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...are there any members who just come here for the banter and not interested in swinging or couldnt be encouraged??
...just me being nosey!
rolleyes
I suspect that there are quite a few of those, and why not? As long as they enjoy the site and don't try and judge those on here who DO like to swing then I don't think that there is a problem
Will
Far too many of them and usually the best looking and most interesting!! sad :( :(
Quote by willxx69
I suspect that there are quite a few of those, and why not? As long as they enjoy the site and don't try and judge those on here who DO like to swing then I don't think that there is a problem
Will

..totally agree Will. :P
Quote by alspals
...are there any members who just come here for the banter and not interested in swinging or couldnt be encouraged??
...just me being nosey!
rolleyes

yep. been there, tried it for a while, didn't find it fulfilling and are only here for the banter.
Quote by foxylady 123
Far too many of them and usually the best looking and most interesting!! sad :( :(

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
..I'll get my coat then Foxy!!
Quote by foxylady 123
Far too many of them and usually the best looking and most interesting!! sad :( :(

Thank you. biggrin
:lol2:
Quote by foxylady 123
Far too many of them and usually the best looking and most interesting!! sad :( :(

Put me down for both biggrin
Quote by bigDewi69
Far too many of them and usually the best looking and most interesting!! sad :( :(

Put me down for both biggrin
..me thinks he doth protest too much!!
lol :lol: :lol:
Well that flusshed out some of the old pervs who lurk off screan didnt it?
as for bigDewi69, id gladly put you down but im not a vet!!
Quote by alspals
Far too many of them and usually the best looking and most interesting!! sad :( :(

Put me down for both biggrin
..me thinks he doth protest too much!!
lol :lol: :lol:
confused :?
Quote by manofmuchfun
Well that flusshed out some of the old pervs who lurk off screan didnt it?
as for bigDewi69, id gladly put you down but im not a vet!!

Oi...... me an you can soon fall out you know ! ...............
No.............................................you wouldnt dare!!! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :rascal: :rascal: :rascal: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
You know very well, that like Ice Pie, your totally adicted to my wonderful warm personality!! and fantastic sense of humor and wit
Quote by foxylady 123
Well that flusshed out some of the old pervs who lurk off screan didnt it?
as for bigDewi69, id gladly put you down but im not a vet!!

Ouch
Quote by foxylady 123
Well that flusshed out some of the old pervs who lurk off screan didnt it?
as for bigDewi69, id gladly put you down but im not a vet!!

Oi...... me an you can soon fall out you know ! ...............
You know very well, that like Ice Pie, your totally adicted to my wonderful warm personality!! and fantastic sense of humor and wit
warm personality? fantastic sense of humour?? Can't be a swinger then eh Foxy?!
lol :lol: :lol:
when foxy's in a nice mood !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In a nice mood!!! when am i in anything but a "nice mood"
Look your gereatric pervert,i am always in a nice mood!! always , always , always!!!!!
The trouble with you is youve got yourself all soaped up and in a spin cos you have far too many women hanging round you, so you dont realise how nice i am!!!!!
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Before Big G and I met, we both were swingers. Alas, we met, we laughed, we talked we kissed and I knew....I'd never want anyone else.
Silky xx
Quote by alspals
...are there any members who just come here for the banter and not interested in swinging or couldnt be encouraged??
...just me being nosey!
rolleyes

