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ARE WOMEN TOO PICKY OR ARE MEN JUST SLUTS?

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We are just sluts! no not really, gonna sound corny as hell here but its down to personality!
Just send for Eagerslut lol :lol:
I think there as to be some form of attraction but it does not necesarily have to be a physical attraction, you can meet someone who is drop dead gorgeous but has no personality what so ever. But then there are the ones who may not be the most physically attractive person in the world but something about them makes you smile, they make you feel comfortable and it makes you want to spend a bit of time with them!
I would definatly not want to have sex with someone who did not make me feel comfortable, or make me laugh. Looks are only a very small part of attraction, its more the complete package of personality, looks, clothes, behaviour, smile etc etc
I do have to find someone attractive as I couldnt shag someone for the sake of did meet somone in the chat rooms and built up good relationship before meeting we met the intial physical attraction wasnt there for me, but coz got to know her well we did end up sleeping together for a I suppose for me its a bit of both personailty or looks. biggrin
hey your all missing one very important factor
alcohol biggrin
Works better for me if there is a spark there, even if not in looks but in personality. Any girl who can flirt, seduce and make me smile gets my vote anyday.....drop dead georgous or not!
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Quote by polly40
Is it just me or do alot of blokes not have any scruples when it comes to having sex?
A bloke once told me that a shag is a shag and he isn't bothered what the woman looks like, i.e he doesn't have to find her attractive as long as he gets a shag.
I have to feel attracted to the person I am about to shag or I can't do it, am I abnormal or too damn picky????
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i think,as it becomes more permissable to go.....dogging,or swinging,views on looks tend to go out the window,it's about the SITTUATION,the MOMENT,now obviously there are limmits,but for dating purposes,i think you have to find them attractive or you would just walk round asking everybody lol,but if you have a damn good shag with someone at a club or a car park,then looks tend to go by the by and you start remembering how sexy it was....just a thought
Yeah a lot of guys are like this...I have gotta have a little bit of an attraction..even if its just something small like his eyes!
Quote by polly40
Is it just me or do alot of blokes not have any scruples when it comes to having sex?
A bloke once told me that a shag is a shag and he isn't bothered what the woman looks like, i.e he doesn't have to find her attractive as long as he gets a shag.
I have to feel attracted to the person I am about to shag or I can't do it, am I abnormal or too damn picky????
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No...... you're not either of those things......... i would agree with what you've said.
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Quote by da69ve
I would rather go without a shag then just shag someone i didn't fancy!!
So not all men are like that! wink

Me too!!!
It just doesnt do it for me if I dont fancy the women confused I'd rather go without :wink:
Then again theres nothing like finding a really nice women ouzing sex appeal :lickface:
I know a few men who live by "any port in a storm" lol I just cant get my head around this point of view dunno
Each to their own
Mr goodtimez
Wouldn't have to find someone attractive to shag them.. but would have to be someone i got on well with.
If i found someone really annoying or obnoxious i wouldn't shag them if they were the most attractive person alive.
Soooo not sure if that makes me a Slut or what confused