I don't expect this post to be answered by many but its always worth a shot!!!...After being treated pretty badly (actually VERY badly) over the past few months by the man who i thought was the love of my life.....Are there any really good single men left in the world???... I'm pretty self sufficient (not needy), love great sex, great cook, good sense of humour, have a great job, not bad looking, love sports (esp football), good personality,fit, kind,caring....(anything else..look in profile).!! So, my questions are......Where am i going wrong?.....what else do i need to do??? ...Why can't i find a REALLY good man???? and Why am i writing this at in the morning????????...(prob because i have a big empty bed upstairs waiting for me)..... :cry:
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Are there any REALLY good single men out there???
last reply
149 replies
5.9k views
1 watcher
0 likes
good morning jessica-r 
sorry tohear you've not been having a good time of late 
some guys just dont know which side of their bread is buttered 
to me you sound like most mens dream woman just hang in there im sure things will pick up for you very soon 
just make sure you have plenty of time on your hands cuz your inbox will be overflowing very soon!!
you are not alone being here even at this time of the morning im just home from work & not really wanting to crawl into empty bed either :(
sorry tohear you've not been having a good time of late some guys just dont know which side of their bread is buttered to me you sound like most mens dream woman just hang in there im sure things will pick up for you very soon just make sure you have plenty of time on your hands cuz your inbox will be overflowing very soon!!
you are not alone being here even at this time of the morning im just home from work & not really wanting to crawl into empty bed either :(
Sex God
Good morning Jessica - one of my favourite names as some 'round here will testify.
Yes, there are good single men around as well as some shitheads. Equally there some good women around and some manipulative bitches!
The bad 'uns are often very clever and can lead anyone decent up the garden path. So don't think it's you - it ain't.
Trick is to find the right one(s) and put the bad 'uns behind you as quickly as possible - easy to say - hard to do I know.
Good luck.
Yes, there are good single men around as well as some shitheads. Equally there some good women around and some manipulative bitches!
The bad 'uns are often very clever and can lead anyone decent up the garden path. So don't think it's you - it ain't.
Trick is to find the right one(s) and put the bad 'uns behind you as quickly as possible - easy to say - hard to do I know.
Good luck.
.jessica-r
I know how hard it is when you go thro' a break up... and altho' I am anti- willy. I am not anti- men. And I know that there are lovely lovely men out there.... probably wondering around looking for the lovely women.
I have "met" some lovely men on here and loads more in real life.
stay positive and leave these feelings in the past.
and a trick that I have found is to place some pillows on the other side of the bed... and take a hot water bottle to bed.. Then the bed becomes the right size and your side is warm.
lots and lots of love hunny x x x x x
Orgasminator
If it's love you're looking for.... you probably won't find it here!
There are decent swinging single males..... lots in fact, but equally there are some who are not so great!
Most singles are here to be single.... not to be in a relationship, in my experience anyway.
There are decent swinging single males..... lots in fact, but equally there are some who are not so great!
Most singles are here to be single.... not to be in a relationship, in my experience anyway.
Jessica hunni, hang in there :therethere:
I've been on my own since my hubby left last year and yes, there are many nights where the bed's too big for one and I get fed up with my own company ( I felt very lonely and miserable last night myself hun )
On the plus side, I can come and go as I please, meet who I want, do what I want and can perv on here all day long if I want to ! I'd just say don't rush into another relationship too soon, enjoy your freedom and get out and have some fun, even if it's just meeting people for coffee/drinks.
and of course, you've got all of us to talk to if you need us
I've been on my own since my hubby left last year and yes, there are many nights where the bed's too big for one and I get fed up with my own company ( I felt very lonely and miserable last night myself hun
) On the plus side, I can come and go as I please, meet who I want, do what I want and can perv on here all day long if I want to ! I'd just say don't rush into another relationship too soon, enjoy your freedom and get out and have some fun, even if it's just meeting people for coffee/drinks.
and of course, you've got all of us to talk to if you need us
Warming the Bed
well yeah im nice caring and fit, but you probably wouldnt meat some like me because im not likly to aprach you
Quote by H-x
I'm not convinced there are either hun, a lot of the 'single' guys here turn out not to be and the ones that are don't want anything more than a quicky then bugger off, if you find one that'll at least stay for a cigarette and a coffee can you let me know? Restore my faith a bit.
H.x
disappointed you think that way but guess its understandable......but as onlyme quite rightly says there are some decent single guys on here ..who arnt just after sex.....i want someone to do my ironing as well!!!!!!!!
RWL
xx
Quote by H-x
I'm not convinced there are either hun, a lot of the 'single' guys here turn out not to be and the ones that are don't want anything more than a quicky then bugger off, if you find one that'll at least stay for a cigarette and a coffee can you let me know? Restore my faith a bit.
H.x
I found one hunni. I had a very nice meet last weekend after he replied to my ad and didn't just stay for coffee but the whole night and boy did I need sleep the next day ! :shock: :twisted: So yes, there ARE nice single men out there, just keep looking hunni
Plenty of nice girls too of course :twisted:
Quote by jessica-r
Are there any really good single men left in the world???
Yes, we've met two lovely, sexy, single blokes in the last month or so thanks to this place :P Sorry, that's probably not helping is it? I'll go back in my box.....
Make sure you look under all of the stones, lots of frogs and toads I know but there are some princes around too - good luck :thumbup:
Quote by redwine_lover:doh: This is just the kinda sexist claptrap that led to birds getting the vote in the first place :small-print:
...some decent single guys on here ..who arnt just after sex.....i want someone to do my ironing as well
Stop now before they start to claim more rights! :uhoh:
Quote by redpantherman:doh: This is just the kinda sexist claptrap that led to birds getting the vote in the first place :small-print:
...some decent single guys on here ..who arnt just after sex.....i want someone to do my ironing as well
Stop now before they start to claim more rights! :uhoh:
Bad red !
Now get back in the kitchen where you belong ! 
Hiya, I sympathise with your pain. It's not easy when you have been hurt & let down. The thing about swinging is that it is focused on sexual fun & not about a relationship. I'm not saying that is a good or bad thing, it's just different.
I have been around the swinging scene for more years than I care to remember, I see it as a way of finding the sexual freedom that I seek. Yes there are many nights that I find myself alone & aching for the one person who is miss dearly, but in all honesty I dont think I'm the kind of guy who is suited to monogamy.
All I can say is that time is a great healer......if you want it to be?
Hugsss anyway
Ian
Ps. Wots wrong with creases in your shirt arms
....dambuster? LOL
I have been around the swinging scene for more years than I care to remember, I see it as a way of finding the sexual freedom that I seek. Yes there are many nights that I find myself alone & aching for the one person who is miss dearly, but in all honesty I dont think I'm the kind of guy who is suited to monogamy.
All I can say is that time is a great healer......if you want it to be?
Hugsss anyway
Ian
Ps. Wots wrong with creases in your shirt arms
....dambuster? LOL 
Sex God
Quote by dambuster
You'd trust your ironing to a woman ? ? ? ? ? ?
Nooooooooooooooooo ! ! ! ! ! !
They put creases down the shirt sleeves ! ! ! ! :shock:
Mistakes do happenDon't tell me HLB does that as well
Quote by donnyguy
Ps. Wots wrong with creases in your shirt arms
Quote by Sarah
You'd trust your ironing to a woman ? ? ? ? ? ?
Nooooooooooooooooo ! ! ! ! ! !
They put creases down the shirt sleeves ! ! ! ! :shock:
Mistakes do happenDon't tell me HLB does that as well
I've yet to meet a women that can maintain just a single crease
After 3 or 4 wear/was/press cycles, there's normally enough lines to run Sheffield's Supertram.
And . . . . . . .
You don't think I keep HLB here for her housekeeper skills do ya ??????
Sex God
Quote by dambuster
Ps. Wots wrong with creases in your shirt arms
Quote by Sarah
You'd trust your ironing to a woman ? ? ? ? ? ?
Nooooooooooooooooo ! ! ! ! ! !
They put creases down the shirt sleeves ! ! ! ! :shock:
Mistakes do happenDon't tell me HLB does that as well
I've yet to meet a women that can maintain just a single crease
After 3 or 4 wear/was/press cycles, there's normally enough lines to run Sheffield's Supertram.
And . . . . . . .
You don't think I keep HLB here for her housekeeper skills do ya ??????
Pictorial evidence would indicate other wise.
We have seen pics of HLB
Cooking
Ironing
Washing up with pigtails.
I'm sure I will think of others!
:giggle:
Quote by Sassy-Seren:doh: This is just the kinda sexist claptrap that led to birds getting the vote in the first place :small-print:
...some decent single guys on here ..who arnt just after sex.....i want someone to do my ironing as well
Stop now before they start to claim more rights! :uhoh:
Bad red !
Now get back in the kitchen where you belong ! rpm's gonna stick a bun in Sassy's oven! :bounce: 
:rascal: Quote by Sarah
Pictorial evidence would indicate other wise.
We have seen pics of HLB
Cooking
Ironing
Washing up with pigtails.
I'm sure I will think of others!
:giggle:
Cooking - - I apologised for that HERE :rotflmao: Ironing - - the pigtails weren't for washing up with; they were grab handles :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by dambuster
rotflmao: Ironing - - It was something of hers, and it was flat and square; therefore easy for her to manage
i keep looking but i just can't see an ironing board in there anywhere
hwoar: :smitten: :rascal: (i know, i shouldn't be here, just seemed to sense there was naked HLB pics to perv at
) Quote by sheddybut the SH rumours hint at a large pack of 'dsw's' are currently residing under sheddy's shed
Jess they must be out there some place so I'm sure you'll find one
Now decent single women thats a search, all the good uns have been snapped up :cry:
rpm tools up to lead an attack squad to liberate them with the utmost expediency!
Who's with me?... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... hmmm... I seam to hear an echo
