Is it just me or do alot of blokes not have any scruples when it comes to having sex?
A bloke once told me that a shag is a shag and he isn't bothered what the woman looks like, i.e he doesn't have to find her attractive as long as he gets a shag.
I have to feel attracted to the person I am about to shag or I can't do it, am I abnormal or too damn picky????
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ARE WOMEN TOO PICKY OR ARE MEN JUST SLUTS?
Sex God
your normal....
but then i know several that wouldnt want to be normal
but then i know several that wouldnt want to be normal
Think the personality has more to do with it than the looks - but also depends on if you are talking about a one-off or short term thing or something longer?
personally just has to feel right - whether that be governed by looks or personality changes from time to time and depnds on the situation.
personally just has to feel right - whether that be governed by looks or personality changes from time to time and depnds on the situation.
Sexpert
I'm with Da69ve on that...
Quote by Tiger_25
There are a lot of men like this, but likewise there are a lot of women like this too.
I don't understand your problem though - surely no one is forcing you to sleep with someone you're not attracted to?
I don't have a problem and No I am not being forced to sleep with someone I'm not attracted to, it was just a general question about scruples.
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think this is becoming less and less as the years go by.
Maybe it's just me, but I think society has been becoming more and more open minded and people seem more aware of sexuality. The idea of going out and getting plastered drunk and having sex with anyone, simply because you all were, doesn't seem to fit the mould any more, well in my experience.
For me, I think it's quite open to see that if you head out and meet people, you are able to talk to them fairly straight forwardly about such things and an understanding is easier to come by than it had in the past. .....whether that be a relationship, one night thing,,,,,,extra curiculal activities, etc.......
While compared to the past (forgetting the 60's!) i don't think people were able to communicate on that level.........
So now, don't think men will shag anything anymore..
or maybe I'm rambling as I 've had too much coffee and no one could understand any point I just tried to make 
:shock: c'est la vie :P
actually, just thought,,,,,give me 3 drinks and I'm a flirt whore :shock: ,,,,,,us men!....too bloody complicated :shock:
Maybe it's just me, but I think society has been becoming more and more open minded and people seem more aware of sexuality. The idea of going out and getting plastered drunk and having sex with anyone, simply because you all were, doesn't seem to fit the mould any more, well in my experience.
For me, I think it's quite open to see that if you head out and meet people, you are able to talk to them fairly straight forwardly about such things and an understanding is easier to come by than it had in the past. .....whether that be a relationship, one night thing,,,,,,extra curiculal activities, etc.......
While compared to the past (forgetting the 60's!) i don't think people were able to communicate on that level.........
So now, don't think men will shag anything anymore..
or maybe I'm rambling as I 've had too much coffee and no one could understand any point I just tried to make
:shock: c'est la vie :P
actually, just thought,,,,,give me 3 drinks and I'm a flirt whore :shock: ,,,,,,us men!....too bloody complicated :shock:
Quote by da69ve
I think some women aren't picky either.....Peter Stingfellow,Mick Jagger shall i go on!
picking 2 millionaire celebraties is not really a guide lets say two average people with average jobs with average income and average looks then the women will get picky . and mr stringfellow and mr jagger still atttarct the ladies because they are not average and as you know they are both wealthy and famous .
shall i go on :
Quote by guy4fun
I think some women aren't picky either.....Peter Stingfellow,Mick Jagger shall i go on!
picking 2 millionaire celebraties is not really a guide lets say two average people with average jobs with average income and average looks then the women will get picky . and mr stringfellow and mr jagger still atttarct the ladies because they are not average and as you know they are both wealthy and famous .
shall i go on :
But they are ugly gits.....and its only the money that is attractive!
so the women who go with these kind of guys aren't too fussy either!
ok i'm going to be honest here
when it comes to meeting people off here for private meets then yes i have to be attracted to them
but :shock:
if i go to a club i do not feel the same, if i go into a open room where there's many people on a bed having sex i will just go join in and yes it is a bit like a shags a shag, i do like group sex and i feel that you limit your fun if your to picky amd start saying ...oh no not you...ooo you can have a go :lol:
so for me it really does depend on the situation
when it comes to meeting people off here for private meets then yes i have to be attracted to them
but :shock:
if i go to a club i do not feel the same, if i go into a open room where there's many people on a bed having sex i will just go join in and yes it is a bit like a shags a shag, i do like group sex and i feel that you limit your fun if your to picky amd start saying ...oh no not you...ooo you can have a go :lol:
so for me it really does depend on the situation
Quote by da69ve
But they are ugly gits.....and its only the money that is attractive!
so the women who go with these kind of guys aren't too fussy either!
They are fussy - if you havn't got money, no shags
It's the money that attracts them Different people find different things attractive, each to their own.
