know that couples, friends etc are all out celebratating. Nothing worse than being stuck on your own.
Who has got a big house for a party? :lol:
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Who has got a big house for a party? lol

I was starting to think the same thing 'cept my house is so small that more than 5 people in here and someone's getting poked in the back !!
Ah but it depends who's doing the poking & what with wink
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Who has got a big house for a party? lol

I was starting to think the same thing 'cept my house is so small that more than 5 people in here and someone's getting poked in the back !!
You can get 5 people in :shock: just about manage 3 here :lol:
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Ah but it depends who's doing the poking & what with wink

poke rolleyes
Well, you will be happy to know ( I hope ) that I shall be dining with a rather nice sounding guy. I shall even be making a long ass drive to do it. ( wouldn't want to get in trouble for making him use his petrol now would I ;) )
Thanks for all your comments ( nice and otherwise ). I have some back up plans in place should it all fall through. Does that sound cold? Oh well.
Also thanks to everyone that offered me alternatives. Hope those are still on offer for another time though. Really must make that trip across the bridge someday soon ;)
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I reckon Drew or Bloke :giggle:

Marvellous idea!!!! :happy:
err what happened to drew :shock: