just been online for a couple of days with an ad and also on chatlines.....r u saying that it is hard for a single guy to find pleasure other than on a genuine swinging site? Hard to detect the real people through the sea of eager desperate hopefuls? Or am i wrong completely?
Busty.....
Just to demonstrate a problem we have on this site I'm gonna ask you a question that gets asked a lot in the chatroom.
Are you male or female?
The nickname says female....the post says male. I'm actually willing to put money on you being male. Your profile says nothing at all about you and I'm relying on my nose. If I'm wrong I'm quite willing to eat humble pie but I'll take some convincing.
Steve
steve, thanx for the comment...but I actually am female with pix to prove it. I can see that confusion could arise though as names are very misleading sometimes.
Oh well, I wish I had a pound for every time someone thought I'm a man. I would be able to put my money into some nice investment plan, retire, and then spend all day on SH :P
But to the original question.... I think it is harder for (heterosexual) single guys to find sex anywhere, regardless of it being an Internet site, at a club, or from adverts in the newspaper, than it is for couples or single fems. The reasons for this have been discussed many times before, have a read through the threads and see what you think.
And welcome! 8)
Sorry bluexxx I thought you were a bloke to.
oops!!!
The Clues are around here if you look for them. LOL
Look a clue!
Where
There, Kevin, on the forum!
Oh right - time to put it in our super-duper note-book!
I noticed you were a few problems yesterday a single guy but do what females do best girl,gossip with the other females.I presume that you know what you are looking for here so the females will tell you "oh hes a nice guy" "hes not" that way you get to know the people who use the site or even keep your eyes open for postings about social a great way to meet like minded people in a friendly atmsphere.
If you have problems in the chatroom give 1 of the operators a shout and they will help are the people at the top of the list with an @ before there name.
:grin: @ Andy_W.
My gender bending really must stop, I'm confusing myself now 8).
Teacher!!!!!!!!
<-----runs up and hands an apple AND a rose to teacher!!!!!!!!!
Pupil!!!!
Wow.......nice pic!
* Graciously accepts apple and looks for a suitable place to put the rose.......just behind pupil's left ear looks most appropriate!
Steve
Of course you can, darling Sappho. You don't need to ask. Just grab me and hug, any time you feel like it.
Hi Busty, Im in search of fulfilling a fantasy, not a search for sex for the sake of it. Im genuine and respectful, but this is not something that Ive entered into lightly, but its something I want to achieve.
Whether I find it here who knows, but Id hate to think that quick shags is what most of us r here for. I dont know maybe Im naive
Andy