Me, not at all interested in swinging although I have dabbled in the past. Happy the way I am and like to stay around here to catch up with some of the lovely folk and the banter.
Quote by Alexandra
To be honest and judging from a lot of people I have spoken with, been in PM with etc - there are many, many who only come here for the social side and the friendship.
Lot's of these first joined with the intention of dipping their toes and getting a bit extra spice in their lives, but have since realised that the openness and friendliness provides satisfaction in itself.
I'm not really a swinger although hubby and I fantasise about it a lot - and it may yet stay a fantasy (or there again it may not wink ). But I have many friends on here. Many I have met, many I have still yet to meet.
I have had fun at a munch, had a riot at an Ann Summers Party (ty again Angel), had a coffee with a black dalek, had lunch with very good friends In Shrewbury, enjoyed dinner and good conversation with a lovely member or two, formed lasting friendships with others (one in particular who we don't see in here any more) and recently found a kinship with a wonderful couple who I hope will become lasting family friends with hubby and me.
I know this site was originally set up for swingers and would-be swingers but unlike many other internet sites it has become much more. It has become a community in it's own right. And like all well balanced communities there are people from all walks of life and of all sexual persuasions. The only thing different about this one is that people are more open and honest about their feelings and also can indulge in good clean or downright dirty fun.
In the main, people are not judged. Occasionally we have the purists who say that this place should only be for swingers - but my feeling is that it would be a far poorer place if that were to ever happen.
All in all - this is a wonderful place.
Long may it stay inhabited with 'swingers', 'would-be swingers', 'not-a-chance-ever-swingers' and 'what is this swinging thing anyway' people. And also - those (tongue in cheek here) married people here without partners knowledge (god forbid! rolleyes ) - because some of those are nice, normal fun loving people who just want a laugh and a relax without harming anyone. I should know :wink:
OMG I have rambled on ........ and I haven't even had a drink!
I'll shut up now! biggrin
Hugs,
Alex x x x

...well I enjoyed your 'ramblings' Alexandra....thanks for that smile :)
We are swingers but met a really nice guy who is a regular at one of the clubs we go to, he doesn't swing,but would rather go to the club for a drink than take the chance of being attacked or whatever in his town. Plus he says the company is so much more relaxed.
:love: xxx
Quote by hornet harlot
We are swingers but met a really nice guy who is a regular at one of the clubs we go to, he doesn't swing,but would rather go to the club for a drink than take the chance of being attacked or whatever in his town. Plus he says the company is so much more relaxed.
:love: xxx

i can understand his viewpoint... especially in a club.....i have gone in clubs for nights when i have absolutly no intention of swinging, and i worked out that i probably spend less money and have had a better time that if i gone on the lash in any city centre..... i can very much see the appeal of just talking to like-minded people, hence why i like munches i suppose....
sean xxxxxxxxx
crikey, from most of these posts looks like we're a membership of closet 'straight' folks
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Well I can understand the view point of meeting people first without expecting to be a commited swinger or expecting to have an immediate shag.
Personally I am dipping the toes in the water and would like to meet similar people at a social event (ie a munch) before I /we had a real swinging experience.
As far as I can see this site is just what that is about - free minded people who are not affraid to be open about their sexuality, desires or preferences - and if we all meet up and have the ultimate experience then so much the better.
I swing but only with the right people. It is actually a very personal and private thing.
However, this site has opened up the opportunity to talk online with many people who are like minded and do not judge others.
Yes there are idiots, yes there are chancers, but there are also real people here who are here because they get on well and enjoy being part of this community.
i have yet to go to a munch because travel is difficult at the moment.(KitKat know why) But when I do, I know that there will be no A@@holes, no " did you spill my pint types" and just good friendly people out for a social. If anything then happens between people, cool. If anything doesn't , then, cool. Friendship and respect is very important to me
Exactly bell 412 - I think we are saying the same thing but you have put it a bit better.
Cheers.
That's why I am here.
Everyone has to learn.
All in all - this is a wonderful place.
Long may it stay inhabited with 'swingers', 'would-be swingers', 'not-a-chance-ever-swingers' and 'what is this swinging thing anyway' people.

Yes please smile
Quote by bevntony
All in all - this is a wonderful place.
Long may it stay inhabited with 'swingers', 'would-be swingers', 'not-a-chance-ever-swingers' and 'what is this swinging thing anyway' people.

Yes please smile
Don't forget the "Fancy a shag PM" swingers.
Sorry, had to be said :)
Don't forget the "Fancy a shag PM" swingers.

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Quote by alspals
...are there any members who just come here for the banter and not interested in swinging or couldnt be encouraged??
...just me being nosey!
rolleyes

me :twisted:
but i never say never
Due to my work commitments I travel the world, so it's only on the odd ocassion that I manage to attend a Munch & put faces to names.
I love the banter in here so much diversity, opinions & thoughts that it seems no one subject is (correct me mods plz if I am wrong).
One of these days I will manage to swing properly, but at this moment the analagy goes:
Sitting on a swing just need sum one to push me lol