I spend time during the summer on my local nudist beach and I can say that irrespective of personality women can look good naked from 17 to 70 and from the thinnest bodies to the plumpest. Clothes define a shape or age more than bare skin does. A desire for life in general and sex in particular means far more than looks though.
some of us bland faced skinnies have personalities too ya know!
(just goes to show, what ever you say, you're gonna upset someone, the trick is to smile while you're talking and look inocent)
H.x
can't eat pies - what with having a mouth full of unmelted butter.
H.x
I think people will exercise their own choice based on their own tastes, wants and needs and experience. We don't usually explain to other people why we make the choice unless it develops into a partnership, and then its more important.
I think most people find it a turn off to be presented with someone who provides too much (or unnecessary) detail; too soon, and who is perhaps trying far too hard in the circumstances.
I really do not jump in bed with anyone and everyone just because I swing. If that is wrong then so be it. I will say that there is more to a person than a body.
I see what letskiss means in some of her posts, i mean some people have had a go at me before for saying my preferneces(ages and size) but then when you dont say what u want , they say why dont you put what your looking for, I think some people can be a bit harsh on this forum but at the same time, i dont think anyone could who puts a reply to my post would make me that upset that I would cry(thats not a dig either)
at the end of the day we are all into different type/shapes/sizes and it would do if we all were the same!!!
and as for done to death threads, like some said b4 what has been done to death for the regular forum users aint been done for the new people so let them speakxxx
with you all the way pololady!
....but you put it so much better.
ok you misunderstood me. my viewpoint is that anyone can have sex with anyone & im an idiot for being fussy & Ive apologised for it. cant you just accept my apology I wrote that apolgy because I upset people & im trying to put it right dont get bugged by my problem. I want you and everyone else to feel better.
You were quoting the intital post I made I wrote an apology for what I wrote so why you still examining it when I apologised for saying it....I take it all back
your preferences are your own, nobody can tell you what you should find attractive.
to a certain degree we're all hard wired with an image of attractivness and this comes to the fore when you meet the female/male of your dreams, whether that image is physical or intellectual is by the by, its that little feeling that makes you think this is the right person?
we personally have no problems meeting anyone socially, we wouldnt dismiss anyone out of hand without at least meeting them first, the social side of swinging is as is important to us as the sexual side. (yes it does say no single males on our profile, but this is down to a bad experience and the fact that at this time we dont think its our thing)
But the whole point of swinging is to broaden horizons imho, if you meet people you like and find attractive in both intellectual and physical ways all the better, but if anyones looking for perfection, well who's perfect?
now that might have been the worlds most pointless post, but hey we're new lol
T&P xxxxxxxxx
right for me!
Some people i like, some people i don't.
Some people i would shag and some people i wouldn't.
Some people are to old or to young for me to shag and some people ain't.
And some people i just couldn't shag because i don't like the look of them.
And i'm sure there is lots here that either don't like me or wouldn't shag me, i wouldn't hold it against them if they didn't like me and i hope they wouldn't hold it against me if they wasn't my cup of tea either.
Its one of the things that makes us unique, we can make our own minds up on what we like and don't
Hope this makes sense
Shaz x
I wouldnt want to shag any1 i didnt find attractive in *some* way. That dont mean they have to be a model or absolutly stunnin but they have to have "something".................. that means a nice personality I suppose as well as good looks.
I think swinging and dating values are different tho in some ways. the values in a person I would look for in a swinging partner are different than in some1 i was lookin to have a long term partnership with. Cant really define it tbh, i just know there different LOL
I wish I could feel like that but i said I prefer slim & thats a hurtful, thoughtless thing to say.
BTW I saw your advert! Im sure I recognised the words & I hope its working xxxx :swingingchair: