Quote by meat2pleaseu
got to say, it's just extrapolating ..................
Do you need tablets or cream for that? :shock:
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Quote by Dave__Notts
got to say, it's just extrapolating ..................
Do you need tablets or cream for that? :shock:
Dave_Notts
no, but you might need some when debs & FB catch you
Sex God
Quote by Dave__Notts
got to say, it's just extrapolating ..................
Do you need tablets or cream for that? :shock:
Dave_Notts
He needs more than cream and tablets
kick in the bollocks :kick:
Sex God
Quote by HornyRed
got to say, it's just extrapolating ..................
Do you need tablets or cream for that? :shock:
Dave_Notts
He needs more than cream and tablets
red kissing my bollocks
Sex God
Quote by hateitorloveit
When I am with a partner i liketo be very dominant. I love to be in charge and have complete control. I like sex to be very hard, aggressive even with me calling all the shots.
Does anyone else feel like this?
I'm sure they do
Is this a normal way to feel?
nope
I'm struggling to understand what it is thats up for discussion on this. The answers are pretty obvious to me andno doubt you, I've given them above. There are folk out there that like to be submissive to the degree that I suspect you want and as I understand it you've been given a pointer in that direction, so where's the point in flogging away at it in here?
...davej answering the call for sensible.......
watch it go tits up in a minute or two
Quote by hateitorloveit
i like to be very dominant. I love to be in charge and have complete control. with me calling all the shots.
I like to be in charge until she starts crying and stuff.
I think what you are after is a pet.. not a woman.. Get yourself a labrador. With them you can be dominant, in charge and have complete control. And they cry and whine and bark if you don't treat em right..
:lol: :lol: 
Sex God
Quote by hateitorloveit
Please feel free not to read the thread and not to post on it if you feel it is BS. I would like a sensible adult discussion about a serious topic.
We've been here before. You post some nonsense or other, then whinge about not getting serious replies, then you start asking questions that you think might be contentious...... all the traits of a troll...... do you know what happens to trolls..... we put them in a little box, take them to the vets and have them put down.
Get my drift?
Sex God
Quote by hateitorloveit
Why do you not think it is abnormal Dave? Should I not act on these desires?
nope didn't say it was abnormal, I said that it wasn't normal as in, wasn't normal n the sense of being mainstream, it might seem like splitting hairs, but it's important that you don't take what I said as being a condemnation.
I see nothing wrong with you acting on your desires with willing, informed and consenting partners, but I do think that you are gonna have to seek those through more focused and resticted avenues such as clubs and websites that cater for your needs which are clearly more specific than most folk.
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
Please feel free not to read the thread and not to post on it if you feel it is BS. I would like a sensible adult discussion about a serious topic.
We've been here before. You post some nonsense or other, then whinge about not getting serious replies, then you start asking questions that you think might be contentious...... all the traits of a troll...... do you know what happens to trolls..... we put them in a little box, take them to the vets and have them put down.
Get my drift?
bit harsh blue, couldn't the vet 'fix him' instead?
Quote by hateitorloveit
That isn't all I am interested in. I want to be open to please a partner in other ways. But this is a feeling I have inside. Just wondered how normal it was. If anyone else feels the same.
is there such a thing as normal when it comes to sex?
life would be very boring if we all liked the same
Quote by davej
Why do you not think it is abnormal Dave? Should I not act on these desires?
nope didn't say it was abnormal, I said that it wasn't normal as in, wasn't normal n the sense of being mainstream, it might seem like splitting hairs, but it's important that you don't take what I said as being a condemnation.
I see nothing wrong with you acting on your desires with willing, informed and consenting partners, but I do think that you are gonna have to seek those through more focused and resticted avenues such as clubs and websites that cater for your needs which are clearly more specific than most folk.
I was the one that said it was abnormal.....and in my opinion it is.....having rough sex with a woman until you make her cry and i assume that isn't with desire!!
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
bit harsh blue, couldn't the vet 'fix him' instead?
Sorry no, vet bills are very expensive, here at SH we are mean bastards, it is cheaper to shoot the feckers than it is to seek behavioural therapy for them
:lol: :lol: :lol: Quote by da69ve
Why do you not think it is abnormal Dave? Should I not act on these desires?
nope didn't say it was abnormal, I said that it wasn't normal as in, wasn't normal n the sense of being mainstream, it might seem like splitting hairs, but it's important that you don't take what I said as being a condemnation.
I see nothing wrong with you acting on your desires with willing, informed and consenting partners, but I do think that you are gonna have to seek those through more focused and resticted avenues such as clubs and websites that cater for your needs which are clearly more specific than most folk.
I was the one that said it was abnormal.....and in my opinion it is.....having rough sex with a woman until you make her cry and i assume that isn't with desire!!
why would u want to make someone cry?
interested to know in what way cry? cause shes hurting? not many women cry if they are enjoying sex, very odd
if someone made me cry thro sex i'd prob knock them out lol 
:roll:
Sex God
Quote by da69ve
Why do you not think it is abnormal Dave? Should I not act on these desires?
nope didn't say it was abnormal, I said that it wasn't normal as in, wasn't normal n the sense of being mainstream, it might seem like splitting hairs, but it's important that you don't take what I said as being a condemnation.
I see nothing wrong with you acting on your desires with willing, informed and consenting partners, but I do think that you are gonna have to seek those through more focused and resticted avenues such as clubs and websites that cater for your needs which are clearly more specific than most folk.
I was the one that said it was abnormal.....and in my opinion it is.....having rough sex with a woman until you make her cry and i assume that isn't with desire!!
and believe it or not there are folk that actually enjoy being treated that way.
My point in trying to answer the guy sensibly is illustrated above. to explore his desire to the degree that he wants to, he will have to look outside of this arena and get involved in a much smaller and more singularly focused group. His actions and desires are abhorrant to you da69ve and may well be to me, but I thought I might have a go at opening it up a bit, perhaps given the direction the threads going, it was a poor choice, but as someone else said earlier........there's fuck all on the telly.
Quote by davej
Why do you not think it is abnormal Dave? Should I not act on these desires?
nope didn't say it was abnormal, I said that it wasn't normal as in, wasn't normal n the sense of being mainstream, it might seem like splitting hairs, but it's important that you don't take what I said as being a condemnation.
I see nothing wrong with you acting on your desires with willing, informed and consenting partners, but I do think that you are gonna have to seek those through more focused and resticted avenues such as clubs and websites that cater for your needs which are clearly more specific than most folk.
I was the one that said it was abnormal.....and in my opinion it is.....having rough sex with a woman until you make her cry and i assume that isn't with desire!!
and believe it or not there are folk that actually enjoy being treated that way.
My point in trying to answer the guy sensibly is illustrated above. to explore his desire to the degree that he wants to, he will have to look outside of this arena and get involved in a much smaller and more singularly focused group. His actions and desires are abhorrant to you da69ve and may well be to me, but I thought I might have a go at opening it up a bit, perhaps given the direction the threads going, it was a poor choice, but as someone else said earlier........there's fuck all on the telly.
He asked people if it was normal.....i explained that is was normal for him,if he didn't like someone's answer he should not ask the question!.....but you are right some people do like that sort of thing....i think this borders on the very dangerous in the sense that if if wants to hurt someone during sex....how far is he prepared to go!!
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Quote by da69ve
He asked people if it was normal.....i explained that is was normal for him,if he didn't like someone's answer he should not ask the question!.....but you are right some people do like that sort of thing....i think this borders on the very dangerous in the sense that if if wants to hurt someone during sex....how far is he prepared to go!!
and there lies a whole other thread, cos what ever we do in life we get tired of and seek that extra little bit of edge, bit of excitement, bit of involvement. Having never wanted to be either dominant nor dominated, I have no experiances to give me pointers, I'm guessing that for some folk consensual domination might not be enough and that a degree of non consensual action, however small is a desire, it's at that point that it's gone too far. I wasn't backing the guy, I wasn't condeming the guy, but I would have liked to hear a bit more from him for no other reason than his thoughts seemed far removed from yer mr and mrs average.
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Look, people, can I ask a favour?
If I start a thread that offends someone, could you please let me know very early, before you have to take me to the vets and either have me put down or have my knackers removed?
Thanks very much in advance.
Can I ask a favour in return??
What relation are you to a member called quicky??
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Quote by meat2pleaseu
got to say, it's just extrapolating ..................
Do you need tablets or cream for that? :shock:
Dave_Notts
no, but you might need some when debs & FB catch you
OI! leave me out of this :shock:
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
we never did find out if he got his cock sucked or not
Hardly likely - I reckon he was barely fifteen.
I read through this thread earlier and decided at the time to say nothing
but I have to agree with the majority here that causing pain during sex
is unecessay, sex is meant to be an pleasure and a joy to both parties
not a lesson in pain.
thanks guys of the forum for standing up for what you all thought was
right and not have a laugh for once.
lisamarie
but I have to agree with the majority here that causing pain during sex
is unecessay, sex is meant to be an pleasure and a joy to both parties
not a lesson in pain.
thanks guys of the forum for standing up for what you all thought was
right and not have a laugh for once.
lisamarie
Quote by LisaMarie
I read through this thread earlier and decided at the time to say nothing
but I have to agree with the majority here that causing pain during sex
is unecessay, sex is meant to be an pleasure and a joy to both parties
not a lesson in pain.
thanks guys of the forum for standing up for what you all thought was
right and not have a laugh for once.
lisamarie
that depends entirely on your preferences :twisted:
However the sort of sex mr HorL is describing doesn't sounds like the sort of naughty fun between two kinky people that leaves marks.
It sounds like an insecure, unimaginative man who needs to degrade people in order to bolster his self esteem.
If that's really what he's after, HateItOrLoveIt he should stop looking to forums for validation that he's not going to find, and go out and get on with it.
You sound like a normal man,
But when you are wide awake its up for fun.
I agree sex needs to be different and exciting everytime
but sometimes it nice to just lie there and enjoy it.
lisamarie
But when you are wide awake its up for fun.
I agree sex needs to be different and exciting everytime
but sometimes it nice to just lie there and enjoy it.
lisamarie
