Any members not swingers???

9 May 2005

Erm, yes, I have to admit I'm not a swinger redface

I'm a total fake, but I'm nice with it lol

I came to this site looking for fun and excitement and oh boy did I find it! I've met some fantastic people through this site, had one or two sad moments, and then everything came to the crunch really when I found myself in a situation that I was in no way prepared for. Luckily for me, I was in this situation with one of the most fantastic people on this site and he handled it a heck of a lot better than I did (thankyou, you know who you are kiss

)
Then recently something pretty eerie happened (and not in a good way) and I've been away from the site while recovering. Now I'm 'all better' again, I've been into the chat room and had a chin wag, and I've been reading the forums, but not contributing, just chilling out and having a think.
It doesn't really matter if I swing or not - does it? Is it ok to be a 'social' swinger? I absolutely adore the people I chat to on here and there is nothing I wouldn't do for them (ooooooh double negative! tut tut jules).
So for all of you who think I'm not worth chatting to just cos I won't jump into bed, feel free to ignore me, I don't think I will miss your riveting conversation much. To everyone who knows me and still chats to me knowing I'm a complete fake, love ya loads and hope to see you at one of the munches (providing of course that I'm allowed to go confused

).
Jules

9 May 2005

welcome back juliett hope you soon get back in to the " swing " of things (sorry somebody had to say it) lol

:love: xxx

9 May 2005

We enjoy the social side of swinging very much. The munches are a great laugh, full of open minded people that you just do not find anywhere in the 'Vanilla' scene. IMHO
As to swinging?.... If we want to we will.... and if we don't we won't, it's as simple as that really. Above all else, we met each other through this website and we couldn't be happier.

9 May 2005

Quote by juliett49
Erm, yes, I have to admit I'm not a swinger I'm a total fake, but I'm nice with it
I came to this site looking for fun and excitement and oh boy did I find it! I've met some fantastic people through this site, had one or two sad moments, and then everything came to the crunch really when I found myself in a situation that I was in no way prepared for. Luckily for me, I was in this situation with one of the most fantastic people on this site and he handled it a heck of a lot better than I did (thankyou, you know who you are )
Then recently something pretty eerie happened (and not in a good way) and I've been away from the site while recovering. Now I'm 'all better' again, I've been into the chat room and had a chin wag, and I've been reading the forums, but not contributing, just chilling out and having a think.
It doesn't really matter if I swing or not - does it? Is it ok to be a 'social' swinger? I absolutely adore the people I chat to on here and there is nothing I wouldn't do for them (ooooooh double negative! tut tut jules).
So for all of you who think I'm not worth chatting to just cos I won't jump into bed, feel free to ignore me, I don't think I will miss your riveting conversation much. To everyone who knows me and still chats to me knowing I'm a complete fake, love ya loads and hope to see you at one of the munches (providing of course that I'm allowed to go ).
Jules

So so sooooooooooooo good to see you back!
Lotsa kisses xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx and see you soon biggrin

Cathy x

9 May 2005

As one who came here to to seek answers to a personal dilema (Swing or not) (Honest with partner or not)
I found that ther are alot of people that are happy to share ther personal knowledge of similar situations willing to give meaningfull advice and in some instances piont to further place's to seek help/advice
And also happy to give emotional support at times when its most needed and these people I salute you. And you should feel proud for helping & supporting others
It is these people that kept me honest redface

And make me feel like i am welcome back at any time.
On the other hand there a bunch of narrow minded members who are happy to DIS you just for being here and if my first contact had been with them my life would have gone in another direction completly
One of there pearls of wisdom
Just to Activey/physicaly take part in the forums with out first telling your partner makes you a CHEAT
So if you come across this attitude remember it's not the majorities view

9 May 2005

The last time I swung ....was in game with my mate to see who could jump the furthest from the swing.I think I was about 5 ....oh my that was along time ago :swingingchair:
I'm here for the banter and it keeps my mind open and challenges me to look at life in so many different ways

9 May 2005

We came here to swing but we stay for the banter :happy:
If the oportunity to swing comes up then great, if not then it doesn't worry us biggrin

9 May 2005

im not a swinger....just here for the forum.

9 May 2005

.. here for the banter when I'm feeling mischievious, humour when I'm feeling happy (or sad), company when I'm feeling lonely or sociable, intelligent conversation when I'm feeling.. er, intelligent and new friends :P

9 May 2005

For us, we're potential swingers in that we're willing to swing with friends that are a very close couple, we've built up a relationship with them for years now. Though the other female involved is finding it hard to not to become jealous of watching her own partner with my wife.. Though she herself would like to try!!
So until both parties are agreed that we are honest with our feelings and each other, nothing will happen, between any of us.
Though we joined this site looking to speak to others swingers for there experiences. We ended up having been in contact with a similar young couple to ourselves (You know who you are wink

) Now through emails and pics we feel a sexually hump

attraction to them, mainlywe are enjoying getting to know them through mails which haven't really consisted of to much sexual banter but of general interests, problems etc.. This for us is the most important thing, getting to know and trust another couple before we're prepared to swing with them.
For us its not a matter of not being swingers but with whom and in time.
What we also really enjoy is the openness of people on the forum and the fact its not all about swinging.
We're hoping biggrin

to attend the Essex Munch, but have found it hard to get on the list for the obvious reason that you could be a moron. Like some of the single guys I seen booted off recently. So please if anyone can invite us we'd be very appreciative, mainly because until 18months ago, swinging was a redface

subject for my sheltered wife, and we're intersted in others experiences and to talk with other like minded people.

9 May 2005

Dedicated 'Social' Swingers here as well. Mrs TnH is not up for swinging, and until that changed (which it wont) I won't be either. However this is my pressure valve, a place to be 'adult' with out the usual vulgar connotations that go with that. I can relate well with the guys who go to swingers clubs for the banter and safety that seems to normally be there.
SH is wonderful melting pot, if you got an open mind, and know your limits you can have a great time here with some of the most down to earth people I have met (barring only navy paramedics at motorcross, you know who you are ;) )
So I think you will find more socialites than you think hiding in the mix, we are not frauds, we swingers in our open attitudes we just have tighter limits smile

9 May 2005

When I first came across this site I had a good look through the posts and realised that this was a good place for banter, nonsense, wit and fun - so much so that after I joined I got stuck staright in with the forum and had a great first night! (Jaffa cakes, it was).
I have been very, and pleasantly, surprised by the support offered to members by others - somehow I did not expect to find that.
I don't always log in (if I have nothing to say, then thats exact;y what I do say) but usually have a laugh with it on a daily basis.
When I sum up the courage, I look forward to meeting some of you!
M69