Aromatherapy/ Massage

25 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire
I love receiving a massage. I will only receive from someone I know well and trust though. It's a sensual and very personal thing, especially full body ;)

I wonder whether that's why its not generally thought of as part of foreplay or 'swinging' as such... because it is very personal dunno

If its a really good strong massage, I can be so deeply relaxed its almost a catatonic state, full on 'gone', eyes glazed, ragdoll-like lol

Unless its with someone you know well or are 100% comfortable, maybe the deep relaxation is not such a good idea? :dunno:
For me, I don't "do" massage as part of foreplay or during swinging. I prefer to do that with someone I'm close to. But we're all different and whatever I might like or not, someone else will have a different take on things. I just prefer that kind of personal intimacy with someone I know well and trust because it does make me so relaxed. If I was with someone I didn't know too well I don't think I'd like to be in that position.
If I didn't know the person well, I wouldn't feel comfortable anyway and it'd kind of defeat the object smile

26 Jul 2006

Quote by the_Laird
I love giving massages, especially when I have time to do it properly
I'm just a dabbler in general I suppose

offers herself up for dabbling practice :twisted:
Earthy xx
Graciously accepts such a fine offer from Earthy :twisted: :twisted:
woohoo :thrilled:

26 Jul 2006

I certainly enjoy giving massage... without being qualified in the least... though Ive been told Im ok, and I havent put anyones back out as yet.. or dislocated anything as far as Im aware!
Would have (at one time) liked to train for massage, even to go professional... though working on woman would always arouse me..>perhaps after training/experience that would not be an issue???<
Even having said that... Giving a sensual massage, and being aroused myself, seems somehow to enhance my own *feel* for what I should be doing... I would never put *pressure* (right word in this thread??) on the recipient for anything *extra*, as I personally enjoy that feeling of arousal, and the *vibe* I'm getting back from the recipient so much that I wouldnt wish to spoil it!
Does any of that make any sense?
has to be said: I like recieving massage too...oh yes!
LP
londonplaything

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire
I've just realised I have never had an all over massage :eeek:

blimey Dawn, right, we need to rectify this asap! biggrin

I absolutely adore massage, although these days I'm a selfish bitch and much prefer to be on the recieving end lol

:inlove:
I'm just wondering about this, as most of you will be aware I like soft play rather than full swap but i've never been asked/ offered about massage in a play situation dunno

I have done and would certainly continue to use massage as foreplay and in a swinging situation. Personally I see it as a perfect way to explore your "partners" body and again, for "soft swing" I reckon its a pretty perfect way to play. Perhaps that comes from the fact that essentially it was in similar circumstances that we first dabbled (there's that word again cool

) with swinging (so be warned folks......look how we've ended up wink

)
I'm told that I have a certain knack for it but it is always going to be easier with your regular partner because, like anything else, you learn how and where they like to be touched.
Best ask Fee for a recommendation.
For me, massage is definately a viable part of swinging.

26 Jul 2006

I'm certainly not qualified but I'm good at rubbing up people the wrong way lol

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Happy Cats
I'm certainly not qualified but I'm good at rubbing up people the wrong way

Surely not :giggle:
Who or what ever gave you that idea?? :lol:

26 Jul 2006

Clear as fog, maz :confused2:

26 Jul 2006

Quote by H-x
Only time I've had a massage is when my back's been bad so I've been in too much pain to enjoy it. As for the foot thing, you'd have to scrape me off the ceiling first.
H.x

It would be a pleasure to give you a long and relaxing massage H.x - I would even promise not to 'accidentally' slip my hands around the front!
..I had my fingers crossed when I made that promise....

26 Jul 2006

A few oriental ladies that I have had the pleasure of knowing, often use massage as part of the sexual experience, either before or after but never during.
Always found it to be fantasic, lying naked on your front your back well oiled, and having a lovely nimble naked japanese lady sliding body to body up and down your back kissing and teasing, her nipples pressed hard against your flesh, her neat bush rasping on your bum cheeks.....................................................opppps where's the toilet.......................

26 Jul 2006

Quote by tomengland
A few oriental ladies that I have had the pleasure of knowing, often use massage as part of the sexual experience, either before or after but never during.
Always found it to be fantasic, lying naked on your front your back well oiled, and having a lovely nimble naked japanese lady sliding body to body up and down your back kissing and teasing, her nipples pressed hard against your flesh, her neat bush rasping on your bum cheeks.....................................................opppps where's the toilet.......................

nice............... confused

26 Jul 2006

Quote by BigScotsBloke
I've got a massage table ( professional one ) with a good selection of oils ( and a good book to keep me right about which oils to use and which ones NOT to use ) and its pretty usual for me toend up giving 3 or 4 of my close female mates a full body massage once or twice a month
Any NE Scottish ladies need a massage :rascal: :rascal: :whistling:

Well helllloooo BigScotsBloke :rascal:
I can be in the NE pretty fast :twisted:
I have to admit to loving being massaged and could lie there all day and take it :shock:
I'm not so quick to massage anyone else back redface

but have been known to do it occassionally wink

Its sooo relaxing and I love reflexology too.....actually a certain young lady from here owes me one sometime! cool

(Btw, the Laird is very good at it so any women, or you Bloke lol

, who want to try him out then feel free!!)
Fee
XX

26 Jul 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
(Btw, the Laird is very good at it so any women, or you Bloke , who want to try him out then feel free!!)
Fee
XX

Can I try him out? And can I have a massage as well, whilst I'm there? :twisted:

26 Jul 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
Well helllloooo BigScotsBloke :rascal:
I can be in the NE pretty fast :twisted:
I have to admit to loving being massaged and could lie there all day and take it :shock:
I'm not so quick to massage anyone else back but have been known to do it occassionally
Its sooo relaxing and I love reflexology too.....actually a certain young lady from here owes me one sometime!
(Btw, the Laird is very good at it so any women, or you Bloke , who want to try him out then feel free!!)
Fee
XX

Lol anytime your up in my neck of the woods just give me a shout then lol.
A' the best
BSB
AKA 1/2 man 1/2 blue whale , the NE's fugly old git lol

27 Jul 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
(Btw, the Laird is very good at it so any women, or you Bloke , who want to try him out then feel free!!)
Fee
XX

Me me me me me me me!!!!!! :bounce: :inlove:
(pretty please) biggrin

27 Jul 2006

Quote by makingcocoa

(Btw, the Laird is very good at it so any women, or you Bloke , who want to try him out then feel free!!)
Fee
XX

Me me me me me me me!!!!!! :bounce: :inlove:
(pretty please) biggrin

Like YOU even have to ask :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

30 Jul 2006

I enjoy the pleasurable feeling of giving a slow sensual massage to give you that totally relaxed feeling. I am by no means qualified but I haven't had any complaints so I must be doing something right :whisltling:

30 Jul 2006

Quote by the_Laird

(Btw, the Laird is very good at it so any women, or you Bloke , who want to try him out then feel free!!)
Fee
XX

Me me me me me me me!!!!!! :bounce: :inlove:
(pretty please) biggrin

Like YOU even have to ask :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
me next me next!!!!!!
er, that's maz, not den! although i'm sure he'd prob be queuing up as well!!! :lol:
back to the topic- most people can relax when they're getting a massage of a professional, so i think it all depends on circumstances and what you decide the reason for the massage is! :twisted:

31 Jul 2006

I don't know where you were in the Orient to receive this kind of 'treatment' but the only place you can get that sort of massage in Japan is in their equivalent of our brothel.
De_sade
Not been to Japan, would love to go there did you enjoy your trip?
No the ladies I was referring to in my post were not/are not hookers, just friends, one is/was a merchant banker redface

and another was senior receptionist in a nice hotel in Hong Kong :twisted:
But I would agree the Orient offers a wide selection of massage services for money, as well as other services..............