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Anal! still a taboo?

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Is Anal still a strong taboo? or more acceptable nowadays?

exit only, (still a taboo!) 0%
no pain no gain, (acceptable!) 0%
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bottoms are lovely... whatever theyre used for, don't you think?
lp
I enjoy anal sex as well smile especially when i'm feeling really horny lol
it makes my orgasm more intense and as for goin slow i'm afraid i bang back into him like a hammer drill, i feel sorry for fil :twisted:
lil xx
Maybe there`s a lot of men who would actually feel the same if it became a reality!!!

if i thought my partner was more than willing / desirous , and actively enjoyed the experience, i don't think i'd see anything 'wrong' in that? i'd tend to see that in positive terms, as an infrequently indulged but equally shared pleasure?
where does the 'wrongness' come from, do you think? if you don't mind me asking? ;) is it because you see it as something , so you question whether it's something either of you should actually enjoy?
neil x x x ;)
lol :lol: :lol:
fair enough! that is indeed always a consideration / occupational hazard, that should most definitely be borne in mind! :lol:
;)
neil x x x ;)
Quote by flower411
Nah !! I think it just has something to do with sticking my dick in the place where the shit comes out !!

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Say it as it is Flower, dont wrap anything up lol
For us, anal is not something we do regularly, but when I am in the right mood, Im relaxed and feeling very horny, then I love it!
Is it a for us? Definately not, but it is also not something we do regularly, more of an occassional 'treat' for us both when the mood is right.
Not something I have tried with anyone else though, it is more of a very 'special' thing just between us.
I put acceptable
Just cos i think it is if both are agreeable and never thought of it as .
As for personally i havent given and i havent really thought about it as its never come up lol
Forgive my choice of phrase there :lol:
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I think it just has something to do with sticking my dick in the place where the shit comes out !!

On a slightly different topic, what about enemas? When i do it, it feels as though my ass has been possessed by the devil and I don't trust it for a couple of hours afterwards. Ms T does it all the time though, I don't know if she shits naturally at all any more... I mean, at least we can be sure that there will be no poo up there. She says that it's kind of fun to have eliminated altogether one of your basic natural bodily functions
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p.s. tomu? spot on! ;)

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Its certainly not for me, i wonder whether part of the turn on is the feeling of humiliating someone or being humiliated

sorry dont get that one, whats humiliating about anal?
I like it!!!!! biggrin
But it's not something I would do with just anyone... for me it's very personal and I have to be with someone I'm comfortable with and who I trust.
I really, really cum . I think part of the thing that turns me on is the , evil
I find the trick is to have load's lube, and don't stop masturbating at any point.
You''ll enjoy it have a try !!!!1
:angel: db xxxx
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On a slightly different topic, what about enemas? When i do it, it feels as though my ass has been possessed by the devil and I don't trust it for a couple of hours afterwards. Ms T does it all the time though, I don't know if she shits naturally at all any more... I mean, at least we can be sure that there will be no poo up there. She says that it's kind of fun to have eliminated altogether one of your basic natural bodily functions

Can you not do it (emema) too often tomu? I understand that there are natural "thingys" in there that you dont want rid of ... or am I talking out of my arse again confused
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On a slightly different topic, what about enemas? When i do it, it feels as though my ass has been possessed by the devil and I don't trust it for a couple of hours afterwards. Ms T does it all the time though, I don't know if she shits naturally at all any more... I mean, at least we can be sure that there will be no poo up there. She says that it's kind of fun to have eliminated altogether one of your basic natural bodily functions

Can you not do it (emema) too often tomu? I understand that there are natural "thingys" in there that you dont want rid of ... or am I talking out of my arse again confused
I may well be wrong but is anal still illegal between a hetero married couple?
If so then many women are being told as such and this obviously affects how daughters, sisters, relatives etc. are going to behave, when confronted with anal in the early stages.
anyway try latex angel site, that may make your hair curl.
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Can you not do it (emema) too often tomu?

Um, I hadn't heard that. She seems to think it's good for her.
I did a little research and couldn't find any warnings. I did find this though:

I'm saying nothing.
can you buy a kit or somthing?
I think of it as a rare treat.
The first time was fine - the second time my husband (now ex) got a bit keen and I ended up screaming my way backwards up the headboard.
He was horrified, after the pain subsided I thought it was hilarious, but it took him ages to have another go. :lol2:
One piece of advice I would give - take your time on removal - a quick exit can be almost as painful as a quick entry.
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can you buy a kit or somthing?

