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An ad in bad taste or not?

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Ok, so is it bad that I am actually considering putting an ad in the Meets forum looking for someone to wine and dine me on New Years Eve.
Is it bad that I want to be so blunt about wanting to be treated to a good old fashioned date ... i.e. nice restaurant, wine after, hold the doors open blah blah ... the whole nine yards.
Bottom line is New Years Eve is nearly here and I do NOT want to be sitting home getting all maudlin about the fact that I am here and single. Yes, I love being single but it does get a little hard around the holidays.
Anyway, I guess I want to know ... would it be in bad taste to do it and there be no up front promises of any 'action'. Not saying there wouldn't be but don't want to mislead and promise it.
Your thoughts? ( and not too much piss taking lol )
No probs to me hun
I'd offer if i lived near kiss
I think it's a lovely idea, good luck
xxx
I can't see why it would be in bad taste hun dunno
If you are clear in what you want (and you seem to be!) and honest then there's no more you can do!
Good luck with it btw, but I am sure you won't need it ;)
If I wasn't already booked I would offer myself ;) But I ain't getting the door for you :giggle:
Minx x x
I think you will have a queue of single males wanting to wine and dine you and keep you company hun - i have to say you are sexy, sassy and good company......
What man would not want to spend the evening with you wink
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I think it's a lovely idea, good luck
xxx

Thats 2 of us..... why the heck not?? Go for it, have fun, what makes you think a guy would not be proud to take you out regardless??
Ask away, I bet you within 5 mins you will be planning your outfit..
Good luck.....
Mike xxx
Thanks guys.
Hmmm ... maybe I should put the ad up and then let you guys pick the winner. Kinda like a SH reality dating thing .... that way I can blame y'all if it goes ass up ( excuse the pun ).
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I think you will have a queue of single males wanting to wine and dine you and keep you company hun - i have to say you are sexy, sassy and good company......
What man would not want to spend the evening with you wink

No I'm Sassy confused
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I think you will have a queue of single males wanting to wine and dine you and keep you company hun - i have to say you are sexy, SULTRY and good company......
What man would not want to spend the evening with you wink

No I'm Sassy confused
Who said sassy ??
:wink: bolt
I think it's a fine idea. As everyone else says, I am absolutely sure that you will have plenty of great offers.
Good luck with it and have a fab time.
Will
Quote by Juniper_couple
I think you will have a queue of single males wanting to wine and dine you and keep you company hun - i have to say you are sexy, SULTRY and good company......
What man would not want to spend the evening with you wink

No I'm Sassy confused
Who said sassy ??
:wink: bolt
bad juni smackbottom go to my room :rascal:
OK. Done. Crossing fingers now. lol
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No I'm Sassy confused

no, Im Spartacus
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I think you will have a queue of single males wanting to wine and dine you and keep you company hun - i have to say you are sexy, SULTRY and good company......
What man would not want to spend the evening with you wink

No I'm Sassy confused
Who said sassy ??
:wink: bolt
bad juni smackbottom go to my room :rascal:
:bounce: :grin:
Quote by Abilene
Ok, so is it bad that I am actually considering putting an ad in the Meets forum looking for someone to wine and dine me on New Years Eve.
Is it bad that I want to be so blunt about wanting to be treated to a good old fashioned date ... i.e. nice restaurant, wine after, hold the doors open blah blah ... the whole nine yards.
Bottom line is New Years Eve is nearly here and I do NOT want to be sitting home getting all maudlin about the fact that I am here and single. Yes, I love being single but it does get a little hard around the holidays.
Anyway, I guess I want to know ... would it be in bad taste to do it and there be no up front promises of any 'action'. Not saying there wouldn't be but don't want to mislead and promise it.
Your thoughts? ( and not too much piss taking lol )

You go ahead, but go dutch. It would be a shame to see you band.
Quote by Abilene
Ok, so is it bad that I am actually considering putting an ad in the Meets forum looking for someone to wine and dine me on New Years Eve.
Is it bad that I want to be so blunt about wanting to be treated to a good old fashioned date ... i.e. nice restaurant, wine after, hold the doors open blah blah ... the whole nine yards.
Bottom line is New Years Eve is nearly here and I do NOT want to be sitting home getting all maudlin about the fact that I am here and single. Yes, I love being single but it does get a little hard around the holidays.
Anyway, I guess I want to know ... would it be in bad taste to do it and there be no up front promises of any 'action'. Not saying there wouldn't be but don't want to mislead and promise it.
Your thoughts? ( and not too much piss taking lol )

new years day is my birthday but i usualy celabrate it on new years eve cos most ppl dont remember new years day rolleyes
totaly agree with you Abi hun , you go for it ( ill be sat her thinking of you wink )
I don't think its bad Ab... New Year must have to be the second most loneliest time of the year (to Xmas day) and if you don't like being alone then go for it. I'm sure you will be inundated with replies and your New Year will go off with a bang! (oh how corny was that??!!! bolt )
Go for it girl,good luck to you
Oh and Merry Christmas and Happy new year
L.B
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You go ahead, but go dutch. It would be a shame to see you band.

I am going to play devils advocate here and ask ... Why would I get banned ( assume that's what you mean when you say band ) if I my date pays for dinner?
cant see any reason for you not to do this, im sure you will have a queue as long as a january sales opening day queue to spend the evening with you
good luck, i hope the victim will realise how lucky he/she is
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good luck, i hope the victim will realise how lucky he/she is

:shock:
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good luck, i hope the victim will realise how lucky he/she is

:shock:
I don't agree with the terminology that Essex used lol , but I do agree.....they ought to feel lucky.....wink
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Abilene - go for it!
Wish it was me - I shall instead be sitting in front of the TV slightly bored...
Nothing wrong with it.... In fact new years can be a let down if your with the wrong people... so go for it. If I was in the country id nominate myself ... wink
Oh!
I went looking for the ad, and couldn't find it! redface
I shoulda known that the forumites are just doing a wind-up again! biggrin
Aw, I'd take you out kiss
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Oh!
I went looking for the ad, and couldn't find it! redface
I shoulda known that the forumites are just doing a wind-up again! biggrin

It's not a wind up. I put a thread on the Lets Meet Up forum. As if I would jest about drinking wine !!! :shock:
Just go for it, dont forget for every single woman sat alone there must be a single man as well. And whilst this is a swingers site doesnt meen you cant just go out for some no strings attached company.
Just go for it, dont forget for every single woman sat alone there must be a single man as well. And whilst this is a swingers site doesnt meen you cant just go out for some no strings attached company.
Can't see how in anyway an ad can be considered bad taste.
Refreshingly honest in my view.