Hi everyone,
this being my first forum post i may be out of place asking so apologies if so.
I am genuinely curious about womens attitudes toward anal sex. Is it enjoyable, or is it just something to please him? Is it still a or is it becoming more of a standard sexual practice??
Would love to hear peoples thoughts on the subject, any funny or embarrasing stories. maybe its added a great to aspect to sex?
Again, i am just curious and not some pervy guy who will be responding to everyone trying to chat them up lol.
ttfn x
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Anal! still a taboo?
Is Anal still a strong taboo? or more acceptable nowadays?
exit only, (still a taboo!)
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no pain no gain, (acceptable!)
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its something that is fairly new to me but i must admit I love it and pretty much come within seconds.
have only ever given it once and i certainly didnt get any complaints.
Hungryeyed as its your first forum its normal when asking this type of question to give your views first, so what are they?
Earthy x
have only ever given it once and i certainly didnt get any complaints.
Hungryeyed as its your first forum its normal when asking this type of question to give your views first, so what are they?
Earthy x
Sex God
Quote by Hungryeyed
Would love to hear peoples thoughts on the subject, any funny or embarrasing stories. maybe its added a great to aspect to sex?
What's your perspective on it? Have you any funny or embarrassing stories to share? Have you tried it?
Sexlightened
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I would love to be able to relax enough to enjoy this, but I just don't.
snap chick
my views are very much each to their own. the reason i ask is cause it is something i have done before and have had mixed responses. hence i was curious to see what others felt about it.
personally i dont think it is a ! but not yet found a girl who really enjoys it. so was wandering if there are any who can actually orgasm (or get genuine pleasure) out of it.
personally i dont think it is a ! but not yet found a girl who really enjoys it. so was wandering if there are any who can actually orgasm (or get genuine pleasure) out of it.
Sex God
I like it! 
But it's not something I would do with just anyone... for me it's very personal and I have to be with someone I'm comfortable with and who I trust.
It's all about the angle! :rascal:
But it's not something I would do with just anyone... for me it's very personal and I have to be with someone I'm comfortable with and who I trust.
It's all about the angle! :rascal:
Ms Tomu comes really, really hard from it. I think part of the thing that turns her on is the , though.
The trick is to go really slowly at first, use loads of lube, and don't stop masturbating at any point - there's a really good Nina Hartley tutorial on how to do it right.
I'd say about half my girlfriends have ruled it out outright, and only a few have really liked it. Probably just depends on how you're wired to a large extent. Oh, I quite enjoyed it when she bummed me, but I've never had a real cock up there...
The trick is to go really slowly at first, use loads of lube, and don't stop masturbating at any point - there's a really good Nina Hartley tutorial on how to do it right.
I'd say about half my girlfriends have ruled it out outright, and only a few have really liked it. Probably just depends on how you're wired to a large extent. Oh, I quite enjoyed it when she bummed me, but I've never had a real cock up there...
like some other women, Angie has always been against it in principle even though we tried it years ago.
However, we have slowly been experimenting again, (fingers - lube etc) and now she actually enjoys it and asks me to do it with her.
The trick is to ALWAYS be gentle and remember SHE has final say at any time - and although she says it's reserved just for me - she's just said she may let our friend try it!!!!! :silly:
bless her
However, we have slowly been experimenting again, (fingers - lube etc) and now she actually enjoys it and asks me to do it with her.
The trick is to ALWAYS be gentle and remember SHE has final say at any time - and although she says it's reserved just for me - she's just said she may let our friend try it!!!!! :silly:
bless her
Sexpert
Yes, but my experience of being on the recieving end has always been 'Ouch! Slow down, boy!' and it has therefore never been particularly pleasurable and I avoid it completely - not because of any tabboo because the idea really appeals to me both as giver and reciever, but because of the times I've had guys trying to bang away like demented bucking bronco's or something.
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Hi everyone,
this being my first forum post i may be out of place asking so apologies if so.
I am genuinely curious about womens attitudes toward anal sex. Is it enjoyable, or is it just something to please him? Is it still a or is it becoming more of a standard sexual practice??
Would love to hear peoples thoughts on the subject, any funny or embarrasing stories. maybe its added a great to aspect to sex?
Again, i am just curious and not some pervy guy who will be responding to everyone trying to chat them up lol.
ttfn x
why only womens opinion, why not ask the men if they like it too?
Master of Sex
having an asshole is one of the few things guys have in common with women. want to know what it feels like you guys from a woman`s perspective ? get yourself a hard ,on and sit on a cucumber. we guys like it cos we get a nice tight screw,girls do it cos they want to please bless em.
no extra sensory receptors up yer bum,or u couldn`t have a poo without an orgasm.
aren`t women amazing.
no extra sensory receptors up yer bum,or u couldn`t have a poo without an orgasm.
aren`t women amazing.
Sex God
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having an asshole is one of the few things guys have in common with women. want to know what it feels like you guys from a woman`s perspective ? get yourself a hard ,on and sit on a cucumber. we guys like it cos we get a nice tight screw,girls do it cos they want to please bless em.
no extra sensory receptors up yer bum,or u couldn`t have a poo without an orgasm.
aren`t women amazing.
Depends on their attitude
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I would love to be able to relax enough to enjoy this, but I just don't.
i never used to be able to, try starting with something smaller like a butt plug or small vibe and work your way up if you enjoy it
Earthy xx
Thanks Earthy, I may try on holiday - I guess for me it's a mental block that something else is going to happen while its happening if you see what I mean x
It's not a at all but still not my cuppa. It's not the pain factor or relaxation or anything like that - it just doesn't appeal to me and when I have done it, I've felt it was "wrong" somehow. Tongues and a tiny bit of finger is fine but i have a psychological issue with penetration. 
Total hypocrite that i am, I'd really love a strap on to use on a man. :twisted: In lots of ways, I'm obsessed with bumlove. :P
Few men seem to like this though. Plenty of givers but no takers.
No embarrassing or funny experiences personally but i do remember hearing about a guy who shat all over a lady who was a bit vigorous with the dildo. It pays to douche. :thumbup:
Total hypocrite that i am, I'd really love a strap on to use on a man. :twisted: In lots of ways, I'm obsessed with bumlove. :P
Few men seem to like this though. Plenty of givers but no takers.
No embarrassing or funny experiences personally but i do remember hearing about a guy who shat all over a lady who was a bit vigorous with the dildo. It pays to douche. :thumbup:
Quote by flower411No I do not run around begging for anal and not that interested.
I know this won`t come as a surprise to some, but I think I must be some kinda weirdo :shock: :shock:
I have never wanted to stick my cock up anybodies arse. It doesn`t appeal to me at all. But everything I see on here suggests that all men are just gagging to do it !!
Is this true ? Am I the only man that has no desire at all for anal sex ??
Spose the funniest thing is that mrs f just lurves having things stuck up her bottom
.....but then again I have peeked the thread and poked this post. So who know what desires are hiding in my subconscious.
Sex God
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Its certainly not for me, i wonder whether part of the turn on is the feeling of humiliating someone or being humiliated
Dont think humilliation comes into the equation at all
Sometimes in a fetish senario perhaps but ordinarily I dont think so..
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Dave has spent years getting me ready for anal sex starting small and getting bigger over time
wow... now that's a skill :-)
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...get yourself a hard ,on and sit on a cucumber. we guys like it cos we get a nice tight screw,girls do it cos they want to please bless em.
no extra sensory receptors up yer bum,
Er, only your prostate, which is kind of like the male g-spot, and the extensions of the clitoris in ladies (imagine a pair of tweezers - the point at the end is the bud on the front and then the two legs extend back past the vagina and towards the shit-pipe. whether it actually gets there depends on the plumbing of each individual lady i suppose.)
The discomfort comes from doing it too suddenly and without enough lube, like sitting on a cucumber. Use something smaller at first, like your finger, and worm it in half-inch by half-inch, and use LOADS of lube. Crook it up like you're trying to scratch your balls from the inside. Do it while masturbating. I guarantee you will come REALLY hard.
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or u couldn`t have a poo without an orgasm.
Have you never heard the expression "a good shit is better than a bad shag?"
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I know this won`t come as a surprise to some, but I think I must be some kinda weirdo :shock: :shock:
Er.... No comment....
