I suppose much hangs on how judgmental a person is.
If a couple is looking for a single male, then what difference does it make to them whether the male is attached or not. His morality, his lies, his cheating, his deceit etc it nothing to do with anyone else but him. If you feel that you want to be guilty by proxy then fine but it's really got nothing to do with anyone else and if a guy with a single account actually admits to being married knowing that many couples will not do "cheating" then more fool him.
I agree with the original question... If you cannot be honest on this site, where can you be honest!!
I am married, my wife knows I'm a TV but not that I play... That is made clear on my profile and if I arrange any meets... If the person that I am arranging to meet doesn't like that situation they are free to say so.
What really pees me off are misleading profiles... 'straight' guys on the gay/bi/tv rooms trying to pull another guy!! C'mon peeps, get the profiles honest and things may happen!
Godlike.... I'm not 'lecturing'...Just having a rant.
Trev, not really an own goal. The op asked if people should be honest on SH. My private arrangements with my wife are just that, private! However, I always make clear my situation when arranging a meet, and my profile reflects that.
Of the meets I have had it has been obvious that ALL the guys have been married and NONE have visited me with their wives consent.
The op asked whether 'we' should admit to being married on SH, I simply agreed with that point of view.
I realise that Paula, and agree with your view so far as it goes. However using the phrase 'If you cannot be honest on this site, where can you be honest!!' does seem to be hypocritical to me.