hey y'all - at the risk of soundin a bit weird or bad in bed i was wondering if anyone knew any serious ways of lasting longer in bed...you see im gnna meet my g/f...well ex...for a bit of a "fling ting" - we cnt b together cos of religious stuff but we love each other v much so we wanted to meet up for a bit of foolin about for the last time...so i wanted to bring my "A-GAME" if ya gets me - wanna really impress her...any proven techniques or dare i say it...Pills.??
also she's a bit of a "traditionalist" - we hav dun EVERYTING cept her lettin me actually penetrate her - she doesnt want my ting to go into hers since we not married...i mite change that wen we hav our last "redevous" but is ther anyting else i can do to really please her (of cors i pleasure her orally and we do the whole "fake sex" wher my cock jus rubs against her vagina...so is ther anyting i can do in that dept to pleasure her even more..??
thanx in advance
BountY
Listen hun, only you know what's best for the both of you, but have a sweeet night and all the best, eh?
Well if i need to last for a session...I drink about half a bottle of champaign...gets me tipsy very quickly but also seems to keep me going for hours!....for extra effect....its got to be Bolly
darn...i dnt drink... - thanx for the well wishes btw Vix....i really wanted her to b my first...sigh
I not tryed any of them out but I have heard that anestetic sprays work but that they numb the woman as well. Has anybody tryed them out? Allways interested in way to last longer.
Hi Bkiller, the more you worry about "trying to impress her", the more anxious you will become, and the more that anxiety will make her anxious too. That is likely to work directly against the heightening of enjoyment and pleasure for both of you. I would say it's about having relaxed fun, telling each other what feels good while you're doing it, and if things don't go well, saying "oh what the hell", having a giggle, and trying again!
Good luck,
Mike.
Relax and enjoy is the most important but if you wanted to last longer why not try a durex performer condom???
They have a numbing gel in the tip which meltts with your narural body heat and midly numbs the effected area.
think of ya mother in law works everytime lol
Don't worry about how long you last....even if it's all over in 5 mins,you should be ready to go again very soon afterwards!.....why should the ladies be the only ones to have mutiple orgasms!
My other half says 'have a wank' before you meet her. That helps.
The best way to make it a great night is to include everything into the night, not just the sex.
Make the effort to dress nicely, cook a nice meal, make the room romantic (candles etc) then just take your time and dont rush anything. Ensure that you spend as long as possible exploring her body and ensuring she is having a good time. Don't just focus on th emain areas kiss and nibble her whole body.
Its not so much a question of how to last longer but of how to make sure she has enjoyed it before your finished.
Vix that defiantly helps - I know from experaince
Mike