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I have never wanted to stick my cock up anybodies arse. It doesn`t appeal to me at all. But everything I see on here suggests that all men are just gagging to do it !!
Is this true ? Am I the only man that has no desire at all for anal sex ??
I think that possibly some men like the idea of it more than the actuality. After all, for most men, it's not something they get to do very often. They see it in porn - other men brag about it. It's out there, and a lot of men would probably like to try it to see what it's like. ..and probably more than once.
Perhaps you just haven't been subject to the usual male pressures and/or perhaps you have a different set of interests.
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Spose the funniest thing is that mrs f just lurves having things stuck up her bottom
I knew there was a reason I liked her.... :twisted:
Master of Sex
Yes, but my experience of being on the recieving end has always been 'Ouch! Slow down, boy!' and it has therefore never been particularly pleasurable and I avoid it completely - not because of any tabboo because the idea really appeals to me both as giver and reciever, but because of the times I've had guys trying to bang away like demented bucking bronco's or something.
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I blame those ghastly porn movies that have studs banging away. They make me wince! I hate them. I've never done it but would like to try out of curiosity. I enjoy tickling an anus with my finger gently though.
Sexlightened
Well I was curious first and then convinced that gay males must have something going for them. So I started in the obvious place - my own bum. It was not comfortable at all! Too quick.
So back to the drawing board. Obviously there was no natural lubrication so that was sorted and made things a lot easier. The nervous endings around the anus are closely wirde to the sex organs and can be very aroused without penetration. After that the prostrate can be stimulated although that might be too sensitive for some apparently. If I get a hard on stimulating my bum really does make the orgasm much more intense but it does not make me orgasm on its own.
The reason for explaining this is that I found that it seems to be the same in women so if I get in there then it is time to aid with a little stimulation to the clittoral area (is that the bit of beach near the c?) and that makes it more intense for her too.
However, I do find just having the tip of my penis going in and out of the anus always brings me off like nothing ever does and I do not know why except the slightly tighter grip and the sensitivity of the tip is perfect?
I read once that it took a guy two years of gradual progression with foreplay to get his partner to succeed in getting comfortable anal sex and my personal experience is that it can sometimes take months to get to that stage - but I think it was worth it for both of us!
I think of it now as another dimension to sex like oral or toys.
Still to try being done by strap-on though.
As for the domination thing. Yes it can be a domination thing but that is true of all sex. Some like the domination - I like the sharing and exploring
Shay
So back to the drawing board. Obviously there was no natural lubrication so that was sorted and made things a lot easier. The nervous endings around the anus are closely wirde to the sex organs and can be very aroused without penetration. After that the prostrate can be stimulated although that might be too sensitive for some apparently. If I get a hard on stimulating my bum really does make the orgasm much more intense but it does not make me orgasm on its own.
The reason for explaining this is that I found that it seems to be the same in women so if I get in there then it is time to aid with a little stimulation to the clittoral area (is that the bit of beach near the c?) and that makes it more intense for her too.
However, I do find just having the tip of my penis going in and out of the anus always brings me off like nothing ever does and I do not know why except the slightly tighter grip and the sensitivity of the tip is perfect?
I read once that it took a guy two years of gradual progression with foreplay to get his partner to succeed in getting comfortable anal sex and my personal experience is that it can sometimes take months to get to that stage - but I think it was worth it for both of us!
I think of it now as another dimension to sex like oral or toys.
Still to try being done by strap-on though.
As for the domination thing. Yes it can be a domination thing but that is true of all sex. Some like the domination - I like the sharing and exploring
Shay
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Its certainly not for me, i wonder whether part of the turn on is the feeling of humiliating someone or being humiliated
certainly not in my experience but then its only something i do with someone i trust and care about
humiliation must be having to walk a gay dog surely
Earthy xx
Sex God
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was wandering if there are any who can actually orgasm (or get genuine pleasure) out of it.
yes there are, thanks for asking!
i'm talking proper eyes-rolling-in-the-back-of-your-head, feck-me-i-need-a-lie-down, oh . . . i am lying down? best hold on. ;) oh . . . sorry! you asked for women's attitudes didntcha? :doh:
;)
neil x x x ;)
p.s. tomu? spot on! ;)
