...are there any members who just come here for the banter and not interested in swinging or couldnt be encouraged??
...just me being nosey!
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Well that flusshed out some of the old pervs who lurk off screan didnt it?
as for bigDewi69, id gladly put you down but im not a vet!!
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Well that flusshed out some of the old pervs who lurk off screan didnt it?
as for bigDewi69, id gladly put you down but im not a vet!!
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...are there any members who just come here for the banter and not interested in swinging or couldnt be encouraged??
...just me being nosey!
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To be honest and judging from a lot of people I have spoken with, been in PM with etc - there are many, many who only come here for the social side and the friendship.
Lot's of these first joined with the intention of dipping their toes and getting a bit extra spice in their lives, but have since realised that the openness and friendliness provides satisfaction in itself.
I'm not really a swinger although hubby and I fantasise about it a lot - and it may yet stay a fantasy (or there again it may not ). But I have many friends on here. Many I have met, many I have still yet to meet.
I have had fun at a munch, had a riot at an Ann Summers Party (ty again Angel), had a coffee with a black dalek, had lunch with very good friends In Shrewbury, enjoyed dinner and good conversation with a lovely member or two, formed lasting friendships with others (one in particular who we don't see in here any more) and recently found a kinship with a wonderful couple who I hope will become lasting family friends with hubby and me.
I know this site was originally set up for swingers and would-be swingers but unlike many other internet sites it has become much more. It has become a community in it's own right. And like all well balanced communities there are people from all walks of life and of all sexual persuasions. The only thing different about this one is that people are more open and honest about their feelings and also can indulge in good clean or downright dirty fun.
In the main, people are not judged. Occasionally we have the purists who say that this place should only be for swingers - but my feeling is that it would be a far poorer place if that were to ever happen.
All in all - this is a wonderful place.
Long may it stay inhabited with 'swingers', 'would-be swingers', 'not-a-chance-ever-swingers' and 'what is this swinging thing anyway' people. And also - those (tongue in cheek here) married people here without partners knowledge (god forbid! ) - because some of those are nice, normal fun loving people who just want a laugh and a relax without harming anyone. I should know :wink:
OMG I have rambled on ........ and I haven't even had a drink!
I'll shut up now!
Hugs,
Alex x x x
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We are swingers but met a really nice guy who is a regular at one of the clubs we go to, he doesn't swing,but would rather go to the club for a drink than take the chance of being attacked or whatever in his town. Plus he says the company is so much more relaxed.
:love: xxx