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Quote by lynni133
I would rather go without a shag then just shag someone i didn't fancy!!
So not all men are like that!
............................but for how long? :wink:
Believe it or not i have standards......i would rather have a wank and use my imagination then have sex with someone i didn't fancy!....
Quote by da69ve
I would rather go without a shag then just shag someone i didn't fancy!!
So not all men are like that!
............................but for how long? :wink:
Believe it or not i have standards......i would rather have a wank and use my imagination then have sex with someone i didn't fancy!....
a man with standards :shock:
surely not
Quote by Kit
But they are ugly gits.....and its only the money that is attractive!
so the women who go with these kind of guys aren't too fussy either!
They are fussy - if you havn't got money, no shags
It's the money that attracts them Different people find different things attractive, each to their own.
I
i wonder if they imagine they are having sex with a big £ sign.....
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I would rather go without a shag then just shag someone i didn't fancy!!
So not all men are like that!
............................but for how long? :wink:
Believe it or not i have standards......i would rather have a wank and use my imagination then have sex with someone i didn't fancy!....
a man with standards :shock:
surely not
Hell yes .....and bloody proud of it!!
Orgasminator
Quote by polly40
Is it just me or do alot of blokes not have any scruples when it comes to having sex?
A bloke once told me that a shag is a shag and he isn't bothered what the woman looks like, i.e he doesn't have to find her attractive as long as he gets a shag.
I have to feel attracted to the person I am about to shag or I can't do it, am I abnormal or too damn picky????
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I defo think there has to be some spark (attractive) or where would the buz be.
Dave
Quote by da69ve
But they are ugly gits.....and its only the money that is attractive!
so the women who go with these kind of guys aren't too fussy either!
They are fussy - if you havn't got money, no shags
It's the money that attracts them Different people find different things attractive, each to their own.
I
i wonder if they imagine they are having sex with a big £ sign.....
they are probably spending it as they are shagging :roll: :lol: :lol:
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Thanks for all the replies, I feel the same way as most of you, it depends on the situation e.g group sex on a bed
, I'm all for a good romp, plus when meeting another couple I feel there needs to be a hint of "phwar I want to get you into bed".
So I am normal - ish. :happy:
Thanx again you lovely lot
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:rose: Thanks for all the replies, I feel the same way as most of you, it depends on the situation e.g group sex on a bed
, I'm all for a good romp, plus when meeting another couple I feel there needs to be a hint of "phwar I want to get you into bed".So I am normal - ish. :happy:
Thanx again you lovely lot
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Quote by naughtynymphos1.
ok i'm going to be honest here
when it comes to meeting people off here for private meets then yes i have to be attracted to them
but :shock:
if i go to a club i do not feel the same, if i go into a open room where there's many people on a bed having sex i will just go join in and yes it is a bit like a shags a shag, i do like group sex and i feel that you limit your fun if your to picky amd start saying ...oh no not you...ooo you can have a go :lol:
so for me it really does depend on the situation
Good question .
I remember mailing a couple ones and getting a no thanks reply but then a few weeks Later saw them at a club and played with them .
.So in a club situation people do think its different .
wasnt botherd at the time but thinking about it now it does .
And if im honest we do play in clubs with people we wouldent normal want to play with .
But theres so many timewasters out there in the ads .
Dreamers and wannabes.
Playing in clubs is the easyest way .
But i do like 4 sums at home best .
Orgasminator
In the past I've slept with someone who I wasn't instantly attracted to but once I got to know him, that spark was there.
In my own warped view, everyone has their own qualities and I can find anyone attractive - I really mean that. Some people think I'm weird but everyone has good things about them, even people who are classed as "ugly" so I don't really find anyone completely unattractive, but that doesn't mean I'd sleep with them. Some sort of spark has to be there.
In my own warped view, everyone has their own qualities and I can find anyone attractive - I really mean that. Some people think I'm weird but everyone has good things about them, even people who are classed as "ugly" so I don't really find anyone completely unattractive, but that doesn't mean I'd sleep with them. Some sort of spark has to be there.
Sex God
I have never fucked anyone I do not find really attractive. Can't say what others do.
Really attractive covers more than just physical attraction.
If you can't look deep into a woman's eyes as you begin to penetrate her physically and see her soul as well, then it ain't worth doing in my book!
Mind you - there's quite a few I've found really attractive, whom I haven't fucked either.
Really attractive covers more than just physical attraction.
If you can't look deep into a woman's eyes as you begin to penetrate her physically and see her soul as well, then it ain't worth doing in my book!
Mind you - there's quite a few I've found really attractive, whom I haven't fucked either.
Sex God
Some men are sluts. :twisted:
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Orgasminator
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