Yeah, i think they range from £10-£20. Ms Tomu probably got ours on the internet but i'd be surprised if you couldn't even get them in Boots.
I'm surprised there’s such a debate going on over something that's been part-n-parcel of what I have done naturally for a long time. In a way its quite reassuring, kinda reminds you that S.H. is a homely place. On the issue of or acceptability, my response is that it is all part of my normal sexual activity, which is fun, entered into freely and not emotional depravity. So normal for me.
Babe!
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I'm surprised there’s such a debate going on over something that's been part-n-parcel of what I have done naturally for a long time. In a way its quite reassuring, kinda reminds you that S.H. is a homely place. On the issue of or acceptability, my response is that it is all part of my normal sexual activity, which is fun, entered into freely and not emotional depravity. So normal for me.
Babe!

Yeah, But was there a time for you when it was ?
I know I didn't just sail up the khyber the moment I turned 16. It grew on me over the years. Then one day we just did it. The woman was experienced and that made all the difference. She liked it and it was easy. It would have been quite a different thing if it involved two anal virgins.
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I've never wanted to receive any bum-fun, it's just not something that appeals to me at all.

I've done it a few times (just to make sure!) but I can honestly say I don't like it done to me.
However, doing it to someone else can be really enjoyable :rascal:
I don't think its a at all.
Fee
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is when you really come up against an agonising decision, which you are not sure you can reconsile; and is often replaced by a smattering of excuses or reasons not to do something. But more likely to shut it out of your reasoning and reponsibility.
Quote by flower411
I know this won`t come as a surprise to some, but I think I must be some kinda weirdo :shock: :shock:
I have never wanted to stick my cock up anybodies arse. It doesn`t appeal to me at all. But everything I see on here suggests that all men are just gagging to do it !!
Is this true ? Am I the only man that has no desire at all for anal sex ?? redface
Spose the funniest thing is that mrs f just lurves having things stuck up her bottom rolleyes

Nope, Mr W isn't interested-and I have another male friend who, despite there being a level of intimacy between us, took literally 25 minutes to tell me that he didn't like the thought of anal. He just couldn't bring himself to say it! I guess thats what they mean by "anally retentive!" lol
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Yeah, But was there a time for you when it was ?
I know I didn't just sail up the khyber the moment I turned 16.

Of course oh knowledgeable one.
But then I wasn’t a member of a swinging site.
And, And it a big and; I was replying to Hungryeyd’s question which was “I am genuinely curious about women’s attitudes toward anal sex.” Not what the f… other blokes think about my response. Sorry if I’m coming across a wee bit strong, but I really get pissed at people hijacking other’s threads.
Also, neither am I so naive as to assume that all on this site are a homogeneous group in terms of their behaviour patterns. rolleyes
So try being what your profile says and a bit more sensitive. I.E. using common sense.
i was chatting to female friend the other day and she is actually gunna dump her bloke cos he wont lik or fuk her ass ...guess some women like the posts say really do like it.
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Yeah, But was there a time for you when it was ?
I know I didn't just sail up the khyber the moment I turned 16.

Of course oh knowledgeable one.
But then I wasn’t a member of a swinging site.
And, And it a big and; I was replying to Hungryeyd’s question which was “I am genuinely curious about women’s attitudes toward anal sex.” Not what the f… other blokes think about my response. Sorry if I’m coming across a wee bit strong, but I really get pissed at people hijacking other’s threads.
Also, neither am I so naive as to assume that all on this site are a homogeneous group in terms of their behaviour patterns. rolleyes
So try being what your profile says and a bit more sensitive. I.E. using common sense.
Oh well. I am interested in the aspect. Which I think is the main debate. I just thought you might be able to add some insight and experience.
?? I've never thought of it as or knowlingly talked to anyone else who thought it was. But I'm not sure when I was first aware of anal sex per se.
I have a (straight) female friend that can only cum if the bloke is shagging her up the bum.
I feel the same about anal as I do about most of the sexual practices I enjoy - I go through phases.
hehe teach me to read the forum without my glasses on!! Thought it said, Anais, still ....
I'll go now! confused